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Strong, intellectually oriented, successful international businessman, I demand the very best out of those with whom I surround myself, both professionally and personally. My style is open, NOT that of a micro-manager. I expect from those who serve me the same as I expect from myself; namely – that they will seek continuous growth in order to constantly expand their maximum potential. I will expect no less from a s/sub.

I have never spoken with a successful athlete who said they had been “trained.” Instead, they always say that they are “in training.” Training NEVER ends! It is a continuous process. The initial training of a new s, typically a year or more, is only the beginning. As long as the s want’s to continue developing, it must continue training. I view the D/s relationship in regard to training as very similar to that of the athlete and their trainer. The experienced trainer understands that the athlete should not be pushed too far too fast or it will be detrimental to the goal of maximizing performance. However, the trainer knows just how far and fast the athlete can be pushed and the trainer keeps the athlete right at that edge all of the time, pushing the athlete beyond what they believe they can do.

The successful athlete also knows that there is no gain without pain and therefore accepts pain and sometimes even injury as the price to be paid for achieving peak performance. This requires courage and determination. The same is true for the s. To excel as a s, requires pain and the s must have the courage to face its fears. That is made possible by absolute trust in the trainer D. The wise D knows how to balance FEAR and PLEASURE, PAIN and ECSTACY, which becomes a powerful motivator in moving the s on to higher and higher levels of performance.

I have the highest respect for a well trained s. Most see them as weak, but in reality it takes great courage, determination, self discipline and self control to live the life of a s in a true D/s relationship. To willingly surrender ALL to another, over and over again with each new day, holding nothing of its self back. That is indeed gutsy. I never demean or humiliate a s simply for being a s, but do so for any failure to be all the s it can be all of the time. Such humiliation, both private and public, comes in effective and liberal doses for the purposes of training, discipline and punishment.

My standards are extremely high. Only s’ who have thought through well their decision are open for consideration. I have no interest in any whose commitment falters along the way. I see the D/s relationship as one of TPE, wherein the s is dominated at all times on all levels, Will (Emotionally), Mind (Intellectually) and Body (Physically). Far too many D’s do not understand this balance, seeing the physical as being all important and paying only lip service to the rest. It is this balance that allows a s to grow and flourish, far exceeding its expected capabilities and limitations.

I demand total loyalty from the s. I return the same loyalty in that every action of mine toward the s is intended to continue the development of the s into a greater, more valuable s. Such demands can exact a high price, but for the s that wants nothing more than to serve, please and benefit its one D, that price is well worth the price.

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Princessmandy87
 
 Age: 23
 ABUJA, Nigeria