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Hetero Male Submissive, 45,  Chicago, Illinois
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ElectricMassage - photo 1

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Last Online:


 Submissive Male



 6' 0"

 195 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Domme/Dom Couples

Femdom Couples

Friends Only



  I'm new at this, but I'm not new at this.     In the long run...I'm a DWM Hoping to find the one that completes me and me her.  A full loving D/s relationship.   Due to my past being in vanilla relationships, my growing needs and realizations never had a home.  That is no longer the case.  Now I hope to find the right person to form a functional, realistic and mutually fulfilling relationship.   In the short run, I would love to talk with and meet people as part of a no expectations, non-financial based relationship to share and learn through experiences with like minded people of substance. I am always interested in making some new friends for conversation and ?   I have a very vanilla image and I believe in a time and place for everything and that the D/s power exchange can happen in many ways and at many levels and does not need to be contained strictly to the bedroom or sex/fetish related activities nor does it need to be overt or theatrical all the time.    I have a life outside of Collar Me, including employment, vanilla friends and a social life filled with many things I enjoy.   I have a child in H.S., so 24/7/365 or my relocation is not on the table for the time being, nor is it a priority.    Chastity and giving up orgasm control is one of my major interests.  Not a requirement to move forward, but I would be lying if I ignored the level of control this would be giving up on my part. Lets just say I didnt used to be ambidextrous.  I have all kinds of fetish interests, not locked into any one concept.  I also have lots of curiosities and would like to find a balance that would bring a sense of unity to a relationship.  In the end I am more of a sensation guy, than an extreme pain junkie.    For all the fans of the collar in my photo- a special thanks to the photographer and owner of the collar, Ginger Stone, a wonderful, kind and experienced Domme here in Chicago.    Happy to share, feel free to ask.            

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Journal Entries:
4/27/2014 5:19:46 PM

Happy Birthday to me!

11/25/2013 10:52:31 PM

             I surrender, I am exhausted by CM, there is so much insincerity, so many unrealistic expectations, and so much distrust created and perpetuated by people ignorant of what the lifestyle community is  truly  about.    Prove me wrong.          Please.

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