I am a very Dominant, Alpha Male and also a very real person, with realistic expectations.

The woman I want in my life must also posess the qualities that make her somewhat independent in her own life as I do not have the time or inclination to manage her life.

I have been both Dom and sub over the years, so I understand the "other side" very well, and I believe that experience has made me a better Dom.

The ideal woman for me is honest & loyal, has a great sesne of humor, intelligence, a good sense of self.

BDSM for me is about my sexuality and preference, but is only a part of who I am and not what defines me. I do enjoy the parties, the events and the people in the scene, but I have so many other outside interests that this is truly just a part of my life.

My experience in the scene has been extensive over the last 14 years and I love the erotica and creativity of it all.

I have not posted a picture here as my privacy is very important to me. I do have pictures though and am attractive, intelligent, and easy to be around.