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Hetero Female Switch, 50,  Indiana
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It's been a while since I last visited this site, but I'm back now. If you've messaged me in the past and gotten no reply, I apologize. I've been taking a little much-needed "me" time. That said... read on.

Are there any real men left in the world? Are you one of them? If so, we may have something to talk about.

About me: I'm a dominant-leaning switch seeking a dominant man willing to take control from one who finds it difficult at times to relinquish that control. For the right person, I'm as loyal a partner as you'll ever find. I have a few physical limitations (slightly arthritic knees and hands) that can make playtime difficult on occasion, but a creative Master can always find ways to work around that. On the pain front, it's been years since I've had any, so it's going to take some time to build me back up to where I can take it, but together we can get there.

What I seek: Someone who understands and appreciates the little things a slave does; who isn't afraid to admit when he's wrong, who is generous with affection, who doesn't look at disagreement and differences of opinion as being inherently bad, and who will work with me in making us the best Master and slave we can become.

In the real world, I enjoy concerts, shooting pool (I'm not very good at it), bowling, dancing (although it's been a decade since I've done it, but hey... let's take a few lessons and have some fun!), renaissance faires, amusement parks, movies, and I LOVE animals.

If you like what I like, and if you're seeking a rather opinionated, strong woman to sit at your feet, let's talk.










 Female Switch


 5' 4"






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

Switch Male

 Lives For:

 Amusement Parks (Expert)

 Renaissance Faires (Expert)


 Blindfolds (Expert)

 Bondage (Expert)

 Cages (Expert)

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Obedience Training (Expert)



 Vacuum Stimulation (Expert)

 Online RPGs

 Beading (Expert)

 Lifestyle BDSM (Expert)

 Classical Music

 Rock Music

 Seventies Music


 Antique Shows

 Fine Dining

 Flea Markets


 Musical Theater



 Horseback Riding (Beginner)

 Canes and Crops

 Collars (Expert)

 Electrical Play

 Exhibitionism (Expert)

 Fire Play

 Gas Masks (Expert)

 Hoods (Expert)

 Masks (Wearing) (Expert)

 Masks on Partner (Expert)

 Mental Bondage

 Munches (Expert)

 Orgasm Control (Expert)

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage (Expert)

 Public Play (Expert)

 Sensory Play

 Theatrical Scenes

 Card Games (Expert)


 Comedy Shows

 Horror Movies (Expert)

 Puzzle Games

 True Crime

 Art Collecting (Beginner)

 Cross Stitch (Expert)

 Karaoke (Beginner)


 Tattoos (Expert)


 Goth (Beginner)

 Country Music

 Eighties Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Industrial Music

 New Age Music

 Show Tunes





 Art Galleries (Beginner)

 Clubbing (Expert)

 Coffee Shops


 Garage Sales

 Movies (Expert)


 SCA (Beginner)




 Walking (Expert)


 Breast Play

 Corsetry (Beginner)

 Genital Punishment (Beginner)

 Rear End Play

 Being Massaged (Expert)

 Leashes (Expert)

 Spanking (Expert)


 TV Sports

 Web Surfing



 Online Auctions (Expert)


 Libertarian Politics  (Beginner)

 Victorian Lifestyle (Beginner)

 Alternative Music


 Blue Grass


 Nineties Music


 Pop Music

 Badminton (Beginner)

 Body Building (Beginner)

 Darts (Beginner)

 Horse Racing

 Volleyball (Beginner)


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Gags (Expert)

 Role Playing (Beginner)

 Wax Play (Expert)


 Arcade Games

 Chess (Beginner)

 Online Chatrooms

 TV News


 New Wave

 Punk Rock Music



 Auto Racing


 Curious About:

 Bird Watching (Beginner)

 Rafting (Beginner)

 Rollerblading (Beginner)

 Scuba Diving (Beginner)

 Snorkeling (Beginner)

 Surf Boarding (Beginner)

 Ultimate Frisbee (Beginner)

 Wind Surfing (Beginner)

 Chastity (Beginner)


 Modern Primitivism (Beginner)

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay (Beginner)

 Historical Shows


 The Occult

 1950s Lifestyle (Beginner)

 Swinging (Beginner)

 Vampirism (Beginner)



 Bar Hopping

 Going to the Opera (Beginner)

 Aerobics (Beginner)

 Body Worship


 G-spot Stimulation

 Massage (Giving)

 Vibrators (Expert)

 Romance Novels

 Simulation Games

 Conservative Politics

 Liberal Politics


 Polyamory (Beginner)





 Kick Boxing



 Raves (Beginner)


 Hunting (Beginner)


 Begging (Expert)

 Corner Time

 Erotic touch (Beginner)

 Housework Service (Expert)


 Speech Restrictions (Expert)


 Hip Hop Music

 Opera Music

 Ice Hockey


 Hard Limits:


 Sensation Play


 Female Sovereignty


 Sky Diving

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Journal Entries:
5/31/2006 4:27:46 PM
OK, so... apparently I'm supposed to confess to everyone here that I'm really a man.  I'm not exactly sure why, but it seems a few guys 'round here think that if I don't have a webcam I'm either a fake or a man.  Since I exist, I must be real, which only leaves the conclusion that I'm a man.  Now, will someone please tell my hormones that?

4/6/2006 8:49:43 AM
Please, Please, Please!!!  If you're going to write me, at least read my profile in its entirety, so you know exactly what it is I'm looking for.  And if you do write, and I ask you a question, give me an answer that's really an answer - one that would indicate you've actually given it a little thought.  All too often, I get emails telling me they found my profile interesting, and when I ask what was interesting about it, the response is something along the lines of, "I just liked what you said."  That tells me nothing, except that I don't want to be bothered trying to continue the conversation, because it's too much like pulling teeth.

3/25/2006 10:14:47 PM
OK, so I FINALLY got a halfway decent pic to put up here.   Woohoo!  Maybe now I'll stop getting rude mail.

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