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Hetero Male Master, 49,  Hampton, Georgia
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< style="font-weight: bold; color: #990000;">Former resident of Columbia, SC, it's where I was when I started my kink journey many long years ago. I relocated from Columbia to Graham, NC at the end of January, 2009 and moved up the road a bit into Burlington in August, 2011. We closed on a house in Hampton, GA, and are in the process of moving in.

I have been active in the Leather and BDSM scenes locally and regionally (US - Southeast, and Southwest primarily) since early 1998. I am the < style="font-weight: bold; color: #990000;">Treasurer and Webmaster for the Leather History Preservation Foundation, < style="font-weight: bold; color: #990000;">< style="font-weight: bold; color: #990000;">and < style="font-weight: bold; color: #990000;">an Associate Member of The Charlotte Tradesmen. I served two terms (2013-2017) as Sergeant-At-Arms of the Southeast Conference of Clubs, and was the Founder of T3WD (This Thing That We Do), a pansexual BDSM education and support group in Columbia, SC. If you are looking for information about the Leather & BDSM scene, and groups in and around the Carolinas, Virginia and Georgia I will be happy to share what I can.

I am in a committed marriage with MsToriJones. We as a couple, are poly-capable, but neither of us as individuals, nor together as a couple, are looking for any kind of romantic or sexual relationship at this time.

However, someone < style="font-weight: bold; color: #990000;">< style="text-decoration: underline;">local < style="color: #990000;">< style="color: #000000;">(and by local I mean within a two hour drive or less from the Burlington, NC area[until April 30th, and/or Hampton, GA after April 6th]) with a genuine desire for a service relationship may be considered as a slave for a < style="text-decoration: underline;">< style="color: #ff3300;">houseboy/boi/girl/grrl or < style="text-decoration: underline;">< style="color: #ff3300;">yardboy/boi/girl/grrl position. Room & board and occasional SM play could be part of the relationship. More might follow if there is mutual interest.

Size/weight/age/sex/race are non-issues as long as you are healthy and physically able to do housework and yardwork. Mental and emotional health are musts. Don't come to me expecting me to "fix" < style="text-decoration: underline;">your problems. I am not a medical or psychiatric professional, nor am I God. I will gladly help someone in service to me deal with issues, but I am < style="text-decoration: underline;">not the cure.

The house/yard slave would be free to pursue educational and employment opportunities outside the home. They would, in fact, be encouraged to take advantage of those opportunities.

Keep in mind that I am a Dominant and sadist. I expect honesty and obedience, and if you are not a masochist, why in God's name would you want a relationship with a sadist? I am also an exhibitionist, I like to play with an audience. I am active in the BDSM community as a group leader, presenter and activist. If you don't want to be outted, or you are shy around a crowd, this might not be a good position for you.

I'm also a realist, if you have questions or concerns about something I tell you to do, ask. I don't expect you to read my mind. On the flip side, don't expect me to read yours!

< style="text-decoration: underline;">< style="color: #ff3300;">Brats and SAMs need not apply, I have no patience for a partner who can't honestly communicate their needs to me. If you need your ass beat, tell me, don't act out. It's part of that < style="text-decoration: underline;">< style="color: #ff3300;">communicating with your partner idea.

If you are still reading at this point and are interested in learning more, drop me a note. I will gladly provide information on Leather History Preservation Foundation, Southeast Conference of Clubs, the Tradesmen, T3WD, the Tarheels, Greensboro Floating Munch, La Fortress or NCSF, and personal references, upon contact and request.











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 Dominant Male



 6' 1"

 235 lbs






 Lives For:

 Public Play

 Lifestyle BDSM


 Amusement Parks (Expert)

 Movies (Expert)

 Renaissance Faires




 Canes and Crops


 Electrical Play

 Local BDSM Community

 Hair Pulling

 Knife Play

 Massage (Getting)


 Needle Play


 Spanking (Expert)


 Role Playing Games (Expert)

 Science Fiction (Expert)

 Tattoos (Beginner)

 Old Guard (Beginner)

 Classical Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Rock Music

 Show Tunes


 Anal Play



 Fire Play


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 Mental Bondage

 Plastic Wrap

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 Sensory Deprivation

 Suspension (Beginner)

 Wax play

 Arcade Games

 Board Games

 Card Games


 Chess (Beginner)

 Online Chatrooms

 TV Sports

 Web Surfing


 Alternative Music

 Blue Grass


 Eighties Music

 Electronica / EDM


 Industrial Music


 New Age Music

 New Wave

 Nineties Music



 Seventies Music


 Horror Movies

 Folk Music


 Punk Rock Music

 Curious About:

 SCA (Beginner)

 Cages (Beginner)

 Fisting (Beginner)


 Opera Music


 Hard Limits:

 Country Music

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2/5/2018 12:08:30 PM
OK, I'm going to admit it right here.  I have never understood the people who post "I'm a Worthless Piece of Trash" and similar comments on their profiles.  As if someone is supposed to find this sexy/schmexy/attractive/something.

Really?  I'm not going to pull off the side of the road to pickup a piece of trash unless I am participating in a cleanup/beautification project.  I'm sure as hell not taking it home. 

But the flip side of that is that old adage "one man's trash is another man's treasure."  People stop using and then discard perfectly good things because they want "New Shiny!"

But that doesn't make what is discarded worthless.  It isn't REALLY trash.  It's more of a commentary on the character of the one who throws out perfectly good things. 

If a person ties their own sense of self-worth into how others see/use them, then they are buying into that other person's values, not standing for their own.  Just because someone else no longer believes you are of value and has cast you aside, doesn't make that valuation true or real for anyone, EXCEPT that person.  It certainly isn't an absolute truth.

Rather than being a "worthless piece of trash" you are a treasure, you have value that has yet to be discovered and appreciated. 

2/29/2012 11:59:00 AM


This proposed amendment to the NC Constitution is NOT just about "Gay Marriage".  It will effect het couples who are not married, it will effect the elderly who have caretakers that are not spouses or blood relatives, it will force employers who do business in multiple states that recognize domestic partnerships to either change their human resources/benefits structure in NC only, or leave the state.  IT IS BAD LAW.  Put it on your calendar and get out and ROCK THE VOTE!

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