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I am a new Domme. I bring a lot to the experience with my short stature (5'1") and my large build (46eee -45-58). I am independent, intelligent, witty and domineering. I know what most men like and know how to make them earn it.
I am looking to expand my knowledge base in Domination.
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Visiting Chicago this coming weekend.
Mistress Ebony |
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Visiting Philadelphia, South Jersey, Wilmington, Del and possibly Eastern Shore of Delaware and Maryland this coming weekend.. Thursday, Oct. 14 through Sunday October 17;
Visiting Chicago Halloween weekend. Oct. 28-31
Visiting Boston Nov. 6-13
I will be available during these times to be pampered and or for a paid session.
Mistress Ebony of Miami |
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Visiting Hamilton (June 25-27); Toronto (June 27-29).
Mistress Ebony |
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Delmarva Peninsula Visit to include Cherry Hill, NJ
I will be arriving on the Eastern Shore of Maryland tomorrow (March 26). I will be on the Lower Eastern Shore (Salisbury to Pocomoke) areas until March 30.
I will then visit Dover, Del for an overnight (March 30-31).
I will then head to Cherry Hill, NJ where I will be from March 31-April 2.
I will then travel to Baltimore, Md for an overnight April 2-3.
From Baltimore I will return to the Lower Easten Shore for an overnight then head back to Miami on April 4.
As always I will be available for paid sessions. Availability will be limited. If you are interested in a session, hit me up at yourebonybbw@gmail.com. Between family and life I may get too busy to check emails here. I'd hate to miss you!
Mistress Ebony
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Upcoming Visits:
Chicago Jan. 29-31
Wash. DC Feb. 18-21
Maryland's Eastern Shore, including Salisbury, Md., Dover Del, and Baltimore, Md. March 27-April 3.
I will be available for paid sessions. I'm eager to try out my new enema bag and glass dildos. Any virgin or experienced asses?
Availability is always limited. Contact me now to schedule.
Mistress Ebony
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Visiting Boston this coming Thursday to Sunday. Will be available for play (paid play) in Revere. Contact me for a link to my website which list my interest and limits.
Any slave out there in Boston area who want to be accomodating this weekend? You know.. take me to dinner, show me around town, massage my feet...? Mistress Ebony have ways to keep you warm! |
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Back in Chicago until Saturday, the 14th. |
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I love Chicago's Subs and Slaves! I will be returning to Chicago for a short visit Oct. 22-25. Will be available for a session or two. You must bring your favorite toy(s) to the session. |
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Visiting Chicago this coming Thursday evening to Saturday evening (September 24-26). Will be available for a session or two.
Mistress Ebony |
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Visiting Chicago September 24-26. Will be available for a session or two.
Mistress Ebony |
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HOW DO YOU INTERPRET SELFISH?
I had a recent conversation with a male who has me wondering if I am selfish...
Him - I've lived in Florida for a number of years and what you & I categorize as selfish is probably very different. I'm speaking from a desire to be more open with the right person and not as an emotional clone of any negative relational experience you may have endured and overcame with selfish guys in your life.
Me - I've lived in Florida for 5 years now and have met a lot of selfish people. Those I keep at bey. Hopefully your selfishness is positive. I'm a busy woman. Not involved in any relationship except with clients and co-workers. I'm family oriented yet have no tolerance for dishonesty and stupidity. I ignore it. I am looking for someone to serve me as I see fit. You know ... "Get in where you fit it". Not in a mean way or anything like that. Just that I'm a Domme that is quite independent and set in my ways. I have a house, a car, a job, and an education and am not looking for a sub or slave to give me any of those things. He must want to come into my web to enhance my life... make it easier for me... help me to be more organized and relax. Are you capable and willing? |
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Visiting Orlando August 14th - 21st;
Available to meet and greet; maybe a session or two.
Mistress Ebony |
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From a 275 lb guy who loves to wear panties
(Him) So you want to control others...but you cannot control your weight?
That's sad.
(Me) {knodding my head in disbelief} Huh? Is that the pot calling the kettle black?
Mistress Ebony |
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Miss Ebony,
that was very rude of "jeruselam", dont You think on it for a minute. You are very sexy and Beautiful!
and i have no objection to this being posted for ALL to see.
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Email I received from a male from Jerusalem
Hello. I am going to express my opinion and please do not think that I hold something against you. But it strikes me you know : you don't look like a "bargain" to me , you are not very good looking yet your demands are sky high. Did you break all the mirrors in your house or what? A little modesty won't hurt you believe me.
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Male Submissive
Jerusalem
Israel
5'7"
158 lbs
48
Straight
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Everyone has their opinion... what can I say??
Mistress Ebony |
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i'm sorry Ma'am but i don't appreciate how You disrespect people's privacy. i am not interested in corresponding with someone who copies and pastes into a journal conversation that were held in discreteness. i don't care if You keep the name private, it's the thought that counts...
Thanks for saying "hi" ... Good bye ... to You... and best of luck with those who have no problem with that... i'm sure You'd find enough idiots out there who won't even know cause they would never bother to read Your journal...
(To the writer) Sorry you are so offended... It's my journal... I'll put in whatever I want...
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Now I know I said I wouldn't put someone's name in my journal but this one I have to. Tell me who this dude is? In a matter of a two minute span of writing me he became another person...
hello how are today, my name is Mark i saw your profile and i love it so can we be friends i know we can make good thing out of it by God grace. love from Randy. |
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For the LOVE OF GOD... Please stop asking me things that are here for your lazy asses to read...
I do have an agenda so I need for it to be known. I am looking for one of the following. 1) a submissive who want to assist me by doing housechores, yard work, errands, pampering me by cooking and being at my beck and call... he must be sensitive, honest, trustworthy, sexual, sexy, able to have and hold an erection, orally inclined, already trained and willing to learn how to please me emotionally as well as sexually... he must enjoy travelling especially weekend getaways... he must have patience yet be able to make a decision when I can't... he must always make me feel like I am the most important thing going on in his life (because I will be) and he must be able to accept rewards for doing so... he must understand that my priorities are as follows: family, work, business, him then friends... he must be financially secured and generous... he can not be lazy and is not allowed to rest until he has put me to bed... he must be my companion... my confidant... he must not be embarrassed to be seen in public with me and be ready to attend work related functions with me...
2) a slave who want to be owned by me and without hesitation will be doing housechores, yard work, errands, pampering me by cooking and being at my beck and call... he must be sensitive, honest, trustworthy, sexual, sexy, able to have and hold an erection, orally inclined, already trained and willing to learn how to please me emotionally as well as sexually... he must enjoy travelling especially weekend getaways... he must have patience yet be able to make a decision when I can't... he must always make me feel like I am the most important thing going on in his life (because I will be) and he must be able to accept rewards for doing so... he must understand that my priorities are as follows: family, work, business, him then friends... he must be financially secured and generous... he can not be lazy and is not allowed to rest until he has put me to bed... he must be my companion... my confidant... he must not be embarrassed to be seen in public with me and be ready to attend work related functions with me... or
3) a friend who want to help me by doing housechores, yard work, errands, pampering me by cooking and being at my beck and call... he must be sensitive, honest, trustworthy, sexual, sexy, able to have and hold an erection, orally inclined, already trained and willing to learn how to please me emotionally as well as sexually... he must enjoy travelling especially weekend getaways... he must have patience yet be able to make a decision when I can't... he must always make me feel like I am the most important thing going on in his life (because I will be) and he must be able to accept rewards for doing so... he must understand that my priorities are as follows: family, work, business, him then friends... he must be financially secured and generous... he can not be lazy and is not allowed to rest until he has put me to bed... he must be my companion... my confidant... he must not be embarrassed to be seen in public with me and be ready to attend work related functions with me...
His kinks are secondary unless they already fall in the above or can be fulfilled while doing and being one of the above. Any more questions??? |
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Another email that got my blood boiling today...
(Him) i am sorry - i misunderstood your profile - i did not realize it was a professional profile -
(ME) ... this is the name I was using when I first started escorting 3 years ago. I am new to the community having joined collarme on dec 2nd after having an adventure with a client who flew me into Philadelphia for a few days. I have been asked many times if I was a Domme, Mistress willing to do dom sessions and always turned them down because of my sensitive side... It took some time for me to realize how dominant I really am... how much I love to be served etc... so now I am combining my two lives... vanilla and BDSM... I am an escort and will continue to be because I really enjoy that life... I am also a pro-domme because again, I enjoy that business side of the activity... Also there are men and women who desire to spend an hour or two with no commitment with a professional domme. Those I welcome. However on the other side of my life, I am looking for one person or two who would like to provide servitude to a busy, intelligent, sensual, sensitive but don't take no shit Domme.. are you sure you are ready for this venture? I get many request and if I didn't have a daughter living at home would probably have a slave for every day of the week. But being a mother, I have to act certain ways at certain times. I'm not looking for a financial slave or anything like that even though it would be a plus... I don't need a man for his money.. because I make my own ... I am looking for someone to do things for me around the house... yard... errands.. take me out to dinner... bring me dinner to my bed... attend business functions.. take me away from my busy life to some refuge... massage my feet... massage my breast... you know.. make me feel like the queen I am... |
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And here goes his intelligent response... Whoaaaaaa... I'm gonna cry... hehe...(another one who likes to put down... I know he feels better now... Like a big tall man he probably really isn't!!) Also, it amazes me how he now lives in Boston yet his profile and message stated he was in Naples... I'm so tired of the game players... now here is his first message to read which I chose to not show in my previous journal entry... Does it not say Naples? The weak tend to strike out when they don't get their way or is it because they been proven to not be the strongest?
His first email to me - Are you looking to pussy whip a 48 year old white man? If your forceful, not afraid to slap a man, and if you like as punishment for a man to eat pussy, well, then I am your man. Oh, there would be a struggle, but you would always win...care to? XX from Naples
His response to my response which I showed in my previous journal entry
Hi,
Hmmm, usually I do not offer advice to other adults. My feeling has always been, if you're an adult, you should know what you are, who you are, and act accordingly. I will this time, since what you said, how you said it, how you spelled it, should be answered. If I didn't answer you, you might remain ignorant of your atrocious use of English.
First, it is "single" minded, not "one" minded. One minded is simply giberish. And it is "those" terms, not "that" terms. It is "upon" not "on" when refering to a Domme. And it is not "talents" plural, talent is itself a plural term so it would be "time and talent." It is "first" and foremost, not "fore" and foremost. Fore is for golf. And "embellish" on me, this is giberish. And finally, it is "You're loss" not "your lost."
I have to say, calling yourself a professional denotes time, experience and education. You cannot decide one day that you are a professional Domme, just like you cannot pick up the violin and call yourself a violinist. Both take talent, time, and education.
My words may seem harsh, but, right now all you are is a fuck, nothing more. All men who can read and write will see with you is a fuck, nothing more. Trying to tell me that it is my loss, is, well laughable.
First you should learn how to read and write, then you can work at least, gain life's experience, become a woman who is at home with herself and with others. Polite natures are learned, not natural. A well spoken, well educated, confident, black woman with poise and a gentle nature can command. You, no one will ever listen to you. I predict, lots of children, but men who you never see again. Project life, welfare, and lots of weight gain. You're gonna end up fat, ignorant and stuck with daddy-less children, some of whom will die from violent drug sales.
If you wish to change all that, and if this letter did get to you, then ask for my help. I am a kind and gentle man, well read, well educated, who can help you with good solid advise about what you should do to get out of the hole you have dug.
Wake up, and life will be wonderful. Stay ignorant and all you will ever be able to do is type gibberish on the internet claiming to be a professional.X
LMAO I truly feel sorry for him... It is so funny and puzzling to me how someone who still see the black race as inferior would be contacting a BLACK DOMME. To quote him again...
(he sees me and other black sistahs with) lots of children, but men who you never see again. Project life, welfare, and lots of weight gain. You're gonna end up fat, ignorant and stuck with daddy-less children, some of whom will die from violent drug sales.
Another head shaking entry
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When will the Pro-Domme insults stop?
I was contacted by a sub/slave who from the first email put it out there what he was looking for... so I took the opportunity to let him know "upfront" that I am a Pro-Domme...
Yeah you got it... here goes his response... and my comment (of course) will follow... hehe
HIM - Hi, It certainly is a great pleasure to meet you, but I have to say, I am not interested in a professional. I do not cast aspersions; we all have our talents after all, but, for me the only way that domination works is when it is genuine. Someone really have to be interested in me, as a man, as a person, in order that I will respond in a real way. I treat a woman in the same way as I wish to be treated, real, genuine, honestly, respectfully. To separate the man from the psychology is impossible for me. If a pro were to do her thing, I would just feel like I was watching a movie, or a performance, nothing more. I do travel to Miami, yet, I am not sure that matters unless you are searching for a man who will want you for who you are, and not what you can do as a profession. What someone does never really has impressed me anyway. I think we have all lost sight of who someone is. Instead we substitute what they do for who they are. That is a shame. We all have to make a living, we all work, but it is not really who we are. If you wish to talk, let me know. I have a great weakness for the beauty of a black woman, especially one that intends to slap me around and force me to taste her deeper beauty. If that is you, if your searching for someone other than as a client, then it would be my great pleasure to know you. XXXXXX
Before you read my response, I would like you to read my entire response to his graphic 1st email...
ME - Do you get to Miami? I am a pro-domme as well as one who seeks a sub/slave.
Did I not say "I am seeking a sub/slave? Guess that was overlooked...
My response to his lecture!! {smacking my lips} In particular to "If a pro were to do her thing, I would just feel like I was watching a movie, or a performance, nothing more."
ME - Too bad you have chosen to be "one" minded when it come to Pro-domme. I have adopted that term because it is a term the lifestyle has placed on a domme who is compensated for her time and talents. I am a person fore and foremost. Too bad you have chosen not to embellish upon me as a person and as a professional. I am who I am when I work, when I play, when I breathe... {shaking my head}
Your Lost!!!
{To any of my sub/slaves/admirers out there who have had the opportunity to meet me and would like to comment on what type of individual I am, I will be starting a feedback page on my website...It is amazing to me how some are so quick to judge when we all have some kink or another...AREN'T WE ALL A MEMBER OF COLLARME?}
Mistress Ebony
Miami's Newest Supersized Ebony Domme
http://yourebonybbw.googlepages.com/mistressebony
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I met a Sub today on my return trip from Orlando. We conversed as if we have known each other for years. As a matter of fact our lives could have crossed many years ago when we both lived then in another state. When I finally reached home and checked my email this is what I was greeted with:
"Mistress
in a word
WOW You are more beautiful than I had imagined
thank you"
(What a smile that put on my face...)
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My favorite kind of entry... One that stimulates my mind, soul and being...
He wrote:
i see that you said about limited experience so tell me how long have you been into this lifestyle I can tell that you have always been a strong woman but what brought you into this now in your life.
I wrote:
As you said I am a strong woman.. as a matter of fact they are singing a song about me (INDEPENDENT WOMAN)... hehe... I have been in the adult entertaining business for several years.. escorting, modeling, etc... some of my sessions have been domination sessions so to speak. I have always been dominant, domineering...etc... so after been pushed by some of my clients to cross over.. I did... It has been exciting, fun and rewarding being a pro - domme, however I am looking for a submissive and/or slave to be my toy, my possession, at my beck and call... you know anyone? {smile}
Mistress Ebony
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Here we go again!!!
(incerpts from several emails from a submissive)
I would be the perfect one to serve you.
I am not into games I would love to serve you in anywhich way possible.
It would be my honor and pleasure to be your personal serveant
{okay, I'm feeling him...}
Well if you throw a little ass and foot worship and some facesitting you got a deal
{rolling my eyes and shaking my head}
I am a very submissive , I love to be dominated, humiliated, no pain. But facesitting, ass and foot worship, an oral slut, spit on, water sports, scat (maybe)
{this was my response to him}
keep in mind for us to get to know each other.. I will initially bring you over to help with my housechores (reason I am looking for a sub/slave)... if things go well you will be rewarded with your likes/BDSM... I see what you like as rewards. Which will be withheld during times of punishment.. hopefully you never have to be punished or ignored... Ignoring is my strongest and most used form of punishment. I think we can have fun together.. however, my needs always come first. Understood???
{his response}
Ohh belive me it is very well understood, I want to keep u happy......you deserve it I want to worship you like the beautiful queen that you are. Please allow me to lick the shit out of your ass as reward
OMG, you guys just don't get it!!! It's not about what you want... It's about what I want, what I feel like doing and what I feel like giving... Until you are able to comprehend this... please don't waste your time emailing or iming me...
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Message left on Collarme by "Wanted-to-be" slave. After 3rd Compatibility Training sesson....
Hi mistress: as you can see i failed to complete your tasks.
the reason is that iam lazy like hell!.
excuse me but i really tried but as i told you i dont use to do domestic work even in my house.
i really sorry becausse i think you really need help,you are a woman that fights so hard for your family and i wanted to do the job just becausse you deserved it,for your time with me and becausse i know your life is complicated with job and family.
may be i will ruin your evening ,i know you trust me and give me opportunities.
i will think to delete my profile becausse i think iam more a sub than a slave(too lazy).
sorry again.you deserve the best , you are a wonderful woman.
signed
XXXX
{as the saying goes...'you make em' or break em'...NEXT?}
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Even though I am not new to the concept and activities of BDSM I recognize that I am new to the lifestyle and will continue to remind folks of this. I am contacted daily by members who are sub/slaves and even doms (male and female) who find me or my profile interesting. I have even to date had my first encounter with a male who calls himself a slave and I continue to be puzzled and intrigued at the same time with the lifestyle. Maybe what I am looking for is or is not going to be found by studying and trying to commit or enter into this lifestyle. I thought it was plain and simple and Domination was the answer. Only one month into being a member of Collarme and I'm getting frustrated when I read my messages and find one amusing or pathetic message after another. The one message that I do find interesting or a potential I'm let down after responding or even chatting with the person on Yahoo. I find that more than not, folks are on here with their hidden agenda... game playing, getting their jollies off, game playing... Did I say game playing?
So once again, I am adding more information about me or merely repeating myself in my journal. For those of you who do read it, thank you. Nothing makes me more upset to be asked a question about information that is in my profile or journal. I am only going to send you back here to read. I hope folks in the past and in the future will not be offended for me posting responses from chats or messages. I will never post anyone's name. Now if you are into cutting and pasting your introduction and someone else sees it in my journal, then I apologize. Below is a message sent to me from a Sub which is quite interesting to me and I would love to learn from his knowledge and skills, however it isn't about him or you... It's about me and when are you Sub/Slaves and fellow Dom(mes) going to get it???
Message from a Sub:
Your profile indicates that you are a beginning domme so it would seem you have limited experience with submissives. I wonder if you would be interested in an experienced long time submissive male desiring to meet a dominant lady who takes great delight in spanking and whipping needy males good and hard who are restrained naked and completely helpless. I would be glad to guide you on your way with this exciting activity.
My response:
Hi... I would love to learn all of that.. but you know what??... I see all of those activities as something a sub or slave would have to earn... People from my past was beat because of misdoing... or perceptions of misdoings... I have found that subs/slaves in this lifestyle desire this type of activity for whatever reason they do... I am into rewards more so than punishment.. and my punishment is not going to be something that someone is desiring (if you know what I mean). If that is the case, why wouldn't a sub/slave screw up a task. If I set a task to be done then I want it done and done correctly. Not to be screwed up so that the slave can be whipped by me... Hell no!!
Feel free to contact me with what you can and will do for me. How you plan to serve me. Hearing what benefits I could get out of allowing you to enter into my life is what I need to hear and please let it be something that you would derive pleasure from because you will be pleasing me.
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Conversation with a Sub/Slave on Yahoo Messenger today (December 29, 2007)
Sub: Good morning Maam
Sub: Did you make it to Orlando?
Ebony BBW: yes I did
Sub: How are you Maam?
Ebony BBW: I'm ok.. visiting with a friend
Sub: oh
Sub: ok
Sub: What are you plans for today?
Sub: I don't have anything going on
Ebony BBW: kids are out shopping..my friend and I are going to relax.. then we'll sightsee later
Sub: You have kids?
Ebony BBW: 2
Sub: ok
Sub: How old are they?
Ebony BBW: youngest is 11
Ebony BBW: girls
Ebony BBW: .. got to run now... ttyl
Sub: yes Maam
Sub: maybe we can chat later
(2-3 hours later)
Ebony BBW: you around
Sub: yes Maam
Sub: How are you?
Ebony BBW: I'm feeling great...
Ebony BBW: :)
Sub: good
Sub: Do you have any recent pics I may see of you?
Sub: What are you up to Maam?
Sub: Are you there Maam?
Sub: Maam? what happened?
BUZZ!!! {I hate to see that someone buzzed me... My computer is always muted so I don't hear the buzz and if I could... still to me it is so rude and annoying)
Sub: Did I offend you?
Ebony BBW: no.. I'm checking my mail...
Ebony BBW: I'm here.. no offense
Ebony BBW: I have an escort website.. you want to check out pics there?
Sub: yes please
Ebony BBW: OMITED
Ebony BBW: you never checked it out while in my group?
Sub: I think so but it's been along time
Sub: So do your daughters know about your interest in BDSM?
Sub: The website says your page is closed
Sub: Hello?
Sub: Do you have a myspace page?
Sub: Are you still there Maam?
BUZZ!!!
Ebony BBW: hold on
Sub: yes Maam
Ebony BBW: yes the group is closed... my website is open
Ebony BBW: OMITED
Ebony BBW: yahoo closed my second group last sat...
Ebony BBW: my myspace is under yourebonybbw
Sub: ok Maam
Ebony BBW: did you get in website
Sub: yes Maam
Sub: It works now
Sub: those are some hot photos
Sub: haven't seen them in a long time
Sub: So what else are you up to today Maam?
Ebony BBW: nothing.. just relaxing..
Sub: Can you tell me more about your BDSM lifestyle?
Ebony BBW: didn't you read that it is new
Ebony BBW: my involvement so far has been in pro sessions
Sub: yes I did read that
Sub: Can you tell me more about what aspects you are looking to get into? What you might want to try?
Ebony BBW: can you read my blog... on collarme...
Sub: yes I did
Ebony BBW: as a matter of fact.. I think I wrote it to you.. that is me in a nutshell..
Sub: ok
Sub: Do your daughters know about this?
Sub: that you want to get into BDSM?
Sub: Do your friends know?
Ebony BBW: no
Ebony BBW: a few friends... including a family member
Ebony BBW: my kids say I'm a slave master anyway...hehe
Sub: Would you humiliate me in front of your friends?
Sub: Are you busy Maam?
Ebony BBW: no
Sub: Do you have any experience with strapons Maam?
Ebony BBW: no
Sub: Would you like to use one on a sub?
Ebony BBW: I'm waiting for someone to purchase me one... yes I would use it
Sub: I see
Sub: Would you like to have me as your live-in slave Maam?
Ebony BBW: I'm still researching ownership...I need to know that I can take on the full responsibility
Ebony BBW: I know I want a slave but I will not take this lightly.. so if I can't take on all the responsibility including keeping him physically and mentally healthy.. maybe I just need a submissive
Sub: I see
Sub: How would you keep him mentally and physically healthy?
Sub: What would your daughters and family think of you having a male slave in the house?
Ebony BBW: I don't think much.. I haven't had a man in the house living with us since my youngest was born so over 11 years... I think they would like a man in the house for me... however the knowledge that he is my slave I don't know if the youngest would understand or that I would want her to know... they are used to guys catering to me so that will be what they think he is doing
Sub: Maam?
Ebony BBW: just another guy "tripping over their mom"
Sub: Are they used to that?
Ebony BBW: the oldest is..youngest.. no
Sub: Would you keep the BDSM stuff private from them and your family or not?
Ebony BBW: from my daughters yes.. from other family members who can comprehend.. no... from friends who comprehend .. no..
Sub: Would I be humiliated in front of them?
Ebony BBW: I will humiliate anyone if they piss me off... and sometimes it doesn't take much to piss me off.. but just intentionally... for no reason...no never.. if I humiliate you or anyone its' because you have gone against me or my wishes or totally pissed me off
Sub: Can you give me an example of what you would do to humiliate someone like me?
Ebony BBW: no because its not a planned situation
Sub: ok
Sub: Do you like to be sadistic?
Ebony BBW: Sub.. you are starting to get on my nerves with your questions... remember this is new to me... I have been an escort for the past 3 years before that completely vanilla.. oh I learned a term... I'm not sadistic
Sub: I apologize
Sub: I'm not sure what to talk to you about then?
Ebony BBW: I am controlling.. I like things my way.. I like telling people what to do and they do what I need them to do for me... I will not hurt anyone.. I will take good care of them as long as they take good care of me.. I will deny things when I feel they don't deserve it.. that's all I know for now.. I am feeling all this stuff out..
Sub: I like the thoughts of BDSM and I would like to explore it with someone special
Ebony BBW: just stop with the damn questions... you know what you want... I think I have given enough "no" to your questions that if yes is what you wanted then you would see I am not for you...
Ebony BBW: well maybe I am not her...
Ebony BBW: I don't even really understand the bdsm stuff.. I know I want to dominate and can.. have all my life that is who I am...
Sub: and I would like to explore that on a long term basis with someone special
Sub: I didn't mean to annoy you. I was just trying to learn about you
Sub: What would you like to talk to me about then?
Ebony BBW: fine but this is all I know of myself for now...this is all I can give...
Sub: yes Maam
Sub: I'm just trying to get to know you
Sub: You seem interesting
Ebony BBW: I am researching slavery as I told you before (I think) so let me do that... |
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My response to question asked by a submissive if I was in this professionally or as a lifestyle:
As long as I have been in the adult pleasing business, I have been approached regarding BDSM. I have always had an interest and realized that I am very domineering hence reason I am single... hehe... I have had a couple of domination sessions and really got a kick (arousal) out of it... So yes I am in this professionally; however, I am trying to learn as much about the lifestyle as I can. I am looking for a submissive man/slave/servant whatever he wants to call himself who will adore me and be at my beck and call. I am looking for a longterm relationship that eventually could become a live in relationship. After escorting for 3 years, meeting new people and travelling, I'm kinda winding down. Realizing when I lay in my room at night with no one to talk to that I do need a companion. Who better than a submissive who adores me, wants to worship me, will be attentive to my needs and can be my houseboy...
As for what I like about BDSM is all of the above that can fill my emotional and physical needs. I also love telling someone what to do and how to do it.. especially since I know how to do it.. hehe... I have been doing phone entertainment for 2 years now and a lot of it is fantasy, control, and humiliation. I had a recent session with a client that during our time together I found out that he is submissive and into "masochist?" play. We had toys and I had so much fun doing cock ball torture. He left me a review in my Escort website stating I was Superb! (Which I am).
This is about the longest response I have written since being on Collarme in the one month that I have been a member. Hope you don't mind but I'm gonna cut and paste and put in my blog... It speaks a lot about who I am and how I got to where I am. Thanks for asking... |
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I'm still seeking that Sub/Servant who wants to make me happy. I have been receiving a lot of hellos and request to be serve but when really put to the test you find out how many are really serious... Lets say none! Even though I am new to this lifestyle, I know how to wean out the timewasters. Please contact me only if you are truly ready to take on an adventure with a DOMINATE WOMAN who is ready to be served emotionally, financially, physically and if you are really good SEXUALLY. |
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| Age: 30 |
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California |
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