I am a 25 year old, legally blind university graduate who is very, very new to the BDSM world. I am the dominant partner in my committed, long-term relationship but it is more accurate to classify me as a switch (sorry folks, i'm taken and not seeking new partners). I am very shy about my interest in BDSM, and am quite selective about who I discuss it with. I joined CollarChat to learn all i can from the forums and to become more comfortable and confident in myself as a dominant woman.