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Lifestyle Dominant offers special submissive a place to be.

I am a highly experienced lifestyle dominant seeking a special woman for a committed D/s relationship with the expectation that it would lead, eventually, to a Master/slave relationship. This relationship would be characterized by an exceptionally high degree of intellectual and emotional rapport, and by romantic love.

This will be a deeply mutually committed relationship, but it will not be a relationship between equals. I will command and your prompt, loyal obedience will be a given. That said, you can feel very confident that you will not be abused and that your well-being, in all its aspects, will not be intentionally endangered.

A bit about me: I'm single, in my fifties, six feet tall, Caucasian, weigh a bit over 200 pounds, and have a beard. I have been in long-term Master/slave relationships before. I have no STDs and neither should you, although I would consider someone who had long-dormant herpes or a comparable condition. I am a nonsmoker and you almost undoubtedly should be as well. (I think that smokers smell bad.) While I enjoy a bedtime glass of brandy or wine, I am drug-free and you should be as well -- although mild 420 use would be acceptable to me. I am well above average in terms of my emotional stability and emotional maturity, and I have many long-term, well-developed friendships. I'm a very good listener and a very good communicator. My friends have described me as very trustworthy, courteous, couragous, decisive, compassionate, accomplished, highly creative, and more than something of a brainiac.

In addition to D/s, my BDSM interests include but are not limited to strict bondage, clamps, nipple play, knife play, spanking, paddling, caning, hair pulling, face slapping, and calling you names. I will train you in how I want you to speak and act. I may sometimes want to switch roles at least somewhat, but there will never be any doubt as to which of us will be kneeling to the other at the end of the day.

Please understand clearly that I am non-monogamous. That said, I am quite capable of, and experienced regarding, being in an emotionally committed primary relationship, and if I make an agreement with you regarding something like safer sex practices you can trust that I will keep it. I will not insist on monogamy from you (I will also not insist on non-monogamy from you) but you will need to obtain my specific permission prior to engaging in any sexual/bdsm activities with another person.

A bit about you: It would help, a lot, if you were smart, as in really smart -- as in smarter than almost everyone you know. You may have been told in the past that you are a little too much for most men. While you are not perfect, you are basically emotionally healthy and usually have a positive attitude. You are probably more extraverted than introverted and you are usually comfortable in social situations. I don't require that you be super-model thin, but you must be able to cross your wrists behind your back and comfortably keep them there. (They'll be spending a fair amout of time in that position.)

You know yourself well enough to know that you yearn to serve, submit to, please, and belong to a man who is emotionally capable of being your master. You know yourself well enough to know that, for the right man, you really want to do this even if doing so would sometimes be deeply personally challenging. You know yourself well enough to know that being in such a relationship would enhance your well-being and make you more fully what you already are.

You genuinely like cocks. You enjoy using your hands on them and you happily suck, rim, and swallow. You enjoy getting pussy-fucked, and face-fucked, and you take it up the ass like the little bitch that you are.

I understand, and prefer, that you would also have a life outside of our relationship. I have no desire to keep you emotionally or socially isolated, and it would be fine with me if you wanted to compare notes about what we do with other female slaves/submissives -- and knowledgeable others. It's not a deal-breaker for me that you have children. I am not offering to support you economically, nor do I expect that from you.

Your submission and service will extend to outside the bedroom. Consistent with your external obligations, your duties will include domestic service, administrative support, and assistance on some of my projects.

While this would not be a relationship between equals, it would be a relationship between to humane human beings who are strongly committed to protecting and serving each other's well-being. Human beings in such a committed relationship know that the other person sometimes needs, among other things, empathetic listening, emotional support, and occasional forgiveness for the genuinely repented, non-egregious screw-up.

Hopefully, you've read this far and you're going, "Oh God, yes! Please let this guy be for real." If that's the case, contact me. Let's find out, slowly, how closely we match.

cincinnatislave
 
 Age: 39
 Lincoln, United Kingdom