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To the subs who fall for his tricks after I dumped him,
I pity any sub who gets sucked into to his tricks. It took me over a year before I had enough.
I had a single D/s experience, and that was online-only. I did not want online-only, but that's how it ended up. And as a result of my one and only D/s experience, I do not care to repeat it again. Because the first one was so awful, I cannot see how anyone else can be better. Or even how I can trust someone else again.
He falsely promises:
to love you
to be there for you, always
to never treat you bad
to never treat you with disrespect
to always appreciate you
to always give you what you need
What he expects out of you:
To be in love with him and him only
To love no one else
To constantly create multimedia for him. Photos, videos, and be on web cam constantly, but have nothing to look at from his end, and be grateful about receiving absolutely nothing in return.
To go out and have sex with multiple partners, video record and send to him. He doesn't get off on regular porn any more but wants custom porn from you.
He expects you to spend your own money buying sex toys, lingerie, clothes, breast pumps, collars... everything. He will contribute nothing financially to your projects. You're expected to foot the bill in all things, even though it's supposed to be all for him. To have an extremely good imagination. You'll need it. Because he won't help you with it. He wants you to be turned on, but doesn't give you anything to be turned on by him. You're just supposed to automatically be that way, with no work or effort from him.
He will delve into your past and your soul to get all your secrets. Then he will come up with tasks that will break you. You will be expected to do the tasks on your own time. But don't expect after-care, because you won't get any.
He will want you to play and cum on cam. And once he's had his cum (that you won't get to see), he will leave without giving after-care.
What he delivers:
He will never care about your hobbies, taste in music/film, food, or any other topic. His only interest is sex, and telling you when he wants you to cum.
He will never love you. He's incapable of love.
He will never give you his real name.
He will never tell you about his work.
He will never include you in his personal life.
He will never tell you anything about himself, other than sexual things that you will never get to experience.
He will never send you photos, images, emails, money or gifts.
He will never telephone you.
He will never visit you. He will never ask you to visit him.
He will never even go on a web cam for you, but you're expected to do so for him.
He will never make you feel you are the only one for him. You're just part of a harem, after all.
He will never have real time for you. You get Monday through Friday, 9 am to 5 pm. If you're working, too bad. You're alone nights and weekends, and he will NOT be there for you.
He will never give you after-care.
He will go away for extended periods of time, without communication, warning, or notice. And you're supposed to be happy about that.
He wants control over everything in your life, but then just takes off without warning. You will never know where he is or what he is doing.
You're on your own.
What he claims about himself:
to be smart and have over a decade of ''experience'' in BDSM, yet needs to ''get ideas'' from this website, every day. I'm sorry, but if someone has over a decade of experience at BDSM stuff, they sure as hell don't need ''ideas'' from a website. He's not here getting ideas, he's here seeing who else is around. Because you are not going to be his one and only.
He wants you to devote everything to him, but he will give you nothing.
He will claim everyone else in your life but him is a loser. If you meet another lover in real life, he will have nothing but nasty things to say about that person. He's called every other man in my life a pussy.
But he's the real pussy. He's the one that's not a man. Why do I say that? Because he's a coward. He's fearful. People that hide behind computer screens are cowards.
He will never ''man up'' for you. So don't expect it. |
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