Have you ever noticed there are three kinds of people on this site when it comes to sharing pictures. The most prevalent type is the person who places a photo in the profile. Then there is another type that does not share a photo in the profile and will not share one right away. Then then there are those who demand a photo and cam verification that you are a real person or couple. I have a a piece of advise for all those missing out because your immediate criteria is not met right away.....relax....be happy....it's an online chat site for goodness sake!

Yes I know there are fakes out there who claim to be couples and are single men, claim to be women and are men, claim to be men and are women, but are you sure you want to pass up the chance for a good connection because you are so radical in your "get to know you process" that you stop talking to someone because they can't cam instantly? Really? How desperate must you be?

Courage, courage is an excellent character trait to possess. Courage to look into the mirror and tell yourself the truth. Courage to admit when you are or have been wrong. Courage to open a message.....and read a different point of view.

This is a message I just sent to a disheartened submissive. Even on an online forum, protocol should be followed. This lifestyle was created with a foundation in discipline, integrity, respect, and honor. It is high time We Dominants who remember the old ways begin to correct the protocol and pass along to the next generation of Dominants the time honored discipline and protocol of this life.

Message reads:

Please understand....Us old timers would never show such disgraceful disrespect. If you wish to gain respect, you must give it. We old time Dominants understand that to own a woman you must behave in such a way that she will have complete faith, respect, trust, and loyalty to you because of your character. If you are to have a  loss of faith...lose faith in the vanilla men who use this site as an excuse to abuse women or elevate their low self image as a Man.

Here is a conundrum. I read the profiles of many of the submissive females on this site who are seeking someone experience, stable, and trustworthy. Yet, they are not interested in speaking with Us gentlemen who are more mature in this life. More mature equates to more experienced, more stable, and hopefully more trustworthy. Although I will concede that the age of an individual does not necessarily make them more trustworthy. I have been with women who were more than 20 years my junior, trained them, and granted them release when asked because I completely understand Wwe are in different stages of life. Ladies, this realization comes with maturity. What you are loosing out on in not considering a more mature Dominant is a mentor, teacher, and experience trainer to give you a bench mark when seeking your long term owner.

Those who read this post, please share your thoughts. I would be most interested in hearing what others think on this subject.

It boggles my mind that in the context of polite discourse many choose to ignore conversation. I wonder at times if these individuals would, in a public setting, ignore someone who politely said "good morning". Social manner rules apply whether the two individuals meet causally on the street or in an online chat forum. I completely understand the treatment rude and abusive comments and communication receives. However, I am puzzled at why individuals who choose to participate in an online "chat" forum ignore polite, considerate conversation.