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Ethne

Hmm, about me. Really, I am just here for friends. Just some observations from the last few weeks. Please understand these are in direct responses to some conversations, flood of messages or chat experiences. *If you're T/G, that's your business, and I hope that it goes well for you. But it's not for me. I am happy to sit and talk, but it's never going to go past that. No, getting me to talk, hoping I'll get to know you and change my mind isn't going to happen. *If you're just out for some quick cyber, don't invite me to chat and then become petulant when I actually want to talk. I won't rule out some hot, meaningless cyber, lol, just be honest about what you want. *If you're actually interested in talking, please use coherent sentences. "Wat u lookin 4" is not a sentence. It's an amalgamation of characters. I work with teenagers; I know the difference between dyslexia with poor language skills and just plain laziness. We can work through the former issue, the latter I won't bother with. Yes, I am educated, and I expect my partner to be intelligent, if not formally educated. If that makes me sound like a snob, well, then, so be it. I have a career and a home. My partner needs to be able to be a part of that. (This was an interesting night. I got called a snob, an uptight bitch and a submissive wanna-be in one sentence--a poorly constructed one at that.) Seduce the mind, the body will shortly follow.