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Evangelyne

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Hmmm, I just got here. I'll have to update this when I have more time.

Update: Ah, my favorite subject?me. Actually it?s hard to describe yourself isn?t it? I guess that?s why people are always saying ?well, my friends would say I?m this and that?.? I should start by saying I?m not a ProDomme and have no interest in your money.? Oh, you?re so excited about that aren?t you? Shesh, men are so cheap. Well, before you fall in love I should mention that not being a ProDomme means I can be very selective. I have no interest in fulfilling your sexual fantasies and will not play with you unless I?m attracted to you. You?re not my paycheck. This thing here is all about me, sugar, plain and simple. Yes, I will respect your limits but when we play it?s for my enjoyment, not yours. Also, because I am not a ProDomme or a lifestyle Domme I have many vanilla responsibilities and do not have time to follow you around or have you call me every hour to check in. I am not interested in a slave.? My vanilla responsibilities? I have a full time job, a house, 2 dogs and a cat, family and social obligations, and I go to culinary school at night. I am not going to chase after you. If you are not front and center I will forget you so it?s in your best interest to make the effort to stay in contact with me.

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I am generally attracted to 3 types of men. There are exceptions but as a rule I gravitate towards the very hot, the very smart, or the very successful. Just be very something! If there is nothing to set you apart, you will fade into the background. I have an especially soft spot for Trekkies, nerdy aerospace engineers, and brain surgeons. I enjoy conversations about history, philosophy, religion, archeology, and world events. Obviously the list goes on. I would love to find a submissive man who I could actually have a conversation with.

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Okay, you all want to know what?s in store if you actually meet my requirements. To serve me you will be required to submit to bondage, CBT, whipping, flogging, spanking, nipple torture, anal penetration, long, (and I mean long), periods of oral service, some feminization, some housecleaning chores, humiliation (verbal and physical), cuckolding, and I?m sure I?m leaving one or two things out. I also particularly enjoy giving golden showers and forced bisexuality but do not require it if it is one of your limits. I enjoy role playing and fantasy. I have no limits when it comes to fantasy and will whisper some of the nastiest suggestions in your ear when we are playing. Nothing is taboo in my mind and I only put boundaries on my physical self. My physical boundaries are the usual: kids, animals, scat. I am a natural Domme and have been since I was about 17. I was peeing in my first boyfriend?s mouth before I ever lost my virginity. I did spend about 3 months as a submissive with a very knowledgeable Dom. It was highly enjoyable. I won?t be repeating the experience. The physical side of it was good. I really enjoyed the flogging in particular, but mentally I had trouble feeling submissive. Regardless, it was fun seeing how the other half lives. I?m often asked if I have sex with my subs. My answer to that is I do whatever I want with my subs.

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That should give you a pretty good idea about me.? Am I the perfect Domme for you? Probably. I?m like Mary Poppins, Practically perfect in every way. I am highly selective. Men are always asking why I am not married. The answer is that I really have no use for a man other than as a sexual plaything. I?ve been very lucky in life and very successful in business. Chances are I make more money than you. Chances are I?m your intellectual superior. I challenge you to prove me wrong. There is nothing sexier for me than dominating a man I respect and admire everywhere outside of the bedroom.

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Hello boys. I have received an overwhelming response to my profile and would like to say thank you. It is all very flattering. Unfortunately, I haven?t the time or the inclination to play with all of you. I know you would like a response from me even if I do not think we are compatible but that would take all day so I thought I?d save some of you the trouble of sending me an email at all. Here are the top 10 reasons you will receive no response to your email:

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  1. You are married. Cheating men disgust me and not in a good way.
  2. You live more than 300 miles from my location.
  3. You?re over 45.
  4. You have not included a picture of your face in either your profile or your email to me.
  5. You have included a picture of yourself and I am not attracted to you.
  6. Your picture in your profile is of your penis or, heaven forbid, you actually send me a picture of your penis in an email. Just say no to cock pics. I will make an exception to this rule if your penis is over 10 inches long or if the picture includes some type of bondage or CBT.
  7. Your? email is full of misspelled words and typos. I will assume you are either too stupid or too lazy to proofread. Neither quality is attractive to me. Hint: I have a dominant personality, not a dominate personality. ?I will make an exception to this rule if English is not your first language but if this is the case please see reason #2 before writing to me.
  8. You refer to me as baby, sexy, sweetie?etc. and/ or mention my breasts in any way. I know men think it is a compliment but I also know men are idiots when it comes to what women find complimentary?and so do you.
  9. Your email to me is less than 10 sentences long. How am I to know if I?m interested or not in a case like that? Hello.
  10. You are interested in online or telephone domination. I only play in real time.

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I hope this list will serve to save us both some time and effort.

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6/2/2011 3:46:04 AM

I will never date vanilla again. Ever. What on Earth was I thinking? I learned long ago that I was different from other girls. I know who and what I am. Domina. End of story. The next time a guy sucks me in with conversation about quantum physics and the multiverse I'm going to think friendship, I don't care how cute he is. How am I supposed to have a relationship with someone I can't bind and gag when they're being annoying? And the sex! What the hell was I thinking letting some guy climb on top of me and flop around, humping at me like he's earned the right to even touch me? No thanks. 

 

The problem as I see it is that I'm so unsettled right now. Since my back surgeries I've moved 3 times, just in the past year and a half. I have no play space. I keep saying I'm just going to rent until I find the perfect place and so all my BDSM gear is tucked away, hidden from prying eyes. Although, it was pretty amusing to have the neighbors sitting on a suede bench in my living room, never knowing it was full of whips and canes, floggers and paddles. I really get a kick out of everyone thinking I'm that sweet, cool girl next door.

 

Plus, my girlfriend has taken up residence in my guest room after being evicted from her apartment and shows no signs of leaving any time soon. I even printed her out an application for a nice place she can afford and I'm pretty sure she hasn't even filled it out. Can't really blame her, my place must seem like a dream after her last place. Clean and safe with maid service where she doesn't have to lift a finger. Not a bad deal, I certainly like my lifestyle, why wouldn't she? I really do miss my privacy, though. Ah well, she's my oldest and dearest friend and she could really use a break so what are you going to do?

 

Good news is, I put an offer in on this 100 year old adobe house in Victoria Park. It was built by Francis Abreu and I'm almost positive I've got it. It has so much character. I spoke with a builder about putting a mother-in-law suite above the garage with a separate entrance in case I want to rent it out, which I never will but I didn't want to say, finally, I'll have a place to build my dungeon. I am very excited to have a new project but still, it's going to take probably 8 months of work to get it ready for me to move in. 

 

Think I'll sign off now. I recorded So You Think You Can Dance last night and I'm excited to watch it. So glad it's back on. One of my guilty pleasures.

XOXO

Be good.


8/12/2010 8:58:25 PM
2 things:
James Mogul is the sexiest man on the planet. I don't want to be with him, I want to BE him.
So You Think You Can Dance is my guilty pleasure and I don't care what anyone thinks about that.

8/11/2010 7:59:42 PM
I love the video journals. I can't wait to begin one myself, given how much I hate typing it's right up my alley.
I feel catty saying this and I'm not referring to everyone but I just have to say. Ladies, if you're going to post a video entry, please please please, at least drag a comb through your hair and slap on some lipstick! You only get one chance to make a first impression. Not many of us are so naturally beautiful that we always look fabulous, myself included. I mean, even PugVader knows the value of dressing for the occasion.
Oh, I know I'm going to hear it for this one.

8/11/2010 7:43:15 PM
Someone new to CM wrote me a silly one line email and for some reason I thought to educate him. As I was writing my reply I decided he wasn't the only one who needed to learn. Here is a copy of the email I sent him:
You're sweet so I'm going to help you out here since the mistakes you're making don't seem to be caused by apathy but rather ignorance of the CM protocols.
Dominant women on CM hate seeing a blank profile. We think, well maybe he's not serious enough to take the time to fill it out, maybe he's just lazy, and then of course how are we supposed to know if we're interested enough in you to begin a conversation when you haven't told us about yourself? That is the purpose of a profile. You read mine and decided you were interested. What if, like you, I had no profile and no pic? Would you have written? Will anyone write to you without a profile? Only a domme who is not interested in anything more than money.
Dominant women on CM hate one line emails. It's super annoying. This is not like meeting a woman at a bar where you can just say "Hi". Especially with a blank profile and no pic, you've given us nothing that attracts our attention or draws us in. I responded to you only out of courtesy. Most will not bother. Read some of the journal entries from dommes on here and you will see, again and again we complain about one line emails.
Actually, reading the journals will give you a lot of clues as to what we like and what we don't like. For instance, always read the profile before writing. It's a pet peeve of ours and we can always tell. Some dommes will put in their profile a keyword and instructions to use it in your email. They will delete you if you don't use it.
Always personalize your introductory email. I know after writing so many emails it is easy to get lazy and start sending out a cut and paste spam email to any and all dommes but they are easy to recognize and offensive to a woman who wants to believe you are interested in her. By personalize I mean address her by name, introduce yourself, maybe mention something in her profile that caught your attention. We want to feel special and not like some generic fish you caught with a wide net.
Do not email her with a list of your fetishes and fantasies. (unless it's a prodomme but really not even then). Your profile is where you should list those things.
There are many more tips I could mention but you've already taken enough of my time. Read the journal entries and you will be amazed at the information available.
Unless you are very lucky, this search will be full of fakes and scammers and disappointments. It's the nature of the beast but I would encourage you not to give up, there are real people on this site, you just have to be serious enough about your search to kiss a few frogs. It's much the same as dating vanilla in that respect.
As for myself, you do not meet my requirements and I am not accepting new subs at this time so you should turn your attention elsewhere.
Good luck and best wishes. I hope this information will not only help you find a wonderful domina but really it's my hope that you will not annoy and waste the time of my sister dommes.

8/11/2010 4:08:59 AM
Ok, I really am pissed. Two nights I talked to this faker thinking I'm speaking to the guy in his profile pics. I was really starting to like him. I can't believe he so fooled my faker radar!
You know, if all you're looking for is some sexy chat than either be honest about that or pay the frakking $5 a min to talk to a pro. Don't lie and play with the emotions of someone looking for something real just because you're a cheap ass bitch!

8/11/2010 3:10:37 AM
The only guy on the planet whose cell phone doesn't have a camera, who doesn't have a webcam, and whose internet just happens to go down at the exact moment he's supposed to email a pic taken with his digital camera? Do I look like I just fell off the turnip truck? C'mon!

8/7/2010 1:56:39 AM
Lately, I've been spending a lot of time reading journal entries. I'm laid up in bed, what else do I have to do, right? I click the recent journals button and catch a small glimpse inside the minds of my CM neighbors. I like reading the entries this way because I get to read everybody's posts, not just profiles I might find interesting. So I've been reading journals from doms/dommes, subs/slaves etc. and CM has never seemed so human. Even though a small percentage are about how fake CM has become, it's only a small percent compared to all the real people on here just trying to find...something, someone.
Tonight I saw two postings from a dreamy eyed submissive miss containing inspirational platitudes and sandwiched directly in between those two posts was a slightly raunchy entry from a sub who wrote about how much he enjoys bending over and taking it up the ass. I had to laugh because it was so CollarMe.

8/2/2010 7:05:11 PM
Warning:
MistressSpanksu is lilslaveboi. He just couldn't resist using his alter ego's profile to harass me after I'd blocked him. Proved himself to be the liar and fake I called him right before I blocked him.

8/1/2010 2:46:07 PM
Some subs on here have called me a bitch, some can't believe how sweet and normal I am. That's the beauty of being a woman in my position. I don't have to pretend. If I feel bitchy, I'm a bitch, if I feel sweet, I'm sweet, if I feel like tearing you a new asshole, I do so. At least it's always honest and never boring! Fortunately, I'm not a bitch all the time. I am a lady and generally treat people with courtesy. Until they piss me off. That is when I really enjoy not having to pretend. Don't you hate it when you want to say what you really think but you have to bite your tongue instead? I (almost) never have to do that. It's very liberating!
Don't get me wrong, I don't write to random strangers just to insult them, as so many on here do. I can't imagine living with so much pent up rage that I have to unload and spew venom at complete strangers. That behavior has always mystified me. It seems quite cowardly in a way, since chances are these angry people would never walk up to a stranger on the street and begin screaming obscenities. Only online do they feel anonymous enough to vent their rage.

8/1/2010 2:11:50 AM
My little dog likes to sleep on my legs. Every time I have to get up for a drink or the bathroom, he gives me the stink eye. Like I'm the obnoxious one. The little shit thinks he's the Master around here. I never should have named him Augustus Caesar. Now he thinks he's a god.

OK, I know I'm going to hear it for this one but the more I think about it the more I realize that training a man and training a dog are exactly the same. You punish them when they're bad, reward them when they're good, give them love and affection, strict rules that must be followed, and above all, make sure they're fed and watered. Actually, who am I kidding, I'm a lot nicer to my dogs. But it's true that subs and dogs are happiest when they know the rules and how to please their Masters.

Truth be told, my little dog has completely usurped my control. He gets whatever he wants. He's just so frakking cute! He's the only one who gets to boss me around. OK, him and my mother but she's a very scary woman. Nobody messes with her. Damn, now I'm just rambling on about nothing. Time to sleep.

7/31/2010 7:20:44 PM
I copied this out of MsDesiresPuppets's (who is drop dead gorgeous btw) journal:
"Men as we know are ruled by their tiny cocks and so they will pay for 5 minutes of a Goddesses time and then bitch about it 10 minutes later.
What amazes me is this...have you EVER read a womans journal stating she was ripped off by an online Dom?
I haven't which kinds of makes it obvious you guys have no control over your dicks or your money.If you can't afford to lose it then don't pay it out to some online Princess."

I was just happy to see someone articulate what we have all been thinking.

7/31/2010 3:35:53 PM
Damn, there are some pretty pets offering themselves up on CM this evening. Wonder what's brought the young ones out to play today. Ugh, It's like standing outside a bakery, drooling on the glass window. So many tasty treats and nothing I can do about it!

7/31/2010 3:02:03 PM
So, yesterday I signed the contract on a new house. It's half the size of my present place and I'm going to have to get rid of some of my furniture but that's what happens when your body betrays you and you can't work for 9 months. Oh, how the mighty have fallen. Thank goodness I've always been a believer in saving for a rainy day because it's coming down like cats and dogs around here. Still, I'm in deep mourning for my gorgeous home. And how the hell am I supposed to move in a month when I can barely get out of bed? Man, I'm chatty today. Nice to catch up with my journal though. Thanks for all the emails I've received wishing me well.

7/31/2010 2:51:41 PM
Today I received this email and thought it a perfect example of what I have to work with.
greetings i am a well trained an behaveo kids an can relocate to served servant/slave of over 30 years i am single no kids i can relocate to serve
Thank you, Texas, for that little gem.

7/31/2010 2:28:08 PM

So, I went into my profile to add something, and I was looking at my picture when I realized how cluttered the room behind me is. I just had to laugh thinking of all the times I'd judged someone's picture based more on their surroundings than the actual person themselves. You know what I'm talking about. When you see someone's pic and it looks like the next episode of Hoarders, you tend to form a preconceived notion about them. This whole time folks were probably thinking the same about me! I can say that my pic was taken right after a move so the items you see behind me simply hadn't found a home yet. I'm actually a pretty clean and tidy chick but it just occurred to me how many times we who live in glass houses find ourselves throwing stones. Not two days ago I pointed this out to another CM member who had written in his profile that he believed people who misspelled simple words weren't capable of having a philosophical discussion but he himself had just misspelled the word "dying" in the sentence above! I chastised him for judging lest he himself be judged and here I find myself doing the same. Truth is, I kind of agree with him about the whole misspelled words thing, especially with the advent of spellcheck technology but whatever, I know how to spell "dying".

I really do need to add some more pics. Although I wish people would stop bitching about me wearing a collar in my pic. Who cares? BDSM is not about what you wear, it's about who you are, what you think, and how you feel. It's not all about the costumes and toys. That picture was actually taken during the three months I spent training as a sub. I thought the photo was fetching so I posted it. Does it really have to be more complicated than that? I can assure you, I am just as dominant while flossing my teeth in ratty sweat pants as I am in my full Domina regalia, whip in hand.

Also, to clarify before I get a load of emails thinking I'm a switch, I spent that time as a sub specifically to achieve a better understanding of the sub mind. I know some dominants disagree with me but I honestly believe that you can't be the best Dom until you have been trained as a sub. It's true that even as a sub I had difficulty "feeling" submissive but that doesn't discount what I learned during my training. The feel of the whip, the helplessness of being bound, the pain, the tears, that amazing feeling of accomplishment for being the best slave possible, the pride in the marks left behind, all these things are understood by most dominants but without having experienced them, something gets lost in the translation. Like male gynecologists or a mechanic who has never owned a car. Some things have to be lived through to be truly understood. That being said, I am not a switch. I don't like the word "never" but I really don't have any sub fantasies I'm looking to explore so I don't see myself "switching" sides anytime soon.


6/24/2010 1:19:23 PM
Update:
Surgery #2 done and back in physical therapy. Very frustrated about all the tasty subs I've had to pass up over the last several months. Downright angry about my recovery moving at this snail's pace. If force of will was all it took to repair an injury to the spine I'd be great but unfortunately, I haven't been able to access that mental ability. I have this feeling that if I could only utilize a larger percentage of my brain, somewhere in there is the potential for self healing. Sigh...I have too much time to think on my hands. Thanks for all the messages I've received wishing me well.

4/2/2010 4:44:28 PM
If you can't be bothered to write a proper introduction (meaning more than one word or a half assed sentence) then don't bother writing at all. I cannot abide a lazy, apathetic sub.

3/30/2010 8:11:18 AM
I start physical therapy today. Yea! OK, strange to be excited about something like that but it's kinda the next step towards getting my life back so... Wish me luck!

3/22/2010 10:27:42 AM
Hello all,
Due to a recent spinal surgery, and another planned for next week, I am not taking on any new subs. It will be at least a month, probably longer, before I am back in fighting form. Love you all!
Miss Eva

2/13/2010 12:28:11 AM
More odd behavior from Idiot #1

It's been over 3 months since I last heard from Idiot #1 and out of the blue he sends me this email:

Idiot #1

I want to add to my statement:While I sincerely appreciate your strong interest in me, I don't believe we make a good match. Furthermore, I find you rude and offensive.

Miss Evangelyne

Then why do you keep writing to me after I've asked you not to?

So this guy waits almost 4 months and then picks up the conversation where it left off as though no time has gone by at all. Has he been thinking about our exchange all this time? Did it take him that long to think up that snappy comeback?
Pretty creepy. Who out there thinks this guy needs to get a life?
So, am I rude and offensive? Well, when writing to a Domina it's best not to open with your belief that all female dominants are the victims of sexual abuse. What sort of introduction is that and what sort of response was he expecting, do you suppose? I thought my initial response was quite even tempered considering how offended I was.
So, this guy has the name of a well known sports car in his handle. It would be pretentious if it wasn't so pathetic. Anyway, I'm not going to give away his username but I thought it would be fun to see who can guess which type of car I'm talking about, with a few hints.

#1. Very popular... in the 80's.
#2. Somehow manages to be pretentious and pathetic at the same time.
#3. Notorious for being driven by assholes with tiny penises.

Darn, I think I really gave it away with that last hint. Let me know if you think you have a correct guess.

10/31/2009 12:41:10 AM
Idiot #2
hey nice jugs lady..keep it up..
This makes me wonder. Keep it up? Like keep up the good work? Pretty sure that's gravity's doing not mine.

10/29/2009 12:19:06 AM
I was discussing some of the more outlandish emails I receive with a friend who suggested that I start saving these messages. Might as well share them with the rest of the world.
Idiot #1:
I believe the women become dominants also because of abusive upbringings, being raped or abusive relationships as well.
Miss Evangelyne:
Perhaps, but that is certainly not always the case. Please don't write to me again.
Idiot #1:
While I sincerely do appreciate your extreme interest in me, I don't believe we make a good match.
Miss Evangelyne:
I believe that men become submissive because they have been kidnapped by aliens and so enjoyed the anal probing that they are forever obsessed with being fucked up the ass. Even though their minds were wiped so they don't remember why they are such sluts. I'm so glad we had this opportunity to exchange our most ignorant and ridiculous opinions. I have recently decided to begin posting my most laughable emails and you have earned the coveted number one spot.

10/28/2009 11:55:34 PM
I am interested in LOCAL SLUTS only! That does not mean I am interested in being your entertainment while you are here on vacation. I do not care if you have a cam. I do not care if you may or may not be willing to relocate. I am not interested in you if you are from India, Egypt, Illinois or anywhere other than FLORIDA, preferably South Florida. I am not going to change my mind about this. Do not try to convince me that you are so wonderful it will make up for the fact that you are too far away to actually play with. I do not know how I can be any more straightforward about this but let me try... If you are not from Florida then FUCK OFF!

3/4/2009 8:08:47 PM
My newbie sub flaked out on me. You know, I've always said that women who become Dominants because they've been hurt by a man in the past and think submissive men will be different are fooling themselves. Men are men no matter what side of the SM coin they identify with. They all do their stupid man things and you just have to accept them and love them for it. Well, you do get to punish them for it too and that is a nice perk. Still, I was very fond of my new subbie. I'm quite disappointed that we will not be playing together again and truthfully I'm not sure why I feel this way. Was it that after I gave him 40 good licks with the cane he asked for more? Was it because he was still in the early stages of anal training and I hadn't gotten a chance to use my big strap on yet? Or maybe it was because of that morning we spent on the beach watching the sun come up and he had me laughing so hard my tummy hurt? What a strange, sentimental mood I'm in. It isn't like me at all to get sappy over a sub. Especially when there are so many eager little sluts just waiting to do my bidding. hmm, that is a nice thought. And I know just the bitch to put me back in the proper frame of mind. They do say that the quickest way to get over a sub is to get another one under you, don't they? I really do wish my newbie sub the best. Well, after me he'll have to settle for the second best but close enough. Now, if you'll excuse me...I have a call to make. xoxo

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GoreanNatash
 
 Submissive, Age:  35
 Riverside, California
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