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I'm a very strong, confident and professional man who is in control of life, and has specific needs that seem to require a search through this sort of venue. A few things: 1. His wants and needs are not more important than hers, they are just different. If he is in control, then it is his responsibility to seek out and understand her wants and needs - if he does not do so, he is not worthy of her. 2. The desired bond is deep and generally reserved for one alone. It is not to say that others may not occasionally view some of her femininity; however, my inclination is that she is not to be shared - she is to be cherished by him alone. The emotional bond is risked if sharing occurs. 3. Rules and requirements of intimacy are to be agreed upon, understood and adhered to. This preserves order and it is generally part of what she needs (not necessarily always what she wants). The rules and requirements are upheld by him in the context of Loving Domestic Discipline (LDD). She needs the LDD to grow and to fit him well in the relationship as his special one. 4. Physical intimacy in the ways we both understand is essential to the bond. This should be frequent, sometimes sensitive, sometimes intense, sometimes more. 5. Kindness to others is a thread that must run through them both. For her, it must be part of her being and her tendency to serve others. For him, it is an element of being responsible for caring for those most dear - it is part of being human and part of being protective. Physical attractiveness is where things start and it is part of what keeps them bonded to each other, but, it is their beliefs, values and emotional connection that truly cements them.

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Enigmaette
 
 Age: 51
 Hornbrook, California