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Enjoli

I have recently moved to Dallas and would love to find an experienced Dominant male play partner who shares my interests. After exploring for 13 years, I have had a chance to be a part of many styles, fantasies, and fetishes. The most important lesson I have learned through the years is that my kink keeps evolving, influenced by those I meet and new experiences. My style is real and natural yet still playful. While these explorations can be intense and life changing, I also think they should be fun and positive. As a submissive, I love to pamper. My service style could be described as “hospitality” - I like to dress to please, make sure favorite beverages and foods are always about, take an interest in my partner’s interests… I love the girly rituals of getting ready for a date; preparing myself to be pleasing … I think sometimes I would enjoy being a kinky courtesan spending my life fulfilling someone’s sensual and conversational needs. I love spirituality and rituals but enjoy intimate physical and mental connections more than complicated training or scripted formalities. I have played with about every pain device and consider myself a masochist although it isn’t as important to me as the right energy. I enjoy sensory deprivation; giving up any of your senses can enhance an already exciting situation. If you have developed trust and both people can communicate well then you can choose to give someone power; they then choreograph the dance. It all swirls around the feeling of really being able to let go… someone else is in charge and you have no choice. And the more you play with someone, the more you organically come to know the edges and how to push them. Because often the most intense experiences come from going beyond what is easy. Probably most of all I like to be with people who are comfortable with themselves, can laugh even, or perhaps most importantly, when things get intense and who are open to and care about the world. And speaking of positive people and energy... after less than 24 hours on this site I have had some unkind emails sent by individuals who had their feelings hurt when I chose to not respond. I hate profiles filled with rules and dos and don'ts so let me just say this... I am sorry that I can't write a thank you back to each person who sends an email but your compliments and interest are sincerely appreciated. I have been a bit overwhelmed with responses and between life and work have only limited time online. But just because our profiles or introduction emails don't create sparks on collarme it doesn't mean we might not become friends on community life sites or at real life events. The kink world is really quite small and it is probably not in any of our interests to burn bridges or say mean things.
csevereseeker
 
 Age: 20
 Indpls, Indiana