errastas on Collarspace


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	The short version: I’m a 28 year old British/Scottish who is travelling for work can be dom, daddy or switch depending on who I interact with. I have an observant and intellectual personality and tend to be attracted to extroverted and flirty subs and girls. The long version: I work in Mexico and will be for several years, but I travel back to the UK and into the US sometimes. I have enjoyed several relationships where I have been dominant with long term partners; I have also enjoyed some switch sexual encounters where I enjoyed submitting to willful dom women. I have recently become more interested in having daddy relationships, including with a young woman where it is mostly or entirely platonic; but this hasn't stopped me considering (and having) other types of partners. Regarding my domination streak: Although I can be confrontational, I am not naturally physically aggressive so I do not get enjoyment from inflicting real pain or damage on others. I instead prefer setting mental boundaries of control.

8/24/2013 9:12:57 AM

Recent thoughts:

I do get real enjoyment from beautiful women in high heels and chains/spreaders/bars and other toys and jewelery.

Surely having to hurt/harm the submissive or slave is admitting defeat if you wish to dominate someone. The aim in my mind is to achieve flawless satisfaction in the submissive or slave either to feel enjoyment, sexual or otherwise by being mentally bound to the wishes of the dominant.

Rough is acceptable occasionally if the submissive likes it but accidental/intentional harm or pure aggression is counterproductive.