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Predators and abusive Dominants are everywhere. Ive seen them and been subjected to them in a casual relationship. Thankfully I escaped into a kind and loving relationship that I wouldnt trade for the world. But how do you know the person you are with is an abuser and not just a strict Dominant?
Im going to give you 10 Red Flags that can indicate you are with an abusive person. This is nowhere near an exhaustive list. There are many many more flags out there. See the list of other essays below if you want a more in depth article.
Are you afraid of your Dominant?
Do they threaten to leave or abandon you if you dont submit?
Do they threaten violence if you dont submit?
Does the Dominant give you expensive gifts to get you to do something you dont honestly want to do?
Have you gained or lost a lot of weight while being with the Dominant? (this does not include intended weight loss or gain)
Do they make you feel guilty if you cant or wont do something?
Does the Dominant make you feel ugly and unwanted?
Have you ever felt like you have been raped after having sex with the Dominant?
Do they ignore your needs, such as medical treatment, food or clothing?
Have they ever questioned your loyalty when you question their behavior?
Play safe out there friends! Xoxoxoxo
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| Age: 28 |
| Alexandria,
Virginia |
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