I seek a man who NEEDS a Dominant Lady, an independent and capable woman. I will not struggle for control. You give it freely, you crave it, or you find someone else. Pain is not my thing, USUALLY. I am NOT playing when I dispense pain. For punishment, I TAKE great satisfaction.

I have been where you are, so I understand your needs, perhaps more than most. I WAS a submissive for many years. I enjoy submissives that are talented in the areas of domestic service, foot worship, maid service, a handyman, and an errand boy.

In public, I am VERY old fashioned. I am a lady and want you to be a gentleman always. Knowing something about the strictness and rules of the Old Guard will serve you well with me.

My vanilla life includes cooking, reading, working on my business. I also love to travel. I'm not very good at just sitting around doing nothing. I love going places, and seeing new things.


A perfect afternoon is rewarding you for my house being so clean and fresh with a play session, and then an afternoon in the park with my you, and my (large) dog, a picnic lunch, and some nice Merlot. A delightful afternoon indeed.


I am seeking ONLY submissive men who are not married, not living with anyone, engaged, in a committed relationship, not dating ANYONE that would be hurt, in other words, not cheating on anyone. I know this may seem redundant, but hey, this is the Internet. Truthfulness, and character are THE most important qualities that I seek. Everything else comes after that. You KNOW you. If your character, or truthfulness is an issue, if this is NOT YOU, then do not waste OUR time.