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I am new to the BDSM community and new to CM. And I am only just beginning my journey. I start off with that bit of information to share that I am learning, growing and evolving through my journey. I am not a fan of labels but at this point of my journey because it is so new if I have to select a label I would say that I most identify with the term switch. I have both dominant and submissive tendencies. I have not fully embraced one empowerment over the other yet because I am exploring, learning and experiencing things as they unfold. What I seek is wide and varied; I am open to so many things. I am professional, independent, intellectual, and communicative when I get to know someone. I can come across as more introverted until my interest is engaged. I am open minded, non-judgmental, curious by nature and driven. I excel in a very challenging and high stress career. I make big gains because I take big risks. I am analytical, questioning and I enjoy mental stimulation. I enjoy the exchange of knowledge and power that comes with it. I do have a caring, nurturing side provided I have built trust with other person. I have a good sense of humor and certainly do not take myself too seriously. I have a small but close knit group of friends and I like it that way. I enjoy knowing lots of acquaintances but with limited free time I prefer to keep those closest to me in a small circle so that I can focus upon them. I am loyal and responsive to those people in my life that I form connections. I am active, fit and I enjoy working out. I am seeking the same tendencies in a male or female. Heath and fitness should be important to you, as well. In the least I seek HWP. However for females the natural fuller curves of a woman are allowed. I tend to be open to age but if I am asked to be specific my range of age would be a preference of late 20’s to mid 40’s. I seek intelligence not just flesh. I also seek a connection on multiple levels not just arbitrariness. If you are only interested in a quick hook up, please keep looking. If you have no interest in getting to know me as a person and a base level before you request my company, again I am not the right one for you.
I only get to take this journey once so I am going to take my time as it all unfolds. I am going to ask a lot of questions. And I am going to experience a lot of things first hand as I journey so that I can make a valid, internal determination what is the path I wish to follow D/s, switch … I am picky and I deserve to be. I may experience many on my journey yet ultimately I am seeking only one; just one.
What I know for sure is that I am looking forward to wringing every drop, embracing each detail and expression out of this life journey. Thank you for taking a moment to read my profile and to those of you whom I may meet upon this quest.
lilxbitxoxpain
 
 Age: 21
 N/a, California