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Im the skinny, quiet, intellectual type, always looking to learn and expand my horizons. I was pretty involved in the IRL scene in another city for more than a year, and I learned an enormous amount during this time, but Ive been interested in the lifestyle with varying degrees of intensity for well over 10 years. Ive picked up some real experience in that time, mostly with Ds rather than more casual play. I am technically a switch but right now just looking for a sub and thus have my profile labeled accordingly.
I care deeply about ideas and meaningful human interactions, the more interesting the better. I also care deeply about the future of our planet and species, and about the betterment of them both, physically and spiritually, and most of who I am revolves around this. I dont care much about superficial things, such as cars, TV, etc. and have successfully deprogrammed myself from most emotional investment in the corporate-generated cultural we live immersed in here in the US.
I am dead serious about personal honor, ethical BDSM, feminism, and principals of consent.
My long-term life goal is to own land somewhere that I share with a small number of fellow weirdos, a real community to last generations, with hills and 4 real seasons, with gardens, and hope for the future. I seek a 247 submissive partner who can learn to trust me and believe in my vision, and is willing to work for it as I am.
I am into the mental and emotional dimensions of Ds, and mostly treat the whips and chains, etc. as means to that end, rather than fetishes unto themselves. I also have a weak spot for Consensual Non-consent, but recognize that it is an advanced practice that requires enormous amounts of foundation work. I am mostly into women and androgynous or non-binary folk of any sex or gender. I also am *very* polyamorous (and have multiple years real world experience), but am only really interested in the one full-time sub.
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