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"It all began with a particular truth, an unveiling, the effect of which is that reality is no longer the same for us as it was before."
I'm looking for more than a body to inflict fantasies on. I'm looking for more than someone that wants to be told what to do. I'm looking for a spark. I'm looking for someone that holds their own in a conversation and in play, that isn't afraid to push boundaries intellectually, emotionally and sexually, that is confident and knows what they believe and what they want done to them. I have enough experience to know that me and the BDSM lifestyle, 24/7 don't get along. But I also have enough experience to know that me and the absence of the BDSM lifestyle completely is a frustrating mess of repression and sublimation and bad faith.
My passions are music (extreme metal - death, black, doom, and classical - Shostakovich, Prokofiev, Mahler), European philosophy (Bataille, Lacan, Badiou, Marx, Lenin, Heidegger, Nancy), literature (Virginia Woolf, Mikhail Bulgakov, Ezra Pound, Thomas Mann, Mirosla Krleza, Srecko Kosovel as well as Ian Rankin, Dashiell Hammett, Raymond Chandler, Agatha Christie) and films (Se7en, Apocalypse Now, most things by Dario Argento and Rob Zombie, Gangs of New York).
Sexually, I'm very experimental and open to all sorts of things. I have very few hard limits. What matters to me, what seems to be essential to my sexual practice are: hot wax, anal play, caning and rough play. I need that spark I get pushing someone to their limits, having them give themselves to me to be restrained and completely at my mercy.
I don't drink. I don't touch drugs. I don't care if a partner does.
I live in (and love) NYC (although I am originally from Australia), but I am totally up for speaking to people around the world. I'm frequently back in Australia and over in Europe for work, and love to travel. In addition to English (dah), I speak Serbian/Croatian/Bosnian, some Russian and Slovene and I am learning Albanian.
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Sunday night recovery: early argento, mint tea, warm bath and ibuprofen. |
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Facts learnt today:
1) Anti-Fascist demonstrations in Croatia start on time. Not, like everywhere else in the world, half an hour late.
2) Dismember's first album, 'Like an everflowing stream' is far more interesting than I have previously recognized. |
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| Age: 48 |
| One horse town,
Illinois |
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