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In manner of thinking, so you say, cannot be approved. Do you suppose I care? A poor fool indeed is he who adopts a manner of thinking for others!
~~~~~~~~~Marquis De Sade~~~ The Masochist desires to experience stronger sensations, but desires that it should be inflicted with Love. The Sadist desires to inflict stronger sensations, but desires that it should be felt as Love. -- Unknown I do have one full time submissive female (picture attached). However this profile is for me; rather then us. profile: http://.com/users/540749 About I said the dead man talking in the mirror: I/we are currently seeking primarily submissive females or switches for myself and if all parties agree and click then we can move forward with that. However, all people regardless if they are Dominant/Submissive,Bisexual/Straight/Pan sexual/ homosexual are encouraged to contact me. So check out my profile and drop me a line {#}Oh happy, happy, joy, joy!! This is where I get to over indulge my ego on how I want the world to view me. Well for the most part I am a 35 year old Single Father of two wonderful young children. This is very time consuming as most single parents know. My two off springs are the ONLY people I am submissive to or desire to be submissive to at this time. They are my foundation and my inspiration. Providing a secure path for my off springs is my number one priority even when it comes to the lifestyle. However I am not interested in the “normal vanilla” life, it does nothing for me. I seek erotic and kinky moments and high intense excitement of the flesh. I am hedonistic and thrive in chaos but disciplined enough to stay on track and accomplish goals. I wouldn't hold the degree that I do if I wasn't focused! I have been involved in the BDSM lifestyle and community for over 15 years. I go in phases and I will get really active then I will drop out of the scene like I died. So some people may have seen me around while others may think I am new. Once you get the chance to actually carry a conversation on with me you will seen I have spend many years crafting my art. I am Dominant by nature and the role suites me well. I enjoy being in control and find it amusing to push people limits both physically and mentally. I am a sadomasochist and enjoy giving and receiving pain. I have been called extreme sadomasochist but I simply like to believe I only step it up a notch. I am also brutally honest and I have no issues with forgetting manners and kindness for the sake of Honesty. I am very good at being on your mind, under your skin and in your heart. Some of my favorite past times are electric play, bondage, anal play, mental mind fucks and Sensory deprivation. I enjoy biting, slapping, spanking, canning and flogging. As a Dominant I refuse to be naive to the feel of toys we play with. I think it is important for a Dominant to understand what a submissive goes through. I have been called a pain slut but I do not desire submission. I enjoy pushing ones physical limits and expanding ones mental limitations. I have been known to kneel before certain strong Women. It is an extremely rare occasion that you see this Bull submissive thou. I do have some submissive stories that will either make you excited or scared maybe both. I enjoy the personal interactions and dynamics D’s relationships have and the Social interaction in the BDSM lifestyle offers. I find it is important to defend your lifestyle so you force the vanilla world to open their eyes. I enjoy the WIITWD and have work for the WIITWD civil rights for several years. I strongly believe in Gay/lesbian/bisexual and pansexual rights. I believe polygamous relationships should be legal. I do find them personally very complex thou-good luck for those who find that and make it work!
I have a huge tolerance for mistakes, people being naive and learning periods. I have absolutely no tolerance or respect for ignorance or lying. Besides the BDSM lifestyle I am a swinger as well as Polyandrous. I do not believe sex or love is necessary restricted by each other. In any relationship I am in there must be compersion with in each partner to be able to handle and enjoy the dynamics I present. I am a seeker of experience. I crave new experiences and feelings which is one of my reasons I enjoy the BDSM lifestyle so much. I have been known to eat over 100 hits of Acid just for I could experience the madness it brings. I have traveled with the Grateful Dead for 3 months, I have eaten glass for shits and giggles (not sure if I would do that again). To me; it is extremely important to keep moving and avoid stagnation. I seek change and growth, with out those things I feel life isn't worth living. On a vanilla aspect:
After ten LONG years of working at various jobs like prison guard semi-driver and machine maintenance for different factories I finally put myself through college and. I am currently working for a non-for profit Community Support Program that helps dual-diagnosed mentally ill clients function in society and do volunteer work on the side, when I have time. During my job I assess and analysis peoples strengths and weakness and work with Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). I am attempting to wrap up my Masters degree in Social work and Sociology, however that path is on hold at this time. A side project I spend time on is working on research for Chaos theory and how it affects society. I enjoy a wide range of activities. In my eyes it’s not what you are doing but who you are doing it with. But to answer the question, you can typically find me at the YMCA, at home watching a movie or playing a video game, or going out and playing pool.
I enjoy take walks, riding bikes, picnics in parks, camp outs in the woods, and other common every day explorations of life and its wonders. I like going to dinner, dancing even thou this white boy really can't dance), movies or just staying home and popping in a movie. Some of my more Normal hobbies or past time leisure’s are: Working out, Disk Golf, Magic the Gathering card game, Video Games, and camping.
However I can also dance with the devil at night and let loose and enjoy more adult hedonistic activities. I typically don’t go to bars often but I will if the mood is right.
I would like to consider myself very open minded however that’s a matter of ones views, which being open to different things allows me to explore more of the world.
I love my mountain dew I am hooked on it, trying to stop thou, wish me luck!
I tend to be busy working or taking care of my house and helping my kids with their lives. What the hell are slaves for anyways? Someone remind me!
Some people say I like to debate/argue but you won't see me disagree. I love debating. I’ll take the side of the Catholic pope if I think it will create a conversation.
If you have got this far, drop me a line, don’t be shy. I am also seeking an artist to finally do my first piece, I know what I want just haven’t found the right artist yet. I do love to party which surprises many people since I do social work. I like helping people that doesn’t mean I don’t like to get butt naked and wild when time allows!
I like to think that I can be funny however I know I am extrovert open minded and friendly. When I first meet someone I try to be reserved.
My pet peeves are: People who leave dirty ashtrays around and don’t refill ice cub trays! **It has came to my sad attention that it is extremely crucial for me to lay this out for people. As stated above I am a Polyandrous Dominate Swinging Heterosexual Male. If you have any insecurities in your life and you can not work them out peacefully and respectfully with me when they arise. You have no business being around me or talking to me. There is a big difference between behavior and emotions and it is important for one to be able to separate the two. I am a very passionate and caring man that welcomes the warmth of love however I have no problem with the bitter coldness off being alone and will chose that over a bad relationship. If you feel it is perfectly acceptable for you to play with others when you desire, for you to bask in the warm shallow light that comes with attention but get your feelings hurt when I am in the spot light. Stay the fuck away from me. To my sadden state I have discovered many people who are drawn to this lifestyle are extremely hypercritical something I can not withstand in my relationships. Taking a hypercritical stance with me is the quickest way to lose any connection you have. So to avoid drama and reduce tension, if this is you simply move on. If you can NOT control your behavior and allow lust, greed or insecure feelings to affect how you interact with me, I will not be good company for you. I have little tolerance for immature and reckless behaviors on my personal time. Sub ann: "You're 4 drag queens and 2 gay men trapped in a straight womans body" This is how my roommate lovingly describes me... So to say I'm a fashion whore, drama queen on leash would be an understatement. I personally don't like drama but I will finish it if it's brought to my door. I am emotionally driven yet know what I want realistically and will die trying to get it. I'm a flirty, fun woman who loves a good time with good people. With that said... I am exploring my poly side. I have a great Dom who I am under his consideration. If you would like to contact me I would appreciate contact be made with him first!!! This is a requirement if you haven't been added to my friends list before we started dating. It's just basic respect for O/our relationship. If you don't understand that please don't waste my time. Now on to my not so boring "vanilla" side... I'm in school for cosmetology. If you don't know what that is..... I LOVE TO DO HAIR!!! It's almost a kink to me! I am obsessed with making people feel like rockstars... But I also love giving people a soft natural look that compliments them. Anyway, I could go on forever about that!!! So I have a great group of friends that know what I'm into. They're just confused by it, which is cool, but sad because who do you talk to when they just don't get why I love to be covered in bruises... Well you come to I guess... I can be insanely silly when I'm with my friends and my kids... So if we make friends look out it could be funny... I'm random in case you aren't getting that from this... So I'm gonna rap this up... I really look forward to connecting with more kinksters locally as I have not been in a group in many many years and it would be nice to be able to relate to others on many levels and not feel that I have to hide this side of myself. So I took the quiz... But it told me what we already know... Duh... So Hi, I'm Ann and I'm a Submissive... hehehehe You Scored as Submissive
Submissive 93%
Experimental 79%
Masochist 79%
Degradation Lover 75%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur 75%
Bondage 68%
Sadist 54%
Switch 39%
Vanilla 18%
Dominant 11%
5/15/2011 9:12:53 AM

While digging through old reports and papers I found a 3 year old test score from a test designed to place the test subject into one of the 16 personality types commonly accepted by the mental health profession.

Now I dont personally believe one test will say all there is about someone, however if you know me; I think you would agree with my test score. If you want to get to know me better; well keep reading!

(This was a 563 multipule choice test if memory serves me well)

I scored as a ESTP;

Portrait of an ESTP - Extraverted Sensing Thinking Perceiving
(Extraverted Sensing with Introverted Thinking)

The Doer

As an ESTP, your primary mode of living is focused externally, where you take things in via your five senses in a literal, concrete fashion. Your secondary mode is internal, where you deal with things rationally and logically.

ESTPs are outgoing, straight-shooting types. Enthusiastic and excitable, ESTPs are "doers" who live in the world of action. Blunt, straight-forward risk-takers, they are willing to plunge right into things and get their hands dirty. They live in the here-and-now, and place little importance on introspection or theory. The look at the facts of a situation, quickly decide what should be done, execute the action, and move on to the next thing.

ESTPs have an uncanny ability to perceive people's attitudes and motivations. They pick up on little cues which go completely unnoticed by most other types, such as facial expressions and stance. They're typically a couple of steps ahead of the person they're interacting with. ESTPs use this ability to get what they want out of a situation. Rules and laws are seen as guidelines for behavior, rather than mandates. If the ESTP has decided that something needs to be done, then their "do it and get on with it" attitude takes precendence over the rules. However, the ESTP tends to have their own strong belief in what's right and what's wrong, and will doggedly stick to their principles. The Rules of the Establishment may hold little value to the ESTP, but their own integrity mandates that they will not under any circumstances do something which they feel to be wrong.

ESTPs have a strong flair for drama and style. They're fast-moving, fast-talking people who have an appreciation for the . They may be gamblers or spendthrifts. They're usually very good at story telling and improvising. They typically makes things up as they go along, rather than following a plan. They love to have fun, and are fun people to be around. They can sometimes be hurtful to others without being aware of it, as they generally do not know and may not care about the effect their words have on others. It's not that they don't care about people, it's that their decision-making process does not involve taking people's feelings into account. They make decisions based on facts and logic.

ESTP's least developed area is their intuitive side. They are impatient with theory, and see little use for it in their quest to "get things done". An ESTP will occasionally have strong intuitions which are often way off-base, but sometimes very lucid and positive. The ESTP does not trust their instincts, and is suspicious of other people's intuition as well.

The ESTP often has trouble in school, especially higher education which moves into realms where theory is more important. The ESTP gets bored with classes in which they feel they gain no useful material which can be used to get things done. The ESTP may be brilliantly intelligent, but school will be a difficult chore for them.

The ESTP needs to keep moving, and so does well in careers where he or she is not restricted or confined. ESTPs make extremely good salespersons. They will become stifled and unhappy dealing with routine chores. ESTPs have a natural abundance of energy and enthusiasm, which makes them natural entrepreneurs. They get very excited about things, and have the ability to motivate others to excitement and action. The can sell anyone on any idea. They are action-oriented, and make decisions quickly. All-in-all, they have extraordinary talents for getting things started. They are not usually so good at following through, and might leave those tasks to others. Mastering the art of following through is something which ESTPs should pay special attention to.

ESTPs are practical, observant, fun-loving, spontaneous risk-takers with an excellent ability to quickly improvise an innovative solution to a problem. They're enthusiastic and fun to be with, and are great motivators. If an ESTP recognizes their real talents and operates within those realms, they can accomplish truly exciting things.

Jungian functional preference ordering:

Dominant: Extraverted Sensing
Auxiliary: Introverted Thinking
Tertiary: Extraverted Feeling
Inferior: Introverted Intuition

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