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| I'm a female switch. I prefer to be on the bottom, but I call myself a switch because I love to top from the bottom. As a bottom, I tend to be a brat. I love being a smartass. In my vanilla life, I tend to be a smartass with all males in positions of power over me, although I really go all out with the ones I know are smarter than me and who will always come out on top in the end. Bosses, professors, priests-- it doesn't matter. I've pissed off a fair few of them, of course, but I've also developed many very close, life-changing friendships/mentorships with men who've taken up the challenge and engaged me in a battle of wits/smartassery. It can be incredibly fun and even intellectually stimulating if done in the spirit of love and respect. The men who I'm the biggest smartass to tend to be the men I respect the most and the men I defer to and show loyalty to most vehemently. I'll play games with you and I'll lip off to you, but I do it all with the firm expectation that you'll put me in my place in the end.
So bottom line-- if you want a little barbie you can put in the corner and call your cunt, keep looking. If you want someone with a little kick who will challenge you but will give you the utmost respect and loyalty when it matters, you're in the right place.
What I'd eventually like to find is a long term taken-in-hand type relationship/eventual marriage (not that that will be considered at a first meeting or anything-- it's just something I'm starting to look for in the long run. I don't want a fuckbuddy or one night stand type thing. I want a relationship).
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