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My thoughts on D/s

Its not just about kinky sex although that is a great added benefit.

Just because a person has the "tools of the trade" ( Floggers, Crops, Wax, Canes, cuffs, rope ) does not make him a Dominant. It just makes him kinky.

A D/s relationship begins in the mind. A true Dom draws the submissive to him by his actions not his words.

Submissiveness isn't taken, its freely given after the Dominant has proved himself to his submissive.

I don't like being called "Sir" or "Master". We are on equal footing but with a slight mental edge

It takes work like any other type of relationship. Sometimes even more so if you include others in your playtime.

Sometimes Dom’s also get lost. Life isn’t easy all the time and its tough sometimes to “Stay on top of your game”.

I don’t like organized groups. WAY too much drama for me. I like to keep it simple and fun.

A Dom can and should be romantic. Although this is a D/s relationship a woman needs to be treated as a woman. Besides, caresses / Holding hands / Cuddling and small gestures showing how you feel are a wonderful thing.

The basic building blocks of a D/s relationship are the same as any other relationship. Honesty, trust and commitment. With out those 3 your just wasting your time.

A Dom should always look out for his subjects best interests. Physical and mental.

I'm looking for that one who shares these same values. If it turns into a Long term relationship all the better.

And please, If you have a problem with honesty or reality please don't contact me. I've had enough of that to last a lifetime.


One last thought:

"Be the change you wish to see in the world"

Maya Angelou

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GypsyPony
 
 Age: 23
 Lawrenceburg, Indiana