Please read my profile before contacting me.

I’m a married, 49 yrs old woman, and a retired lounge singer. I live in Modesto California. I'm into both sensual and edge play (I believe boundaries must be respected – BUT PUSHED.

My toy bag and libido are ever-growing. I’m a kinky Switch, a hardcore, pervert. I can be either gentle or rough depending on the scene, person, or my mood. I take my sexuality, and chosen lifestyle very seriously, and expect the same from others.

I am seeking confidant, intelligent Switches, Dominants and submissive women and T-girls, the Yens to my Yang. I desire a perfect blend of class and decadent kink. Someone who can share laughter and tears, both tenderness and evil sadism, and whom I will punish both for her own good and my pleasure

I’m only interested in those willing to explore the full extent of My/their nature. Women who are comfortable communicating and exposing their innermost thoughts and experiences.

In return together we can create something unbelievably beautiful and worthy. I never insist that someone I have just met call me Mistress or give herself to me immediately. I believe we both must first earn the respect of the other. I have no problem with chatting and emailing as a way to get to know one another. I think it’s a great way to begin getting to know one another. Once we are comfortable with the situation, phone conversations can lead to a possible first contact. (I prefer a coffee date). I would like to develop special relationship/s that include not only SM & BDSM but other interests as well, including local munches and public play.