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My interests are very varied, and I am happiest when I am the center of somebodys world.

I believe that EVERY person is a human being first, and submissive second. The act of submission is one of the most special things in the world and should be cherished and nurtured, NOT used as an excuse for a Domme to live out their control fantasy. Yes, the control is an aspect of that, but the needs of the submissive should guide their Dom. He should ask himherself, what can i do to help this person become all that they aspire to be. How can i use my knowedge and experience to shape her in to something spectacular, something i can bask in the image of, and know i was part of making that person what they have become, and feel immensely proud of that. The role of a Dom is one of teacher, personal growth developer and confidant.They should allow people to become who they already know they are, blossom, and have those needs and desires met in a safe and stable environment.



There are many aspects to my personality and the kind of Dom i am, some i share openly, some are close to my heart and very special to me, and i need to feel comfortable before sharing them.



It would take forever to list all of my fetishes and kinks, so if curious, please do ask, im always happy to talk and share )

I also need to have both sides in my life. The Ds and vanilla. In my experience they compliment each other very well. However, the Ds dynamic is never more than a look or touch away...My time is precious and i lead a hectic lifestyle, so i have no time for wannabes or players. There are so many genuine people out there, but the idiots always seem to push them aside. I welcome contact from friends and anybody who would like to chat. I do not bite, I am not so far up myself Im about to disappear, and i WILL NOT demand you call me anythingother thanmy name. The Title of Dom, Sir, Daddy etc is not an automatic right. Anybody who Demands it immediately is always suspect. In my opinion, that kind of respect can only be earned, never demanded. However, anybody wanting to use titles is still more than welcome.
6/19/2014 7:03:07 AM
According to Greek mythology, humans were originally created with four arms, four legs and a head with two faces. Fearing their power, Zeus split them into two separate parts, condemning them to spend their lives in search of their other halves. Plato. The symposium.
5/7/2014 5:10:27 PM

“When the boy was six years old, his father gave him a falcon to train. Falcons are raptors – killing birds, his father told him, the Shadowhunters of the sky.

“The falcon didn’t like the boy, and the boy didn’t like it, either. Its sharp beak made him nervous, and its bright eyes always seemed to be watching him. It would slash at him with beak and talons when he came near. For weeks his wrists and hands were always bleeding. He didn’t know it, but his father had selected a falcon that had lived in the wild for over a year, and thus was nearly impossible to tame. But the boy tried, because his father told him to make the falcon obedient, and he wanted to please his father.

“He stayed with the falcon constantly, keeping it awake by talking to it and even playing music to it, because a tired bird was meant to be easier to tame. He learned the equipment: the jesses, the hood, the brail, the leash that bound the bird to his wrist. He was meant to keep the falcon blind, but he couldn’t bring himself to do it – instead he tried to sit where the bird could see him as he touched and stroked its wings, willing it to trust him. He fed it from his hand, and at first it would not eat. Later it ate so savagely that its beak cut the skin of his palm. But the boy was glad, because it was progress, and because he wanted the bird to know him, even if the bird had to consume his blood to make that happen.

“He began to see that the falcon was beautiful, that its slim wings were built for the speed of flight, that it was strong and swift, fierce and gentle. When it dived to the ground, it moved like light. When it learned to circle and come to his wrist, he nearly shouted with delight Sometimes the bird would hop to his shoulder and put its beak in his hair. He knew his falcon loved him, and when he was certain it was not just tamed but perfectly tamed, he went to his father and showed him what he had done, expecting him to be proud.

“Instead his father took the bird, now tame and trusting, in his hands and broke its neck. ‘I told you to make it obedient,’ his father said, and dropped the falcon’s lifeless body to the ground. ‘Instead, you taught it to love you. You didnt tame it, you broke it'

“Later, when his father left him, the boy cried over his pet, until eventually his father sent a servant to take the body of the bird away and bury it. The boy never cried again, and he never forgot what he’d learned: that to love is to destroy, and that to be loved is to be the one destroyed.”

3/2/2010 12:17:50 PM
A line from the Adams family that i heard today..  Really made me smile...

Morticia:
Last night, you were unhinged. You were like some desperate howling demon. You frightened me.... Do it again.
1/30/2010 11:57:04 AM
I was having  conversation with a group of friends about religion today.  

I explained that i used to be religious, but after several extremely horrific experiences, my faith had gone, and i could not class myself as religious.

I said i believed in something,  that there was more to this world that just this,  but could not relate to organized religion,  but did describe myself as spiritual.   

Then a very learned friend of mine asked me a question,  and his reply was something that will stay with me for a VERY long time.  

He asked me if i knew what the differance was between religion and spirituality. 

I said no.   And his reply was this.

Religion is for people who are afraid of going to hell..   Spirituality is for people who have been there..

1/2/2010 4:44:32 AM
I heard this the other day...  I wonder how many like myself can relate to this..

"Man goes to doctor. Says he's depressed. Says life is harsh and cruel.
Says he feels all alone in a threatening world. Doctor says, "Treatment is simple. The
great clown Pagliacci is in town tonight. Go see him. That should pick you up".

Man bursts into tears. Says,

"But doctor... I am Pagliacci."
1/4/2009 7:16:15 AM

I love deep and meaningful writings.. Here are a few i like...


"If you wish to fail, do not try....  If you try, even if you do not succeed, you will never fail me.."
"The feeling of fear is as natural as the feeling of hunger or thirst. I have never met anyone who felt ashamed or embarassed for feeling hungry or thirsty"

"There are only four questions of value in life. What is sacred? Of what is the spirit made What is worth living for? And what is worth dying for? The answer to each is the same. Only love."


'Odi et amo. Quare id faciam fortasse requiris? Nescio, sed fieri sentio et excrucior.'

Translated..

'I hate and I love. Perhaps you are asking why I do this? I do not know. But I feel it happening, and it hurts.'

This next one has, to me at least, a hidden Ds meaning.. 

"Every true lover knows that the moment of greatest satisfaction comes when ecstasy is long over, and he beholds before him the flower which has blossomed beneath his touch."

Women react to me the way that they do, because they sense that I search out the beauty that wells within them until it overwhelms everything, and then they cannot avoid their desires to release that beauty and envelope me in it."

"One night, I watched her at the window in her sleep. I noticed for the first time, how a woman's underclothes barely touches her skin. How it rides on a cushion of air as she moves. How the silk floats about her body, brushing her flesh like an angel's wings, and it was then I understood how a woman must be touched."

This next story was sent to me in an email. Usually i discard them, but i liked this one. After a little research i found it to be factual.


"Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a hospital, I got to know a
little girl named Liz who was suffering from a rare and serious disease.

Her only chance of recovery appeared to be a blood transfusion from her 5-year old brother, who had miraculously survived the same disease and had developed the antibodies needed to combat the illness.

The doctor explained her situation to her little brother and asked the little boy if he would be willing to give his blood to his sister.

I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a deep breath and saying, "Yes, I'll do it if it will save her."

As the transfusion progressed, he lay in bed
next to his sister and smiled, as we all did, seeing the color returning to her cheek. Then his face grew pale and his smile faded. He looked up at the doctor and asked with a trembling voice...

"Will I start to die right away?"

Being young, the little boy had misunderstood the doctor; he thought he was going to have to give his sister all of his blood in order to save her....Yet he was willing".

sincereseeking1
 
 Age: 26
 St. louis, Missouri