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Dominant aggressive sadist searching for true pain/humilation slut. |
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Please see my entry bout not sending out more than a simple greeting. You dont bother reading it anyway and if you do your too lazy to reply back. Therefor Im not wasting my time putting together a paragraph opening letter. |
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Ok Im kinda sorta looking, meaning Ive been on this site long enough to know its 90%bs 5% fakes, flakes and fruitcakes so while yes I would like to find a slave odds are its not going to be here.
Now Im looking for a FEMALE slave anywhere from Mobile to New Orleans. Im not going to do long distance or half a world away crap.
NOT interested in anybody in the state of Georgia.. been there done that burnt the tee shirt.
I dont do the prostitute sub/slave shit... you know those that say"Ill be your slave you can do whatever you want as long as you give me money, or buy me shiny shit." works for some, not me.
Oh and to you that whine about you want a message thats more than a few sentences. NOT gonna happen.. why would I waste that much time sending you a well thought out email for you to not bother reading, not bother responding or just deleting it cause big words confuse you. If Im interested youll be doing good to get more than three sentences. |
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..and another one gone, another one down.. another one bites the dust. |
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"Morality is a fiction used by the herd of inferior human beings to hold back the few superior men." Friedrich Nietzsche |
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Is this the spamdiner of the net? |
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A true Master understands that this is about more than just tying someone up or being able to smack another person with a cane. Its about a bond between two people. A Master rules,guides as well as controlls all that is his.
A slave, a true slave takes and accepts her Master. The good, the bad , those things she loves as well as those things she hates about her Master. A slave looks for her Master for leadership, guidance, as well as love. She willingly and unconditionaly gives herself to that Master.
Yet to me a true M/s relationship is about trust. Not the I trust you will do as your told superficial trust but more the deep unwavering trust that when life gets ugly that no matter what happens that slave will stand behind her Master. And she knows that He will always look after and watch over her.
This life is more than just about kinky sex or being able to hang someone upside down.
I think for the most part what I am looking for isnt here. Most are just looking for kinkysex, to live out some fantase or sex/abuse for a free place to stay and some shiny things.
I believe there is more to it than that. |
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Are there no female slaves that are NOT bbw? I know there are Masters that like large women, but there are those of us who do not. |
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No I don't write long emails. While I am highly educated I find it a waste to write a nice formal email when your never going to read it nor will you reply back. |
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I think this place is the state of Georgia of the internet. |
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IM Glad to be the hell outta Georgia. Im loving being here at the Beach. Weather is great people are Friendly and social. As far as Im concerned you can sell off Georgia. People in that state have the iq of a turnip.
Now Im looking for a female, slave in the Gulfport area to have some kinky fun with. Looking for one that does NOT weigh more than my van. Should be moderately intelligent decent in the looks department. If your into that rap music or thinking your gangsta we are NOT going to work.
I am experienced, intelligent and in shape. Ive lived in a few different states along the east coast and now Im here at the Gulf where I plan to stay for a bit.
So look over my profile, email me back if you fit what Im looking for and Ill get back to you.
Ps. Understand I am looking for real time only not looking to spend years doing the chat phone or online crap. |
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Ok finally got out of that slice of hell called Georgia. Now Im here settled in Gulfport ready to find that masoslave. |
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Any thing other than fakes, flakes and wackadoodles here? |
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Ive been on this site for any number of years. I left for a while then came back mainly because well I live in Georgia, in the Atlanta metro area and theres not a whole hella lot of kink or D/s minded people here unless your gay, lesbo and/or in the closet about it or your ghetto rap wanna be.
I get aggravated that theres not more real D/s here in Georgia so I came back here, only to find that here on collarme its spam, pros or 50shades of fantasy. |
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anything besides fakes and flakes here? |
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Let me know when they put all the wackadoodles back in their cells. |
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This email came to me from another Master(Master333) who as you can tell is educated and actually knows how to write a letter. I gladly pasted for all to read with his permission.
It is further proof that I am not the only one facing such issues with subs/slaves.
Hello,
Amen and Touché! I just read your latest post about these so called “slaves” and “submissives” deleting without reading your messages … it happens all the time to me and other Dominants, especially if you write an articulate, coherent, thoughtful and serious message of more than six lines. The always say, do not send me a one line message or copy & paste message … they like to say they love to write, intellectual discourse and reading and good conversation … I have never seen such an overwhelming collection of intellectually deficient “people” who aggravate it with poor manners and unethical conduct … I say people, because not all female slaves or submissive women on here are adult women who are 18 years and older … some are ‘creepy’ old men or teen age boys and under age girls. ***
The problem is on these BDSM websites they have degenerated in the last two years. Now there are too many fakes, frauds, wannabes and juvenile delinquents playing silly immature games and pretending to be what they are not ... too many bitches trying to sell videos or their services or promote some other website … too many damn Africans running fraudulent scams!! ***
As for intellect and being for real and genuine … forget it … maybe about 20% are real; and most of these so called “slaves” and “submissive” women have no idea what etiquette, respect, protocol, manners or courtesy is all about … hell, they do not even know what slavery, submission or BDSM is truly all about. I dropped the paid BDSM sites, I am only here because it is free, but I shall leave this pathetic site soon before December 31, 2012 at the latest. ***
When you write, pretend you are addressing an immature, self-centered and not very bright 16 year old high school drop-out who thinks she knows everything. |
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Ok this is a repeat of an earlier entry. I just deleted 3 pages of emails that I sent out that the slave/sub I sent it to wasnt educated enough to actually open it and read it. Now most of the subs/slaves on here somewhere in their profile have about a page worth of "If your going to email me dont do a one line note or send a cut/paste form letter." Which is all well and good but wtf is the point if your never going to read it or respond to it?
Next up: Wtf happened to etiquette? I get short messages with things like "Your still here? or Do you actually work?" Most of these I dismiss as wackjobs. It would be nice if instead you wrote something like "Hi Im a wackadoodle from wackyland and I couldnt help but notice that your on for a bit." |
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Checks the webaddress.. yep says collarme.com so wtf is up with all the people thinking this is match.com? And for you bored housewives that got all warm reading 50 shades of grey.. try E.l.jamesauther.com. |
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two yahoo chats and two confirmed scams . |
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Having gone profile surfin again I gotta ask..WTF is up with all the guys posing as slaves/subs. You know the ads that have "looking for online humiliation, no cam, no pics, no phone and not looking to meet. Nine times out of ten thats some bored guy looking to play online.
Are there no more real female slaves that truely want a real time 24/7 M/s relationship Or is this just another out let for all the bored suburbanites? |
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word of the week.. enlightenment.
- The act or a means of enlightening.
- The state of being enlightened.
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$ select * FROM singlewomen WHERE
kink_level > 1
AND IQ > 120
AND awesome =1
AND actuallylikeme = 1
AND location=near_me
AND totallysuck !=1
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we come up from the gutter from the wrong side of the tracks. been city to city all around the world yes been city to city all around the world. You know it never looked like enough honey even after 30 years.
You know we aint too good lookin but we are satisfied. No we aint too good lookin but we are satisfied. SHoulda opened a little whorehouse get a little booty on the side. |
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...OK I know my last couple postings have been rants so Im gonna try posting something different. I am a 39 year old Sadistic Master with over15 years experience. If you want to know what I look like or what Im interested in read my profile.
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Ill take "heres a clue" for two hundred:
Heres a clue if your a sub/slave and you have more friends on your profile than you do info about yourself Im gonna pass you by. That many friends on your profile means your either a. pass around slave or your a cyberslut. Neither of which is very interesting.
Bonus round if you have contact me on my yahoo messenger id chances are Im writing you off as yet another scam. |
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Those few of us that are true to this way of life need to start weeding out those that are not. Those that when you read their ad makes you think your on some vanilla dating site.Then ones that read:" I want a Dom/Master/Domme that will love, charish and honor me for the rest of my life". Bleh sounds more like a greeting card than a posting on Collarme.
And can we please bring back manners. I know not every body is for everybody but would it really fucking kill ya to send back a reply saying Thank you for your email but I dont think your what Im looking for. Or something. |
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I sit here and try to write something positive yet cant think of anything. Here lately every time I log on it looks more like match.com or worse. I catch these profiles demanding that they receive a well thought out, non form letter along with a pic. Yet half of them cant read, dont know how to write properly or never respond back. Those that do respond back are only looking for money. |
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I suspect that I am looking for that which does not exist. |
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What happened? between the spam,pros and those that got lost on the way to match.com it looks like this is just another dating site instead of a kink site. |
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Pleasure is the object, duty and the goal of all rational creatures. |
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$ select * FROM singlewomen WHERE
kink_level > 1
AND IQ > 120
AND awesome =1
AND actuallylikeme = 1
AND location=near_me
AND totallysuck !=1 |
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Again Im reminded of some of my journal entries.Every slave has a list of shit she wants a potential Master to do before shell even think about responding. Yet half of them either dont or cant read, have a shit load of misspelled wordsand grammar issues. I guess proper writing went the way of evolution. Deader still is the act of actually reading and responding to emails. |
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A woman should be bound, and given a lashing with either the cane or belt every day least she forget her position in the relationship. |
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Happy F&%kin birthday to me.. Now where's my slave to give 40 lashings to? |
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I flip through profiles and often find myself thinking *Damn someone really got lost on the way to match.com* or some other vanilla dating site. Too many profiles read like a really bad chick flick. Chick dreams of prince charming riding up on his magical unicorn kisses her on the forehead and they ride off to never never land to live boring yuppie lives in cookiecutter suburbia.
My script goes more like Aggressive Sadistic Master rides up harley, smacks her upside the head knocking her out throws her on back of motorcycle to carry her off to his dungon where she spends the rest of her days being sadisticly and unmercfuly tortured for my sick pleasure. |
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OK no offense but if your 18 to 24 how much experience can you really have?
I keep reading profile after profile that says "Im looking for my soulmate." thats about like saying Im looking for happiness or sucess. You dont go looking for it You should be looking for someone who has the same desires and interests. A soulmate isnt instant or guaranteed. |
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Abandon All hope ye that enter this site.
Sad when you have more people on the block list than on the friends list. |
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I dont get you retards that spend your whole profile bitching and yelling about dont send a one or two line message yet delete emails sent to you without having read them. |
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Greetings;
SHould you take the time to look through my profile you will find that I am a 38 year old Sadistic Master with well over 15 years experience. I have been on collarme for several years so I am not new to the spam, drama, or other non sense that goes on here.
However I still hold out hope that there is a few true, real people on here.
I am seeking a female masochistic slave between the ages of 24 and 35 years of age. You should truely imbrace the M/s lifestyle as Im not looking for bedroom kink or to live out some kink fantase. Servitude, pleasure, and pleasure from pain should be things you truely enjoy.
Understand that I have worked hard to have a good home , decent life and truely enjoy what I have. However I will take my time and make sure that you are exactly what I am looking for before I allow you into my home.
I eat right, exercise and try to take good care of myself. I expect the same from my slave, meaning if your two or three hundred pounds with no desire to get in shape or to take care of yourself Im not really going to be interested in you. |
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Punishment is correcting misbehavior. It’s a penalty imposed on the slave for wrongdoing. It’s used after the slave has displayed bad behavior to: 1) demonstrate to the slave that her Master is displeased, 2) show that the behavior was unacceptable and her actions have consequences and 3) provide reinforcement for a change to proper behavior.Punishment focuses on behavior, intentional or not. Because behavioral modification is important; punishment can be administered to the slave if the bad behavior is unintentional. However, the method and severity of punishment may very depending on if the behavior was intentional or unintentional. The slave may not like the consequences that her Master applies, but she accepts them because they apply to her and are for her betterment. Punishment should always aim to improve the slave's behavior. Punishment does not always involve corporal punishment. Punishment is anything administered by the Master that is very uncomfortable to the slave for the purpose of changing behavior. It could be having the slave stand in the closet, go to bed early, restriction of privileges, ignoring her, caging, bondage, or many other forms. f the slave is a heavy masochist, then something other than corporal punishment might be warranted. It goes without saying, that punishment is not intended to be fun or provide pleasure. A slave should not be allowed to misbehave to fulfill her masochist needs and never rewarded for bad behavior. Don't let what you intend to be a punishment be a reinforcement for bad behavior. Being placed behind the couch in the living room or den for an afternoon can teach her a valuable lesson. If she makes a noise or disrupts you in any way, her time behind the couch can be extended. The use of physical bondage is not necessary, using mental bondage by instructing her to remain quite, still and out of site. In general, the more she loves pain, the less it should be routinely applied as punishment and the more care it takes in administering pain as punishment. |
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Im not here for games, drama, or to debug you from whatever issues you have or that you received from others. Drama is for tv and books.
Understand that if you ask me a question I answer it honestly and openly. It is just how I am. I have no time nor use for the bs that goes on. I do my best to try and be nice to those that I talk to but I do have my limits. |
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Did you ever have a moment.. that moment where things go so good you just wait for the @%@#% to hit the fan. You go along thinking things are good, rainbows and sunshine then wam everything goes to hell in a handtruck.
Yea well I really hate those moments. Yet I have learned to expect them. |
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A true Master understands that this is about more than just tying someone up or being able to smack another person with a cane. Its about a bond between two people. A Master rules,guides as well as controlls all that is his.
A slave, a true slave takes and accepts her Master. The good, the bad , those things she loves as well as those things she hates about her Master. A slave looks for her Master for leadership, guidance, as well as love. She willingly and unconditionaly gives herself to that Master.
Yet to me a true M/s relationship is about trust. Not the I trust you will do as your told superficial trust but more the deep unwavering trust that when life gets ugly that no matter what happens that slave will stand behind her Master. And she knows that He will always look after and watch over her.
This life is more than just about kinky sex or being able to hang someone upside down.
I think for the most part what I am looking for isnt here. Most are just looking for kinkysex, to live out some fantase or sex/abuse for a free place to stay and some shiny things.
I believe there is more to it than that. |
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shit that just cracks me up on here:
A ?slave that writes she enjoys Kink as long as her ?Master? buys her shiney things, and allows her to stay home and do nothing all day. Dunno what planet your from but it isnt this one.
The slaves that go on and on about wanting someone with experience and skills to be a true Master then want that same Master to be between 19 and 24 years of age. You can muddle your way through a lot of things and you can get on the job training for some things.. but in this lifestyle if you dont know what your doing and try to fake it you can hurt someone really bad. Now yes there are a few younger Masters that have grown up in the lifestyle but thats very few. Most times their looking to live out some kink fantasy and/or looking for a quicky.
slaves that have pages apon pages in their profile about how they want a Master to write them a real email, no one liners, no cut and pastes but a real, detailed email. Yet most times they themselves either never bother to read the email, delete it with no reply or just ignore it.
slaves that have page after page of friends on their profile Tells me that they've been around the block several times and arent really looking for serious just wanting to play.
slaves that put contact me at this email address or yahoo address and we can talk more. thats nothing more than a scam. Along with all the white skinned slaves/subs that are in Africa. |
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Explain to me this.. why should someone go to the trouble of writing a email, send it only to have it either deleted unread or to get no reply at all. WTF happend to manners. ya read the damn thing, and at worse case send a thank you but no thank you reply. |
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Im not looking to be your friend, your boyfriend , your husband or any of that nonsense. I am an Evil Sadistic Bastard and I enjoy it. Inflicting pain and hurt on a female slave is entertaining to me. |
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Now that thats over we now return you to your regularly scheduled beatings. |
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1.Trailer Park Troubadours-_-Merry_Christmas_from_the_trailer_park.
2.Corey Taylor xm@$
3. Porn Orchard-_-Christmas_sucks.
and the best one of all
4. Fear-_-Fuck Christmas |
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Is spam the only thing left? |
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A so another year has come
Another year older and only getting meaner
This year I will find a true slave, whore, slut
to take, break and make into my slave.
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Looking for real female slave only. Not looking for cyber, roleplay or any of the other craigslist bs. |
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Punishment is correcting misbehavior. It’s a penalty imposed on the slave for wrongdoing. It’s used after the slave has displayed bad behavior to:
1) demonstrate to the slave that her Master is displeased,
2) show that the behavior was unacceptable and her actions have consequences and
3) provide reinforcement for a change to proper behavior.Punishment focuses on behavior, intentional or not. Because behavioral modification is important; punishment can be administered to the slave if the bad behavior is unintentional. However, the method and severity of punishment may very depending on if the behavior was intentional or unintentional.
The slave may not like the consequences that her Master applies, but she accepts them because they apply to her and are for her betterment. Punishment should always aim to improve the slave's behavior.
Punishment does not always involve corporal punishment. Punishment is anything administered by the Master that is very uncomfortable to the slave for the purpose of changing behavior. It could be having the slave stand in the closet, go to bed early, restriction of privileges, ignoring her, caging, bondage, or many other forms. f the slave is a heavy masochist, then something other than corporal punishment might be warranted. It goes without saying, that punishment is not intended to be fun or provide pleasure. A slave should not be allowed to misbehave to fulfill her masochist needs and never rewarded for bad behavior. Don't let what you intend to be a punishment be a reinforcement for bad behavior. Being placed behind the couch in the living room or den for an afternoon can teach her a valuable lesson. If she makes a noise or disrupts you in any way, her time behind the couch can be extended. The use of physical bondage is not necessary, using mental bondage by instructing her to remain quite, still and out of site. In general, the more she loves pain, the less it should be routinely applied as punishment and the more care it takes in administering pain as punishment. |
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Discipline is training employed by the Master to teach proper behavior and obedience. Discipline is described as instruction and exercise; training, whether physical, mental or moral. Generally the time spent training your slave to kneel, stand, speak and so on is defined as discipline training. It is also training to adjust attitude. One of the uses is to teach and practice proper behavior.
Punishment is correcting misbehavior. It’s a penalty imposed on the slave for wrongdoing. It’s used after the slave has displayed bad behavior to:
1) demonstrate to the slave that her Master is displeased,
2) show that the behavior was unacceptable and her actions have consequences and
3) provide reinforcement for a change to proper behavior. |
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I am not looking for a bf/gf relationship that has kink tendancies, nor do I seek to live out some fantase.
I am a Master seeking a true slave. One that understands a M/s relationship. |
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Obedience is the goal. Practised constantly, it is the only mentality and thought, that will allow a potential slave to develop into her slavery. A slave's only pleasure is from obeying. These principles allow a slave to obey, at all times and in all circumstances. Living by the Principles both provides for becoming a slave and living as slave. Embrace these Principles. Find ways to occupy your whole life with them. That is My purpose, and yours.
A slave never asks permission, nor is permitted the use of the word "may." Either of those expressions implies that the slave could want something that the SlaveMaster does not. The SlaveMaster's response then becomes one of either acquiescing to the request of the slave or denying the request. Since a slave only wants and needs what her SlaveMaster wants and needs, there can be no conflict and the slave only asks the SlaveMaster's intention regarding the activity of the slave. |
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Yes I am an evil, sadistic, bastard that doesnt just play on the darkside, but rather took up residency there, Ive been here quite a while. Inflicting pain, humilation, and suffering makes me smile.
Journal entry 9/9/2006 and yet Im still asking that same question. |
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Well, The truth about a mirror,
It's that a damn old mirror.
Don't really tell the whole truth,
It don't show what's deep inside.
Oh read between the lines,
it's really no reflection of my youth. |
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Yet another failed attempt. This site has the largest user base yet the amount of those true to the life is slim. Yes I am demanding, yes I am sadistic, yes I am strict surely there is 1 true slave that needs, wants, the complete package. |
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Is there one true slave out here? one that knows, understands and accepts her place? one thats not into headgames, years of drawn out email/onlinechat but truely wishes and wants 24/7. |
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Whatever happend to reading and ANSWERING email? I just love sending out an email and either it never gets read, or it gets read and no reply is sent back.
Guess the manners option hasnt been turned on. |
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Time for an update. I am back on the hunt. I am looking for that Slave that is a painslut,loyal, trustworthy, obedient, and understands her place.
I am NOT a sub, do NOT have any such tendancies, desires or wish to be one. |
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yes its been a long time since ive wrote anything in here so I figured it was about time I did. I been doing a lot of thinking here lately. Events have happend that I dont think I was totaly prepared for. Ive been on collarme for a while now, looking for the one. Ive had a couple near misses, a few that were nos, I had one that lasted 6 months and I truely believed something and didnt find out to recently that I didnt mean nothing. Yes it cut and cut deep but life does go on and I wish her much happyness.
Most recently I had one that choose to judge from afar and thats cool I cant change how things are done. So whats my point? My point is alot of shit happends in life most of it bad, but ya know what Life goes on. |
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amazing the amount of people that want to be friendly in your face yet fail to have the honor or pride to step to you when they have issues but rather they like being old hens cackling to each other around the hen house. |
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I guess i need to clearfy something since its not being read correctly. IN my last journal entry i said 5 days have passed.. that doesnt mean ive been here only five days but that its been five days from the last entry i made on here where i said i was on the fence about this site. ANd for the record just because imade that statement doesNOT mean that i have no patience.. so skip the preachyness and highholyness, it only gets ya put on block. |
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5 days have passed and im still leaning towards unplugging from here. Maybe my standereds are just too high, or maybe I just want too much. Either way I wont back down. The search continues |
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Well im now on the fence about the site. I was contacted by someone on this site. seems alright and mostly what i been lookin for but im not gonna get excited just yet. NEver know what may happen tomorrow. |
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I have to say im rather dissapointed, ive been on here almost 2 weeks and all i seem to be getting are role players, and want to bes. Few people on here seem to accept this as a way of life |
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