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o I'm new here and generally new to the lifestyle. I'm going for 100% honest here, so you can get an idea of where I'm at. Raised extremely conservative, so was a late bloomer. As I explored my sexuality more and more I realized that I was much more satisfied when I was in control. That's when I started to suspect that Domination was my niche.
That said, I've only experimented, but have no practical experience with the more complex aspects of BDSM. I'm looking to learn, and am as open-minded as they come. I can laugh at myself, and I don't offend easily. I'm open to trying a wide variety of things, but there are some hard limits, as I know what I like and dislike:
- I generally prefer to Top, but I've got no problem with switching in this regard.
- I am not a sub, it just doesn't work for me. Although this doesn't mean I'm not open to being mandhandled a bit in the heat of passion. A spank, a pinch, a shove, a yank are all fine.
- Feedback is the biggest turn on for me. Auditory and tactile by far the most important, with Visual close behind.
- I have very little experience with bondage, but am willing to learn. Ropes and clamps, whatever you need to get into the mood.
- A hard limit for me is being humiliated. While I don't get offended, it's just a huge turn off and is a quick way to kill any interest I may have had in you.
I have two major fetishes, but I'll keep those a secret for now. Gotta keep some mystery here.
As for me as a person, I'm a geek through and through. I value my intellect above all else and I value it greatly in others. That said, I never look down on anyone. I am highly empathic and so I am great at seeing things from other peoples perspectives. I don't judge, don't look down on anyone and expect the same from play partners.
It strikes me that I've blathered on for a while now, so I'll leave it her. Shoot me a message if anything I've said so far strikes your fancy.
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