- The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet

The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet

Horizontal Line
Vertical Line
Pan Transgender Dominant, 71,  St Louis, Missouri
Horizontal Line

Horizontal Line


Elita - photo 1
Elita - photo 2
Elita - photo 3
Elita - photo 4
Elita - photo 5
Elita - photo 6
Elita - photo 7
Elita - photo 8
Elita - photo 9
Elita - photo 10
Elita - photo 11
Elita - photo 12

Horizontal Line


Horizontal Line

Vertical Line

First , last and always, I am transgendered (M to F) ! I also happen to be kinky, but please understand my dressing is not a fetish or kink, it is who I am.

Secondly, at this time I am primarily looking for conversations and friendships! I am willing to mentor folks new to alternative gender expression (CDTGTS etc.), and Kink that does NOT mean I will take anyone on as a submissive, etc. Mentoring means to me guiding, assisting, and answering questions for folks, not playing with them on-line or in real-time. Oh, and first time meetings must be in a semi-public place!

I have been in this lifestyle for over 20 years, and dressing much longer than that. Although severe health issues may limit my participating in some activities, I am still able to give advice and let others benefit from my experience!

Please let me know if I can help in any way, even if you just need someone to vent to or bounce things off of, or hopefully become a friend! One never knows where that might lead! Hugs and best wishes! (22417)











Last Online:


 Dominant Transgender

 St Louis 


 5' 9"

 155 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Submissive Transgender

Dominant Female

Dominant Male

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Switch Women

Switch Men

Domme/Dom Couples

Sub/Sub Couples

Femdom Couples

Mascdom Couples

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Coffee Shops  (Expert)

 Shopping (Expert)


 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 Corsets (Expert)

 Crossdressing (Expert)

 Munches (Expert)


 Lifestyle BDSM



 Fine Dining



 Travel (Expert)

 Volunteerism (Expert)

 Horseback Riding


 Walking (Expert)

 Blindfolds (Expert)

 Chastity (Expert)

 Collars (Expert)

 Local BDSM Community


 Knife Play (Beginner)

 Masks (Wearing)

 Massage (Getting)

 Mental Bondage

 Sensory Deprivation

 Spanking (Expert)

 Stockings (Expert)




 Historical Shows (Expert)

 TV News (Expert)

 Web Surfing (Expert)




 History (Expert)

 Intellectual Discourse

 Blue Grass


 Classical Music

 Folk Music





 Antique Shows

 Art Galleries


 Bird Watching (Beginner)

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales

 Going to the Opera


 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires


 Camping (Expert)



 Hiking (Expert)


 Martial Arts

 Scuba Diving


 Tai-Chi (Beginner)

 Anal Play

 Body Worship

 Breast Play




 Genital Punishment

 Domestic Service

 Fisting (Beginner)

 Foot Worship

 Gas Masks

 Hair Pulling


 Housework Service


 Masks (On Partner)

 Massage (Giving)

 Obedience Training

 Maid/Butler Service

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Plastic Wrap

 Public Play

 Rubber Fetish (Beginner)



 Vacuum Stimulation

 Wax play




 Online Chatrooms

 TV Sports

 Alternative Medicine







 Female Supremacy


 Old Guard

 Alternative Music


 Country Music

 Eighties Music

 New Age Music

 Nineties Music

 Opera Music


 Pop Music

 Rock Music

 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes



 Auto Racing








 Horse Racing

 Ice Hockey

 Kick Boxing








 Bar Hopping




 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Role Playing

 Speech Restrictions


 Board Games


 Heavy Metal Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Industrial Music




 Curious About:

 Pilates (Beginner)

 Electrical Play

 Fire Play

 Outdoor Bondage





 Corner Time



 Gorean Lifestyle


 Punk Rock Music



 Hard Limits:






Horizontal Line

Vertical Line

Vertical Line

Copyright © 2021 and  
18 U.S.C. 2257 Record-Keeping Compliance Statement

Vertical Line

DMCA |  Privacy |  Spam |  Support |  Dir | TOS

Horizontal Line