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Please do not message me if you have not read my profile.
I'm not going to go on about what I'm looking for, because I'm not seeking something sexual or romantic, so please do not message me. I'd like people within the lifestyle to socialize with, possibly learn with, and if more comes from it, that's great. Not looking with that in mind, though. I'd really like to get involved with the community in my city, but I'm intimidated about going alone. I have found through these messages that most people here are quite intense and interested in immediately signing me on into a relationship, long distance or otherwise--I'm sorry, I'm not here for that. Not ready for it. Please respect this.

I'm a theatre major at the moment. I'll be transferring to a university, but I don't know where and I don't know what for. My interests are vast and varied. I'm still discovering myself. I love to get excited about things. I'm a geek, I attend conventions, cosplay, I have played a few table top games such as Dungeons and Dragons and one that was similar that was set in the Marvel universe. I have attended a few SCA events. I like to like things. I enjoy myself wherever I am, and I feel this is a choice. Whiners, complainers, and people who otherwise only have negative things to say...we just won't mesh well.
I'm a girl of many contradictions. I'm am sensitive, emotional, but also highly logical. I do my best to be agreeable and liberal but favor justice over mercy. I am infallibly friendly, but picky about my actual friends--I haven't had many, and I don't chose to associate with toxic individuals who have only negativity to contribute. I'm intelligent and intend to always further myself, but I don't feel like I need to be pretentious in order to convey this. I enjoy Sherlock Holmes, Dickens and Flannery O'Connor, but I also enjoy Dexter, True Blood, Doctor Who and other awesome nonsense television. In some respects, kinky, in others, classy (I feel there is a time and place for each). I am prideful and independent, but also have a strong and lasting interest in submission.
However, I'm never going to be a slave. I'm not interested in 24/7 anything; I have my own life, family, interests and ambitions, and I'm sorry, but I'm just not the sort to live entirely for the purpose of sex and servitude. I have received more than one message telling me that I'm wrong, that it is 24/7. Many people interpret the lifestyle as that, I understand, but I do not. I am also a feminist, and completely disinterested in anyone that thinks that submission is a woman's "place". I am not inferior to anyone because of my urges, and if you disagree with me, it's really quite easy to just not message me. Really, just a click of the back button.

Just as a preface to our possible future communication though, internet lingo, the refusal to attempt the bare minimum of capitalization, and disrespect are three things I would appreciate not seeing in any message you may send.

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Bhadkoko
 
 Submissive, Age:  29
 Berlin, Germany
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