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ElusiveFantasy

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Let me start this the right way, I am not here to be a slave. Don't talk to me like you are my Master or Dom! That is assuming something that isn't so. If you want me to treat you with respect, you must respect me first. With that said...


Experience is gained though out the years, through the things we endure and one of the best lessons I have learned is to look at things in a different perspective.

I've come to realize that there is no such thing as rejection only the wrong fit. A lot of people take such things to heart and take it personally. I used to be one of them. But I've come to realize that it is ok to say no, to turn someone down and be turned down as bigger and better things are to come along later.

I am a switch, completely. I am more submissive by nature but I can be very dominant.
However, I believe that there needs to be some kind of balance to that. I need a man who will respect me as his equal who will not walk all over me and treat me like a doormat. I believe there is a difference between being a sub and getting humiliated!

I don't want to offend anyone but I am not interested in anyone who is over 45 as even 40 is pushing it for me, please do not take it personal but if you contact me, I will not hesitate in letting you know that we are not a good match.

BE SINCERE! I cannot emphasize this enough. Not just with me but yourself. Look deep down inside yourself to truly find out what it is you want.

Don't try to make others fit into the mold you've created just because you want them there. If it was hard to fit it in, it will be harder to get it out. If you want to keep playing the field and are not ready for a long term relationship, admit it to yourself first. There is nothing wrong with living life happy. We should do what makes us happy and know that those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter. Accept yourself and love yourself that others may love and accept you too. Something that is impossible if you yourself can't accept yourself or know who you are.

I ask that you tell me your favorite color in your message so that I know you read this and have a better idea of what I am about. Also because it allows me to screen for people who aren't paying attention or are too self deluded in their roles as owners/ masters or who are flat out too disrespectful of a prospect's small request.

Remember rejection doesn't exist and it will make your search a little easier (unless that is what you want to believe.) Good luck to you.
I don't care who you are, no I will not cam with you.
You may think that a slut is a good thing, and you may like to use it as dirty talk, to me slut is a derogatory term, so, don't call me one, or whore, cunt, etc, etc

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7/28/2009 7:02:57 PM

First, a thanks to those of you who have writen me letters, I apreciate the flattery.  I'm in a monagamous relationship where all my needs are met, I couldn't be happier.

EF


5/23/2009 7:09:08 AM
Again I left looking at this site for quite a few months due to the fact that I was dating someone who wanted a monogamous relationship.  I did as he wished only to find out later on that he didn't even know what he wanted and wanted to do something he hadn't before "date around!" :/  I don't want to keep dating around any more.  I've had my fun, no regrets.  I want to setlle down but not with a guy who would "just be filling a possition" but a man who is right for me.  Getting really tired of being alone...

10/8/2008 8:13:54 PM
ok, so it has been a LOOOOOOONNNNNGGGG while since I've been able to log on and look at my messages, etc.  I must agree with what someone told me a while ago, where men put out a bunch of fishlines, women have to sort all the fish that jump on their boats. 

I never thought I would get as many responses as I have.  And though I am flattered for the most part, there is a part of me that doesn't like it. 
I've tried very hard to be nice to people I am not interested in only to be cursed out.  What gives?  I mean really, grow up. 
As I said before there is no such thing as rejection, just the wrong fit.  So if I tell you "thank you for your interest however, we don't seem to be compatible for (blank) reason but I hope you find what you seek,"  I hope to get a thank you or you too, not a "well I didn't like you in the first place you B*tch, you're probably a dirty whore slave."

Sorry but I had to vent that out.  Been getting a lot of that lately. 

Another thing that has me annoyed is that no one seems to read or care about my color request in my profile.  It makes me think people don't read it, don't care or just don't think it important enough.  NEWS FLASH: It is important, other wise I wouldn't have put it up there.  I've been nice up to this point, giving people a second chance.  No more nice gal, no color, no response.  You could be Brad Pitt and I won't answer your letter... You've been warned. 

9/11/2008 8:35:46 PM
yay, my pictures have been approved :D

9/7/2008 3:55:53 PM
A little bit more about me and this new profie.  I was here once before but wasn't getting what I wanted.
I've always been a lot more mature than my peers.  I am a wise old woman granted the gift of a young body.  I am what most people refer to as an old soul.  I will admit it has taken me a while to differentiate the fantasy from what I myself really wanted.  I got so wrapped up in the fantasy, drunken off the attention of good looking younger guys.  Caught in the dazzle of attention which I never knew in my youth of being an ugly duckling that I lost sight of what was best for me, and what I trully wanted for myself.  But, I would like to think that I have sobered up, and as if awakening from a dream, I want substance, stabiity but especially that someone I can call my soulmate.  Though I would be extremely lucky if he happened to be a switch, I know I will make a wonderful, fair Mistress or an adoring little sub.

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FangBanger5
 
 Age: 38
 MICHIGAN CITY, Indiana