So, You want to message me?
I think it's rad that you want to message me, I really do. But I should warn you that I do have my mail controls enabled, and it's mostly to help with my sanity. But, Mail Controls can't save me from everything so.. Let us begin!
I respect the fact that you are looking for a submissive, but please respect the fact that I am currently not looking for a D/s relationship at the moment, I'm more looking for people to talk to and get to know, Maybe when I'm ready though, if you aren't busy, we can talk about something serious. I'm an all or nothing type of person, So when I go into a relationship, I expect that I have you completely, I am not interested in being part of anything Poly, You want me to be submissive to you and only you? I expect you are dominant to me and only me.
While we are on subject of this, I do expect my Dominant to not just be that, I want them to be my friend, I want them to be my lover, I want to be able to feel safe around them, Like I said, I'm an all or nothing. I don't see D/s and Vanilla relationships as separate things, I see them as a whole. Because, that's how I've always had them.
I don't mind being asked questions, I don't. So go ahead and ask, that's one of the best ways to start a conversation with someone! But, Please. Don't ask about my sex life right off the bat, Don't ask for serious personal information either, That's a boundary right there. I'll get personal with you as I get to know you, but don't force things on me, I'm telling you right now, it's just going to go BAD and FAST.
Really, all I'm asking for you to do when you are talking to me is, cast aside our titles and treat me like a human being, and we will get along a lot easier than you'd ever imagine, Remember the phrase K.I.S.S? (Keep It Simple, Stupid!) When talking to me, that is your best bet.
Are we clear? I hope so, I hope I'm not being too demanding. I know I'm asking a lot, but.. really, Can we please get off on the right foot?
MUAH~! EQ.
