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| I'm a generally charismatic guy who is always up beat and positive, this kind of bleeds into my kinks as a form of soft sadism. Traditionally my interests with kink have orbited that way through a love of rather restrictive bondage and pleasure denial balanced with sensual teasing. I do rather love restricting a partner completely before quite deliberately seeking out the places she is most sensitive. I would call myself a patient sensualist though I do love to add a great deal of forcefulness to my kink both in my attitude and my physical presence.
I have associated my kink directly with my sexual appetite until recently, as I have had an experienced kinky friend posit the concept of expressing my kink without it being directly linked to my sexuality. It is a work in progress but I can certainly see the benefits as it is simply much less taxing emotionally. Of late I have also been dabbling in probing the depths of the submissive/masochist present in my personality (those fill in the blank tests are usually well off base but the results of the one below are actually surprisingly close to where I see myself!). I am quite comfortable with how I have identified and will continue as I have, though I am always interested in having a greater understanding of self (Eg: I didn't know I liked chocolate till I tried it and that turned out well:D )
I'm always up for a good conversation regarding interests, I have been fortunate to have a very diverse depth of friendships in my life thusfar as one of my mentors in life is a married Lesbian holding a Ph. D, one of my closest friends is a fabulously gay chap (the most humorous cat I know) and I can easily say the breadth of my friend base is female. Apparently the previous point has something to do with being a decent listener? I try to take in as many of the local meets, events and munches as possible so as to keep a presence in the community and to meet as many other kinksters as I can, there is creativity in numbers right?
As for play and my specific interests, basically I love imposing exceedingly restrictive bondage on a sub through the use of different arrangements of shackles, collar (slowly but surely adding rope to this mix as well!) and through the use of chain and zip ties (zip ties are easily removed in case of a problem with cramping or what not so they're great for safety). I'm a huge fan of combining leather and stainless steel restraints with traditional female attire such as black heels, stockings and skirts with white blouses. I'm a huge stickler for aesthetics really, I tend to really take my time during play to enjoy the appearance of a sub as I slowly increase her level of restraint with expansively complex restraints and postures. I was always a huge fan of the 50's style of pinup art and photography (long before I knew who Betty Paige was It shames to admit).
May anyone from any walk of life feel free to say hey, I will always respond respectfully if not overly quickly as I work a career position at my local hospital while I manage a small business in the evenings. I'm a firm believer in unilateral tolerance. Later Dayz!
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