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Pan Female Dominant, 40,  CountrySthAust, Australia
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Old-school Lifestyle Mistress seeks alive-in slave. Emphasis on Old School, Emphasis on Lifestyle. This means I take control of your sex and your finances. Everything else tends to fall into line after those two. I am asexual, particular and intelligent. I highly value conversational skills, intelligence and good manners. I know what I want and have no wish to compromise. I am highly intolerant to bullshit of all kinds. Im a Sadist primarily - I like making people uncomfortable and Mistressing is a convenient way to channel that.

I seek a slave that is capable of being all things to me - slave, house-bitch, driver, companion, attendant. I know this is a big ask, but that is what I want. If its too big a job for you, move on.

A few points to keep in mind before approaching me

1) I want a live-in slave. A full time, permanent slave.
2) I do not live in Adelaide - I live a few hours from Adelaide
3) You are living for me, not sponging off of me.I expect you to be employed, at least part-time, or have some other reliable and regular source of income, and you can expect that income to be controlled by me.
4) You exist to makemy life easier better. Mine, not yours. Especially not your cock. Dont make your first questions to me about your cock or my pussy.
5) Intelligence conversation skills are absolutelynecessary requirements.
6) Expect full time chastity. For lengthy periods of time.
7) I expect direct contact quickly, but genuinely. No chatrooms, but real-time, real-life conversation. I wont accept calls from private or blocked numbers - I give you my number, you give me yours

In any of the above points are beyond your abilities, move on already now. If you are going to contact me, only to disappear again shortly, save us both the bullshit. Both males and females are welcome, but egotistical, wanking fuck-wits are NOT welcome.

Theres no sexual contact of any kind with me, ie no breast or ass or pussy worship, but you can expect me to plunder your hole at will.

And just to prove that youve read this far, make sure you start your messages with 1519. If you want Me to read what youve written, then you have to read what Ive written.












 Dominant Female



 5' 6"

 100 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive female

Sub / Slave Male

 Lives For:

 Violating your rear

 Keeping you locked in chastity


 Punishing your male parts

 You being my domestic servant

 Mental Bondage

 Needle Play

 Dominating you with a strap-on

 Punishing you with hot wax

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Old Guard

 Victorian Lifestyle


 Hearing you beg

 Blindfolding you

 Disciplining you with a cane

 Locking my slave collar on you

 Punishment enemas

 Eye contact with me is not permitted

 Public Exhibition

 Fisting you


 You doing all of the housework

 Knife Play

 Leashing you

 Subjecting you to medical exams

 Training you to be completely
obedient to me and only me

 Treating you like an object

 Total control over your orgasms

 Maid / Butler Service

 Public Play

 Sensory deprivation

 Using spanking to keep you obedient

 Giving you speech restrictions


 Disciplining you with my whip



 Intellectual Discourse




 Female Supremacy



 Confining you in rope or chains

 Locking you in a cage

 Giving you corner time facing the wall

 Fire Play

 Hair Pulling

 Locking hoods on you

 Humiliating you

 Sensation Play

 Immobilizing you in plastic wrap

 You worshiping me in stockings

 Tickling you while you are bound



 Paranormal Phenomena




 Being Massaged


 Foot Worship

 Pantyhose Fetish




 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Rubber Fetish

 Hard Limits:

 Body Worship

 Breast Play

 Oral Service


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Journal Entries:
12/8/2013 2:10:15 AM

He came into My world for a short time and it was fucking beautiful.  But now it seems the real world has taken him back to reality and away from Me.  He will be greatly missed.

10/9/2013 6:15:15 PM

He messaged properly.  I replied.  We swapped numbers.  We talked.  He visited.  It worked.  I own him.  NOT FUCKING DIFFICULT PEOPLE!!!!!

2/18/2013 4:48:30 AM

So that was Sydney, huh?  What a complete waste of My time and someone else's money.  Note to self: Will NEVER return to Sydney!

10/5/2011 4:02:36 AM

How fucking hard can "thanks, but no thanks" be?!?!

Is it the horrendously draining process of moving the mouse & clicking on the "reply" button that is such a struggle??

Or is it that there are far too many time-waters and losers on here that simply cannot finish what they start??  Perhaps the burden of their own BULLSHIT becomes too much bear...

1/7/2011 2:48:33 AM

Am trialling a new tactic - it's called the "Bugger The Screwing Around, Let's Get To The Point" theory.  You think you can serve Me?  Then let's talk straight away IN PERSON, ON A PHONE & get to the real point - who is wasting who's time??

12/15/2010 1:33:46 AM

So many people, so little sincerity...  *sighs* how very disappointing & painfully common.

12/5/2009 3:12:45 AM
An interesting conversation I've had this evening.  A delightful sub in Germany shared his thoughts on punishments & I have to agree with him.  I'll paraphrase a little, but he essentially said that he "would never see it (punishments) as abuse, as he likes the punishments & would see it a way for Mistress to show her love to the slave.  A Mistress can show that she loves her slave & be kind to the slave by giving him rules, which offers him more ways to please the Mistress".

Rather an interesting take on things, particularly as it appeals to the sadist in Me.  To show love or affection thru humiliation, degradation, pain infliction...  that's My kinda love!!

1/18/2009 6:21:01 AM
Still seeking staff for My household - have had numerous enquiries & some even sounded remotely promising, but alas!  they have mainly evaporated when the time came to be vaguely serious or genuine - a common lament on here!!

10/23/2008 7:44:43 PM
 RE: Staff Wanted

The positions I have available are as follows:

FULL TIME (ideally 24/7):
*  Cook - must be flexible, creative & cater to a range of tastes & needs that may occur in My household

* Butler/Driver - must be available around the clock for any of Mistress's needs

* Dressmaker - must be VERY creative & willing to work with unorthodox materials.  This may possibly be the most trialling of positions available with Me.

* Gardener - someone who is familiar with cultivating seasonal herbs, vegetables & fruits.  I've no use or patience for flowers.

* Animal Handler - I've a young, energetic & oversized dog that requires frequent grooming & LOTS of play and exercise. Energy required for this position!!

* Furniture maker - I've many highly specialised plans in My head & require someone to make them a reality.  I'm fussy, picky & know what I want & how I want it.  Expect your temper to be tested in this position - if something isn't to My specifications, I'll want it re-made and I don't take no for an answer...

* Electrician - this is only for a few small projects - nothing major.  At least, it doesn't seem major to Me!

* Metalworker - this position is in conjunction with the dressmaker.  I've got a few outfits in mind that will require metal elements.  I'd like to make the dressmaker's life just that little bit easier by getting someone to assist.

Some positions may be able to be combined, but that's at My discretion, NOT yours.  Don't presume that you can be all things to Me.  I assure you that you can't.

Where possible, I encourage you to have a part-time outside job as well, so that you are not a drain on the household's finances.  On the contrary, I expect you to contribute to the household's finances.

Get in touch with Me for more info.

10/2/2008 8:05:29 AM
*sigh*  For those who cannot put two & two together, this is for you:  I don't do monogamy!  It's poly all the way for Me!

I'm creating a poly household.  If you are uncomfortable with this, then I'm not for you & you certainly aren't for Me.

9/20/2008 8:35:53 AM

Number One way to amuse Me: not read My profile properly, send Me a message, get a taciturn reply from Me, then send a poorly spelt attempt at a swipe at Me & then quickly block Me, so I've no right of reply.  Do you feel safe behind your little "block" button??  What an absolute joke you are!!

9/15/2008 8:12:59 AM
I've adopted a fabulous little pain monkey!!!  What a delightful distraction he provides for Me!!!

8/30/2008 11:08:50 PM

*sigh*  After a time away, she returns to My life.  I welcome her back gladly & feel the universe is restored in its balance.  God I've missed her!

8/20/2008 1:48:13 PM
There appears to be some confusion:  whilst yes, I've FINALLY found an exceptionally good slave for a lot of My needs, I don't believe that one can cater to ALL the various needs I might have.  So I am still most certainly seeking further subs - either live-in or part-timers to compliment My household.  If you're interested at all, by all means, get in touch with Me.

7/30/2008 6:04:43 AM
And so it continues at a breath-taking pace...

7/21/2008 9:46:09 PM
The wrong time.  The wrong sex. And yet... somehow.. it fits.  Like a glove.  Like it should.

7/14/2008 1:35:09 AM
A flick of the keyboard & it is done.  Severed, gone, no remorse.

As they move on, so must I, it would seem...

7/13/2008 5:22:20 AM

Months since she scorned me & still I can forget her not.  She lives in my head, my heart, my desires, my dreams...

6/29/2008 4:45:37 AM

Such frustration.  Such insincerity surrounds me.  Such fraudulent beings swarm.  How have I unwittingly encouraged such bullshit?!

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