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COMPLETELY REVISED ON 1/28/2011
Who are “you”?
Are you just entering into the BDSM world because you read a story or though it would be cool to serve someone? This would be the wrong reason to become a slave.
Are you a slave looking to be owned without a clue on just what slavery is? Are you young, between 18-24? While you are young, it tells me that you will need a lot more training to me molded and conform to my training and taste.
Do you have a some clue on who and what you are, your purpose for wanting to engage into the life of slavery? I will provide a bit about, me, what I am seeking, and my prospect below.
Who I am in a nutshell:
Because of life as a business owner I cannot post a picture of myself on a free open site, such as collar me, since I deal with a lot of local, state and government officials on a weekly basis. I am willing to video chat or exchange of standard pictures. I have just started the P90X program to enhance my overall appearance and health.
I have earned the title of “Master” well over a decade ago, along with the title of “Expert” in 4 key deep and dark parts of BDSM fetishes. I have mentored both males and females, offered classes on how to flog, cane, and medical insertion of needles, (which for a beginner is not as bad as it sounds). I am extremely skilled in sadistic pleasure and pain with the proper modification of breast, nipple, clit, vulva and anal enhancements. I do not need any type of sexual enhancement drugs to achieve an erection.
My style is what is referred to “Old Guard”, a traditionalist with the process of BDSM. While there are many on here that claim to have decades of experience, reading BDSM stories does not provide a true learning experience. It takes a real Master who understands the real dynamics and complete 2-way mental aspect of the lifestyle not just the sex or abuse.
While I’m not going to rule out a newbie to proceed into a LTR, taking the time to train a younger slave would enhance the longevity of servitude. It is good to know that everything we perceive as suffering is really a wonderful opportunity to correct past mistakes or imbalances and move toward enlightenment.
While we cannot change others, we can change ourselves and move beyond any given situation. Every relationship, including BDSM and experience is an opportunity to grow.
Who am I seeking?
I am looking for a series of key components that make up the slave I am seeking. Yes, attractiveness does play a role into my decision; however it is only 11% of the deciding factors. The slave I am looking for with be filling into a few different areas of pain and pleasure. The type of pain I inflict is very far from what you have ever seen, read, or felt. An example of this would be using a Sybian for 18 hours straight no break, no pause, no extra water, on max high while you are restrained to the floor unable to remove it. While that doesn't sound so bad I have a very special lube I had placed on the Sybian, each time you cum without permission you will feel an intense burning deep in your cunt like there is a fire inside of you. Why should I watch TV when I can place you in the center of the room and play with the knobs?
A 24/7 slave to me, is more then slab of meat with four holes to use. While there will be time my slave many times though out the servicing, you as the slave will feel like a whore and a cum-dump, there will be other times you are praying internal for the burning in your tits to stop burning, from the saline I have injected into your nipples. My slave that I seek, needs to know the basics of both sexually and domestically servitude; you have skills to please men, that is a given, but you must know how to keep a home clean. As a slave you will need to know that washing, keeping plants water and basic cooking skills are important.
Being subservient should be natural for you for a live-in slave; it's who and what you are. Sexually you should understand that I will require your service to remove all your sexual limits. The role of a slave is to never question or think about what was asked, if it will not kill you, land your ass in jail or break any type of limit the was pre-negotiable, then you should just do it.
I believe very much in the is a 1950's style of service from my slave. I think that this allows a more stable and better household. Things like is to always have meals ready, ask permission to do simple things, show utmost respect to be given. In addition, I would also influence your dressing, social and private life, as well as your outlook into long term life service. I demand a slave that will be well mannered, very socially adapt person out in public, but as soon as we get home, know who is in charge, and understand that whatever little range of freedom you were granted, has now been stripped from you.
The “Basics”:
To serve and be used as your Master see fit can mean that I will change your appearance to conform to my vision of your service. I may require are permanent enhancements (tats, piercings, brands, SAFE body mods).
I do offer health care, dental care, razor, soap, food, shampoo, clothing, shoes, not fancy things but enough to make sure you are well and healthy. A sick useless slave would have no use for me. Remember history from older movies? When women did not vote, did not have careers, did not speak back. Remember back then when men came home from a hard day of work and their girl was waiting with slippers and a good drink, with dinner waiting on the table that is what part of being a slave is very much like.
I am very realistic on conforming in today's way of life and integrating the BDSM lifestyle into every day functions. I think it is Very important that I put I'm NOT looking for casual relations with anyone. I am NOT seeking to have a harem of slaves. While I might share my slave with close friends in the lifestyle I am not looking to have a hoard of slaves or share my slave with every Tom, Dick or Harry. I prefer and my slave to stay STD & HIV FREE.
By the way, I am a member of collarme's fakewatch here is the link:
http://collarmefakewatch.blogspot.com/
I am part of a small VERY select few that do slave rescues. My current slave, #57, is one I decided to keep. There was something in her that said potential, so I have made the long investment over $100K into having he become a normal human being. Over the past 8 years I have rescued many for there fake Dom's and Master's.
It is illegal to mutilate, cause life threatening harm anyone in the USA. While many can go on thinking that you can do "whatever you want cause she or he is a slave" your days are truly numbered in getting arrested. Depending on the amount of damage "we" find and rescue the slave in need, depends on which body of law enforcement we contact. I never do a slave rescue alone, As a matter of fact my best friend is a State Trooper that always goes with me. And yes he is in the Lifestyle as well.
I HAVE A FEW VERY IMPORTANT NOTES: #1
Children have NO place to be involved or exposed to this style of life. The slave I seek will be give up the right to decide if you become pregnant what will happen. I am Pro-Choice, but that doesn't mean I will be a monster as well.
I AM NOT LOOKING TO B.R.E.E.D. YOU. I don’t need a "c.a.s.h c.o.w", b.r.e.e.d.ing slave.
I may want children in five years from now, but not currently, and it is unsure if I would even want my slave to bear my children. Confused by any of the above statements? I will explain in more detail better when I get to know you better.
IMPORTANT FYI! #2
Sex is a bi-product of your role not just your role. And on that note, as soon as you commit to me and arrive after we have agreed to terms, you WILL BE GIVEN an STD & HIV test within 48 hrs of your arrival. If you FAIL any or both you will be out the door with whatever you arrived with.
Will I relocate or relocate a slave to move?
I will see. I really don't have any family ties where I am at now. But if you push for me to send you money with-out meeting face to face, go look somewhere else,
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I AM NOT INTO MEN, GIVING OR RECEIVING. AND GROW UP AND TAKE REJECTION. |
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UNDERSTANDING WHAT TPE 24/7 IS: A detail explanation for my dear friend Master Eso
The problems with the definition of abuse within an Absolute and Total Power Exchange commitment/relationship is very clear. Abuse is completely subjective. Everyone has different perceptions, principles and standards, as well as different needs, wants and kinks.
So, lets look at some commonly used definitions, and see how applicable and useful they might be in finding a standard definition of abuse in APE/TPE: .
Majority: A majority of people in the "vanilla" society around the world do consider everyone who is into BDSM or APE/TPE as either an abuser or abusee. Even the majority in the mainstream BDSM community, who are themselves considered abusers and abusee's by the vanilla society, consider those who practice APE/TPE as abusers and abusee's. Clearly the concept of "majority" cannot be used to define a standard of abuse in APE/TPE. .
Law: Many activities within BDSM or APE/TPE are illegal and against the law. Even slavery itself, consensual or not, is against the law. In some states sadomasochism is illegal, while in other states anal sex or even oral sex, is illegal and against the law. Clearly the concept of "law" cannot serve us to define a standard of abuse within APE/TPE. .
Health: Many would think that the concept of a healthy Dominant, submissive or even activity can be used as a standard. Unfortunately, "health" is again a most subjective term. A majority of healthcare professionals do consider those into BDSM or APE/TPE as unhealthy or mentally ill. In the very least Dominants and submissives both possess all the signs of "unhealthy" Co-Dependency. Clearly the concept of "health" cannot be applied in the definition of abuse in APE/TPE. .
Harm: What is considered harmful to some, is a need and desire to others. Even a simple bruise could be considered as harm. Not to mention a tattoo, a piercing, a branding or a stroke with a cane or flogger. Clearly harm is very subjective and cannot be used as a standard in defining abuse in APE/TPE. .
Inhumanity: For some extreme de-humanization is a most desired need. Others crave to be completely objectified or used as a pet, pony or pig. Human or Inhuman is also very subjective again. Clearly "inhumane" cannot be used as a standard for definition of abuse in APE/TPE. .
Sustainability: This is actually a pretty good concept. Any activity that can be repeated indefinitely without leading to death would be acceptable. Unfortunately, life itself is not sustainable. Even piercings, branding's etc. will eventually lead to dead if repeated too often. As every food becomes poisonous if eaten in excess, I believe every activity will eventually lead to dead. The concept of sustainability however would restrict the Masters absolute power, which of course would be in opposition to APE/TPE. Clearly, while "sustainability" is a pretty good attempt, it cannot be used as a standard to define abuse in APE/TPE. .
Safe: "Safety" is about as subjective as it gets. Safe for what, safe for whom, what in this world is really safe ? Without going much further here, clearly "safe" cannot be possibly be used as a standard to define abuse in APE/TPE. .
Sane: The King of subjectivity. What really is sane ? Who really is sane ? Are we all insane ? I am sane. You are not. It is impossible to even consider "sanity" as a definition of abuse in APE/TPE. .
Consent: Another very good concept, in which everything that is consensual would not be abuse. However, a slave consents completely, absolutely and unconditional when accepting a Masters collar. If applied to APE/TPE the concept of "consent" alone would negate even the slightest possibility of abuse. Clearly, if the concept of abuse is valid in APE/TPE, and I believe it is, then it cannot be defined with the concept of "consent" alone. .
Abuse: Clearly the most abused word in the English language. Without definition it is meaningless and absurd in its application to Absolute and Total Power Exchange. .
Our through the practice of Absolute and Total Power Exchange inherited inability to find a clear standard of definition of abuse in APE/TPE, of course, leaves us in a real dilemma. .
Who gets to define and set standards as to what is acceptable and what not ? Who gets to say my Kink is good and your Kink is bad ? Who has the right to impose and dictate their limits and regulations on all others ? Who gets to determine what's right or wrong for everyone else? .
The simple truth is, it doesn't mean a thing what you might think or say. It really means squat what even I think or say. And in APE/TPE it doesn't even matter what a slave might think. Unless a definition of "abuse" in APE/TPE can be found and established as a standard which is applicable to everyone, it only matters what a slaves Master thinks or says. .
So, if we cannot find a clear definition standard applicable, acceptable and adoptable to everyone practicing Absolute and Total Power Exchange, by way of defining abuse, we must now look at what abuse is not: .
As we all should agree that a slave is her Masters property, and has no rights other then the privileges granted by her Master, and the slave consents, surrenders and submits completely, voluntary and unconditional when accepting her Masters collar, then a Master may do with his slave as he alone sees fit, according to his wants and needs, as well as his values, principles and beliefs. The Master has the final decision in all matters and issues within this power structure. Once a slave has accepted her Masters collar and consented to be his total and unconditional slave, no further consent is needed or required. .
In turn a Master is completely and absolutely responsible for his slave's behavior, actions and deed, care and safety, health and well being - physically and mentally, and ultimately her life in accordance with God's Law, His Higher Self, or the Laws of Nature, Universal Laws, Human Laws, Spiritual Laws, you pick it… all according to a Masters values, believes, principles, character, etc. .
The forgoing conditions must be met for it to be a consensual APE/TPE slavery commitment. Any conditions, limits or restrictions imposed on the Master by the slave, would negate APE/TPE slavery. Period. Absolute and Total, mean just that. Absolute, Total and Unconditional. .
Derived from the forgoing conditions here is my general attempt of definition of "abuse" within an APE/TPE commitment as it could be applied to everyone: .
""Abuse" is doing something to someone, else that you have no right to do, or having them do something to you that they have no right to, or to use or be used wrongly or improperly." .
This is indeed a very fitting and useful definition of abuse, especially if applied to our Absolute Master and slave commitments/relationships such as APE/TPE. .
However, while the Masters rights grant him almost omnipotent powers and authority (as it should be) and they are almost self-explanatory, the proper, improper and wrong use of a slave puts us right back into the dilemma, as everyone has different perceptions of proper and improper use, as everyone has different values, needs, and kinks. .
Therefore, in all my years in this lifestyle, the only definition of abuse in APE/TPE, that I could conclude, which is applicable and should be acceptable to everyone is the definition of intent. .
If a Master continually does "harm" to his slaves in a way, that he did not intent to originally, such as it might be the case with alcohol or drug abuse, mental illness, or any other significant mental or emotional imbalance, this might indeed constitute "abuse", even within an absolute relationship. The emphasis here must lay on the Masters intention, or "non intention" for that matter. .
This definition seems to me, to be the one and only definition of "abuse" in APE/TPE that can be accepted, adopted and even practiced, by everyone practicing Absolute and Total Power Exchange. .
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ECsultslave IS NOT AVAILABLE FOR JACK-OFF SESSIONS ON CAM, SEX PLAY, PHONE SEX, PERSONAL 1-ON-1 MEETS, OR FOR SALE OR TRADE. |
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RESPONSIBILITY
What makes a Master a true "Master"? The one thing that has come to mind is the large above word of RESPONSIBILITY. While I see so many young people coming into the BDSM Lifestyle, it has become also so apparent that many of these young people that want to hold the "earned" title of Master, they use falsify the claim on who that are and what they are.
There is just no way in hell you can call yourself a Master if you can't master yourself first!
Sure you can wake up and lie to a potential sub or a slave that you are a "master" in the lifestyle, but reading a stories of what someone fantasy will only get you so far. When it is come time, should you have gotten that far convincing your potential "victim" of what you are not and this person comes to visit you, you demand they strip or do some other degrading act to though your new found weight around, doesn't make you anymore then a PUNK!
You are the one of the KEY REASONS, in why we, the people that perform BDSM as an ongoing lifestyle, a bad rep.
As a Master, you must have a clear understanding of the your goals, wants and some idea of how to achieve them. You must be willing to accept the responsibility of owing a slave. This is not a game, or role play; it requires daily responsibilities and self commitment. If you have not thought about this completely or you are unable or unwilling to accept a slave on a 24/7 basis then you have no reason to start or offer training.
You need to know what rules & protocols you expect you slave to follow and be willing to take. You need the time to teach them to her. There is also a very strong emotional connection that a slave has for her Master; if you are not willing to accept it, don’t play with it. It falls back to what I said in the beginning. If a Master is not in control of himself then he can't control a slave. Do go on thinking slave is stupid and I can do what i want, I have a now sex toy coming, the slave IS NOT STUPID, while you may have though with your cockhead, your weaknesses will display itself in the short run and then you have now have damaged what could have been someone's true calling.
In the BDSM lifestyle, the Master’s role in training a slave or submissive is to provide support, direction, encouragement, insight, change, challenge and establishing or reinforcing values. And as a young "Master" you still have a lot to learn.
Do you really have it in you as a Master uses many techniques to stimulate cognitive, emotive, and behavioral change?
A small glimpse on what you need to know and ask yourself if you are even ready to undertake a slave.
- Do you know how to deal with a slave?
- Detailing slave’s beliefs, goals and expectations?
- How about Clarifying vague and faulty thinking about what is expected?
- Can you Stimulating movement in the direction of submission?
- Are you at the point in your life that you can take the time to help the the slave becomes fully aware of the new lifestyle without your help?
- Do you know the right way to use discipline training and narration?
- Or providing positive ways to get your slave to show new behavior?
- Can you get your slave to dissolve her current style of life and guide her in a new direction as a slave in BDSM?. Inspiring the slave to love the struggle involved in becoming a slave and preferring the unfamiliar is a key component.
- Do you have the financing to undertake the process?
- Can you feed, provide medical, bare basic, true shelter?
This is a very small list. I could go on and on, but if you can't even offer numbers 9 and 10, then do us all a favor and stop your searching now it you really have some clue on who you are before you jump into half assed or get arrested. If you get arrested and go to jail, you will learn real quick that you are not a "Master", you are now someone bitch.
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While I do want to say a quick thank you for the people that admire my style of teaching, I am not Gay or Bi. I am a straight white male. |
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What I am NOT looking for;
1. under the age of 19,
2. if you are a convict,
3. you are pregnant,
4. you have been committed to a mental hospital,
5. you are a run-a-way,
6. you are a negro/black,
7. you are age 28 or over,
8. you weigh over 154.5 lbs,
9. you are 5'10" or taller,
10. you have or had any STD,
11. you are HIV positive,
12. you have been sexually abused as a child.
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| Age: 30 |
| Sayreville,
New Jersey |
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