Invisible or Prehistoric am I ?

Position available ? servant ? with a will to match My Own.

What I am looking for: In life W/we must all learn to sit before standing and walk before running ? no matter the station or stance in life, E/everyone starts somewhere.

Some things have changed

and will fill in shortly. .you must reside or REALISTICALLY relocate ? this is more than Not negotiable.
To explore the sadistic side of Me and the masochistic side of you. An equally enthusiastic and creative energy and open mind and eager. Obedience with a strong desire and need to please and serve Me. A like minded servant ? committed to and within the lifestyle and to Me. Still waters run deep. Intelligence and?Honor, common sense and trust go a long long?way. A honest heart is need.
If you have a lot of existing baggage - its had better mean suit case sets!
you will Need to know that this is not a game and I am indeed not a player.
I am an extremely dominant Woman who enjoy seeing a fine mannered servant with charm and wisdom and good smile and energy. I demand etiquette, manners, respect, honor, loyalty ? to mention only a few.
I believe in leadership, which finds root within honor, trust, respect, and communication.? All of these traits also serve as a basis for a successful D/s relationship, or any relationship of any kind.
I am looking for Long term service - in My home. Tangibility is a large word!
Collars and respect must be earned. I am unfailingly strict with manners and etiquette?and attention to detail, manners
Honest charm will be needed for successful in serving Me. I do believe that I have given a fair and accurate mental picture for the position at hand in the contents of this profiles entirety. If this might be you / could be you?? If you have read this far ? maybe you are the right one. Shall W/we get started?

.you will need to know: Manners and learned etiquette will be paramount. You will need to be real dedicated and sincere. you need to be ready inside of yourself to learn to live your life for Me, with My Rules.
No long Distance ? My whip does not reach further, and I?m not a gamer, and a Real life cannot be had on this contraption that W/we type thus?you must be a Canadian citizen and already reside in Canada. or keep moving and pass Me by.
Tangibility is a large word.

What I do not want:
Sometimes in life we think we want something until you have it and then you haven?t a clue what to do with it when it does come around.?Do not be one of these. Be sure this is you - for the right reasons.
I find most think they want A B or C and when it comes - they leave. I know what I want and have to offer - crap - you had better know also.
I do not want you to type (relocate able) If you are not. I am seeing this behavior more and more. Do not bother Me if this is you - move it on down the line. I do not want to see you jerk off on cam, This will Not please Me or amuse Me in the least. I do not do online anything ? except communicate and see if there is a potential match. Tangibility means everything. I do Not want you to be a no-brain or?emotionally unstable, overly needy,?or a problem with alcohol or gambling or have massive credit debt that you can not dig your way out of, nor if you are not gainfully employed. I am not looking for a sissy, I do not have time to sit you ? that would make this about you and not Me. I am in the health care profession and changing a healthy adults diaper is not something that I would enjoy. I do not have time for this. .you are here to make My life better and I am here to give you reason and meaning and purpose and growth and hopefully a smile along the way. I do not want a sub that has to take a whole lot of medications with a mountain of moods and side effects and consequences. .you must not be married or in a relationship of any kind. If you cannot be true to a promise you already made to another, What good would your word really mean to Me? What good would you be to a Dominant or to you?

What you will need to know:
you will need to know that I am more than hard to please.
Etiquette lives in My world All of the time. I will expect a great deal from you, this is not an easy position, it will take your best to succeed every day. you will need to know that I do not lead with sexuality, so if your in it to jerk off, I am indeed not the one you need to be speaking with. This position really is about service to Me.
I am caring, dedicated to My lifestyle and morals and My journey.
I can be very patient, but just know they don?t sell that stuff at Wall mart and it cannot be ordered by the case. Keep in mind that this position is about serving Me, not about you being served or some elaborate fairy tale fantasy that you might have read in a book. My live out servant also has a purpose and is greatly valued, he will remain away for another year or so. Then My treasure will return. There is an old country sound ? Every good rider needs a good horse?.

Some of what I like to do and would like you to do and be.

I have a huge selection of toys and equipment, Moved to this new house so have to design a dungeon down stairs. So at current I am dungeon - less.
Whipping of All kinds and with all types of textures
Butler / Maid / Servant / Chauffer / Errand boy
Cbt / Denial / Chastity / Humbler
Dinner scraps / Puppy Bowl / Puppy time?(My definition)
Pony time? / Chariot / Carts / Harness (My definition)
Shackles / Manacles/?Tethering? / Leads
Bits / Bridal / Controlled Gate
Gag balls / Cages / Dog dishes / Leashes
Bondage /?Mummification / Casting / Vet wrap
All forms of Deprivation / Water Sports / Urethra sound / Tens
Display Object / Furniture
Spreader bars / Stalks / Cross /Restraints
All things Sharp?
Some Body Modifications
Nudity with in BbSM realm as well as in My home
Mental Control / Acute Obedience /Breath play /Face sitting / Personal service/ smothering. Pampering / Foot care /?Hand washing My cloths
Permission for many things, Cloths / Schedules / Bathroom / Food And etc
Computer assignments / Some cleaning
Generally handy with tools and gardening is always good
BdSM functions / Meetings / Black and Blue Ball /Other parties that I do Host and attend. -your Honest thoughts ... Regards, LadyLissa

More than 30 things learned ...

1. I know a true Leader is born not made.
2. I have learned that one good turn gets most of the blankets. ?
3. I have learned that what hits the fan will not be evenly distributed.
4. I have learned that age is a very high price to pay for maturity.
5. I have learned that I don't suffer from insanity, I enjoy it.
6. That even when you do your best ? something has to give.
7. you can live in yesterdays gone, but how you start tomorrow will show all.
8. I have learned in life that if wishes were horses more beggars would ride.
9. I have learned that it takes years to build trust and it only takes suspicion and?a twisted sense of things,?to destroy it.
10. I have learned that age is a very high price to pay for maturity
11.? I have learned that most believe: It is easy to assume, given the dynamics of a power exchange relationship, that training is a proverbial one-way street. ? In other words, in the training process, all the instruction flows downhill from the Dominant to the servant and all learning is absorbed by the servant. Actually nothing could be further from the truth. Training is in fact a continuum where instruction and learning flows back and forth in both directions. It is definitely a two-way process.
12. It is a truly unwise Dominant who labors under the false impression that one-size fits all and that every sub can be trained exactly the same way as the last. Effective training must be tailored to the specific, dog horse and servant.
13. I have learned that time makes wisdom
14. I have learned that is it not common for people to posses or use common sense.
15. I have learned that just because I am wired as a Dominant ? this doesn?t mean that I can control the world and the weather.
16. I have learned that when one grows if the other doesn?t ? the red thread in life tends to fade.
17. Don?t pee into the wind or on your Dominants shoes.
18. I have learned that what is worse than having only one dress to wear is having so many that you have to stop and cant chose.
19. We live in a complicated insane world, it is the mad that remain sane ... I am glade this means Me.
20. That it takes years to build trust and it only takes suspicion and a twisted sense of things, not proof, to destroy it.
21. "The depth of power yielding by the servant heart is equal to the level of responsibility assumed by the Dominant"
22. ?If you gave all you have. Then you have done your best for today.
23.When you come to the edge of all that you know you, must know one of two things. a. That there will be earth to stand on. b. That you will have wings to fly.
24. ?And so the lion fell in love with the lamb... " he murmured.
I looked away, hiding My eyes as I thrilled to the word.
What a stupid lamb," I silently sighed.
What a sick, fucking masochistic lion. 25. If wishes were horses, no one would walk.
26. ? Still learning.
27. Do you know what?s on the back of a poor man when he dies ? The cloths of pride.
28. ??I am not sure exactly what heaven will be like, but I know that when we die and it comes time for God to judge us, he will not ask, 'How many good things have you done in your life?' rather he will ask, 'How much love did you put into what you did?? ? ? ???-?Mother Teresa
29. ?If you build a better mouse trap a better mouse will come.
30.?A good dominant does not have to blow Her own trumpet????? ? she just ?IS?. She doesn?t have to demand respect, She gets that anyway, her Smile and grace dictate it.
31. Faith needs to be stronger than fear.
32. Fear is temporary and regret is for life.
33. Nature has put man at Woman?s mercy threw his design, purpose and passions. A Woman is miss led if she fails to make them a subject and not just Her toy.
34.?I have learned that most believe that this lifestyle is strictly and only about sex.?
35. Don?t break your toys!
36. If you cannot lead someone mentally and emotionally, What do you truly have?
37. It is a giant leap to becoming Owned property and give your fate over to someone who will decide your destiny.
38. A Dominants duty, honor and privilege, is to have the ability to erase awareness that such a choice even exists and replace it with reason purpose and meaning, to list only a few.?
39. W/we only have now and tomorrows only a whisper and a hope ? but not a promise or a guarantee.
40. W/we all have a journey and we all ought a good death - - - as well a good life ... so live with your best honesty and integrity.
41. I have come to learn that I am very much compartmental, and very much alike an onion.
42. I have learned most readers do not read all they can to know about the speaker and the message. More over and more just don?t care.

?She doesn?t have to announce to the world who She is,because Her reputation and the respect of Her peers precede Her.' ?