So I’ll apologize in advance, in case I don’t get back to you in short order. My preference is to communicate through this site, until we meet.

Executive Summury:

Sorry to say I’m interested in the local, straight, men who have monogamy as a preference! If that doesn't make you laugh, I've more one liners.

Cliché as it is: friends first and then see what develops. I'm not interested in casual play but something that has legs to go further than a one night stand.

I have attend a variety of events In the community but prefer, a one-on-one kinky relationship. Though I'm huge on safety.

I'm in no rush.
I don’t smoke, drink alcohol infrequently, exercise at the gym, eat quality food, sleep from 10pm to 8 am and hope you can support this lifestyle even if you dont follow it exactly.

Who am I? The interesting stuff:

The nice girl with a dark streak or secret, she keeps hidden.

I am open, but prefer prudent privacy in public.

This is my life; I am not out to my friends or family. (More for their protection than mine. Just as I know nothing about their personal lives & they know little of mine and I suspect it would up set them to hear my truth.)

I am not inclined to post a pic or forward one, you will have to wait until we meet.

* Blond hair, * blue eyes, * great skin, 5’7” really,

Single (not separated), no children ;( , your kids will be treated like they were my own & I'd love to have grandkids.

I love to escape into another’s view and understand their motivation. Perhaps because of that I’ve done a little switching.

However, I identify as a sub, not a masochist. Degradation, humiliation or harsh play are not of interest to me.

I do think people are like boxes with different sides, different aspects of personality, and we all flourish under different circumstances. (Some of us are more different than others.)

*Make me laugh; I will make you laugh (Yes, I can be very funny.)

*Be intellectual I become a scholar

*Become the teacher I become the student

*Economics and politics run the world

*With good debate, there is no winner - just an expanded understanding of anothers view

I love to learn, the world never ceases to amaze.

I read extensively including two daily news papers.

Beware, I tend not to shine until I know someone a while, sometimes that’s 2 hours with others 6 months.

EP