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You know, a lot of purely vanilla women automatically assume that if a guy is comfortable in the role of a woman's slave he must be a loser and/or a wimp. I suppose that's true in some cases, but to apply the words "loser" or "wimp" to me would be a mistake. I'm neither. I have an M.S. degree in Electrical Engineering, a salary that creeped into the 6 figure range last year and I'm more then physically capable of defending myself, or the woman I'm with, against any street threats that might come along. I'm also intelligent, articulate, well rounded, and a good conversationalist. I'm someone who is equally comfortable putting on Levis and a sweatshirt to go swig a few Irish brews at "The Dubliner" or dressing up in a 3 piece suit for a performance at "The Kennedy Center".
Yes, I'm VERY comfortable assuming a slave role for women. Where women are concerned (and I do mean ONLY women), I have worshipfully servile and self sacrificingly masochistic instincts that bubble up to the surface and drive my attitude and behavior. No! I do NOT flaunt those urges in public. For me, being this way for a woman's sake and benefit is something to be practiced at-home and in private with a woman who has an appreciation for a guy who has these qualities.
Unfortunately, the vast majority of women in this world seem to feel that a guy who would willing crawl naked to them on his belly, and lavish their feet with reverent licks and kisses while they beat him with a riding crop, is unmanly, unmasculine, and someone with whom they don't want to have a serious and lasting relationship. In all honesty, women who feel that way are just too bland and too vanilla in my view, and the lack of attraction is mutual. I'm looking for a woman who has both a dominant side and a sexually sadistic streak that she loves to exercise in the privacy of the home she shares with a compatable male. Sure, a lifelong relationship of that kind IS possible and can be VERY mutually rewarding, mutually fulfilling, mutually gratifying, and mutually meaningful. Unfortunately, it's been something that I just haven't been able to grasp and embrace as yet, and perhaps it's been something that's been just out of YOUR reach too. If it has, why don't we get to know each other better. Who knows what might develop.
Andy
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