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There is a great deal of emphasis in these profiles as to play. And there is great pleasure in playing with a woman. However, play is only the icing on the cake. The real substance has a great deal more to do with what happens outside of the bedroom (or wherever). And while exercising control is important to me, I am not into micromanagement, caging 24/7 or collar with leash in public. This is about a private part of a private connection between two people. All of the elements of vanilla do not get thrown out the window and forgotten simply because someone recognizes in themselves to be a submissive or slave. There still needs to be a connection with the heart and mind. Even in play, no matter what is done to the body, the goal is to reach down inside. Of course, there is a great deal of life that exists outside of play. That is the cake portion -- though I do have a really deep-seated sweettooth for the icing, not to mention loving the cherry. This is suppose to be about joy and fun and reveling in life with a heavy dose of humor along the way.

While sitting on the sofa holding my lady is fulfilling in its own way, I am not kind and gentle in play. I want a female to get overwhelmed and lost in what I do to her. I feed on her sensations and the power that flows into me from what she is going through. I do not want a harem, but from the one female I do want all of her -- the heart, mind and body.