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I am ultimately seeking a life partner, rather than merely a play or casual lifestyle relationship. So it's important that the person that I involve myself with is compatible with me on a personal as well as power exchange level.
As such, my personal interests include a passion for photography (I exhibit), Urban Exploration, Creative Writing, Scuba Diving and Skiing. I have formed a network of close friends, most of whom are aware of my involvement in the lifestyle to greater and lesser degrees.
While BDSM has always been an integral part of my personality, either latently or more overtly, it's important for me to have a partner who does not need to be in role 24/7. I expect an equal partnership, with clear and open communication. Honesty is vital.
As a Domme, I believe I can provide my submissive with the direction, control and guidance he requires. I have a very active imagination, but at the same time expect that my submissive will be able to please me spontaneously. I am not interested in overt humiliation play, I feel that my role as a dominant is to enable my submissive to grow through his need to do what pleases me. Occaisionally as part of an equal non traditional relationship, I may ask my submissive for guidance. I expect balance. Some times even I have a bad day!
I consider myself to be a strongly sadistic person, and I very much enjoy causing my submissive physical pain, and I am quite inventive about my means of providing it. In addition, I expect my submissive to service me fully sexually and meet all of my sexual requirements. I enjoy being pampered, pedicured and massaged.
My ideal submissive is someone who enjoys ensuring that my comfort and pleasure are his prime responsibility. I like flowers, cooked meals and surprises. I expect my submissive to woo my pleasure, rather than to test my wrath. I would like a submissive who worships me on a pedestal, and treats me like a princess.
I live in my own house in downtown Toronto, have 2 cats and a mortgage. I'm professional, well educated and have a great sense of fun. I enjoy making people laugh and taking care of the people around me.

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ladysurrender
 
 Age: 27
 South Africa