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Hetero Male Dominant, 44,  Flint, Michigan
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What I am looking for is, a woman who knows that this is a evolving relationship. Im honest and practical. Things are not going to be smooth all the time, however we can have fun and learn as we go. One woman can be many things. But her core has to be submitting and open to what I need her to be and to do.

I know what being honest gets me. And if I wasn't a reasonable man, I'd let the boys have this potentially good time.












 Dominant Male



 6' 1"

 190 lbs



 African Descent



Actively Seeking:

Submissive female


 You wearing my collar

 Hair Pulling

 Mental Bondage

 Orgasm Control

 Spanking you



 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries

 Coffee Shops



 Renaissance Faires





 Martial Arts





 Anal Play


 Blindfolding you

 Body Worship

 Placing you on a leash

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Role Playing


 Lifestyle BDSM

 Curious About:

 Canes and Crops

 Obedience Training

 Outdoor Bondage

 Sensory Play


 Suspension Bondage




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Journal Entries:
11/28/2022 1:59:32 AM

I'm looking for she who can be peace. That's what her goal for me is.

11/22/2022 2:30:08 AM

If you know what you need and want to reach. Chat me up. I'm too busy, to deal with the unsure.

11/18/2022 10:16:32 AM

What am I trying to do or find?  

That woman who will evolve during high pressure moments.

That's the beauty of life, seeing someone or something getting stronger.

11/17/2022 3:40:23 PM

Only LTR. I don't want to part-time.

11/13/2022 3:53:08 AM

I just realized that I am what they call a toxic male of today's standard. Is that what being a man that likes a woman who is submissive is these days? Well I guess I'll stay toxic.

10/28/2022 12:10:24 AM

I still haven't found a real person that's serious. Now I am starting to see what some of the things people are saying is true here.

10/21/2022 5:45:55 PM

Chat me up, I like to know what's in the core of the woman. How else do I create the best treatment and results.

10/15/2022 11:06:16 PM

Something I miss about a good woman. Being asked, (And I quote.) where'd I get a bitch like that?

10/15/2022 2:06:48 PM

What I want is simple. And it seems that it's complicated for a woman to do.

I find this amusing.

10/8/2022 2:42:24 PM

I know exactly what I need and want. 

10/8/2022 4:56:47 AM

This new age is a hassle. But there are a few good ones somewhere.

7/15/2022 5:11:50 PM

It's been a while since I've had the scent of something beautiful.

7/4/2022 6:26:42 AM

If I am not creating a bit of art or tinkering with something. I am working out. That's how I keep my center. 

5/8/2022 8:32:55 PM

This is a night that I could enjoy  looking from book to a woman. Doing whatever it is that entertains her. Thinking better about it. She'd be pounced on and well used, for ruining my quiet time. 

5/7/2022 5:06:23 AM

I just want one thing. And it's not something simple to be or do. 

5/6/2022 2:18:55 PM

I need someone with... Hmmmm... A nice amount of spice in their submission. Sure some like docile. But I need that and some. Bare your fangs and you may like the results. Mood depending. 

Come earn your pleasure and punishment. Accept it and grow stronger. 

5/2/2022 9:03:12 PM

If you only want a bit of attention. Go to your bulk list. Your wasting time. 

4/29/2022 12:28:34 PM

My top two movies that are not action. Secretary and After Fall, Winter

4/29/2022 7:52:21 AM

Let's go out for dinner. You can wear next to nothing for me. 

4/27/2022 2:42:57 AM

I see many sunrises. It's a peaceful time of day. Yet, most of the time. I still feel grander than it's beauty. 

4/18/2022 4:45:27 PM

I'm not looking to repeat a what I had before. I'm looking to apply what I learned from the past and improve for the future. That's what growth is. 

4/6/2022 7:09:41 PM

I'm for the most part, aloof and calm.  Do I get hyped up and just do shit? Sometimes, I shouldn't. 

Do I say stuff I should keep to myself or at least low enough to be missed? Absolutely. And I miss saying cool shit too. 

However, what I like to do the most. Is enjoy what I have. 

3/27/2022 6:01:49 AM

I like to know what I am working with. 

If I know you. I can get the best out of you. 

What you may not be able to do today, can be taught.

3/27/2022 5:54:09 AM

There is no failure, if you can improve after a mistake. 

3/12/2022 1:05:11 AM

Where are all of the good minions? 

2/25/2022 10:38:40 AM

I'm looking for someone who is ready to be a long term partner.  That knows how to communicate. 

2/17/2022 6:13:44 AM

The greatest chains to bind her to you, come from her love for you. 

4/21/2018 6:56:01 AM
I write like I talk and think. I refuse do text talk.

4/18/2018 7:17:45 PM
The funny question I see the most. How would you use me? If you have to question with an opening so wide, maybe you are not ready. It's either try/do or you are wasting someone's time.

4/18/2018 7:27:14 AM
An unexpected day off. This morning would be a late starting day. Only on the getting out of bed part, for me. A little fetch girl, sounds like a good start to the day.

4/17/2018 3:38:03 PM
My needs for a girl, right now. After work coffee and dunch with a shower. A nice relaxing rut. Depending on how I feel will determine how rough.

4/14/2018 7:03:52 PM
Do any women still know how to cook and bake? These are things that I have been missing seeing done off TV.

4/10/2018 6:19:53 PM
Since this has happened a second time. I know that I am a good dominant. A sub has made it to the end of our time, found herself a Dom that she's thought just right. Then wants to return for a longer period. The difference between the us is that I learned about the girl and treated her by what I saw she could be and do. I wish her luck. Too bad she rushed into the last relationship.

4/9/2018 2:30:28 AM
I am no perfectionist, I just like to have things done my way.

4/4/2018 5:54:25 AM
I can tell you only what I want to have planned. However, these things change depending on how we grow together, learn and become more. So, I have a practical mind and can be a bit cool emotionally. My name says it all. I may not show tell you what I feel. But if you are not paying attention, you are going to miss my showing you by how I treat you.

4/3/2018 6:02:19 AM
Patience. These are not the good old days.

4/2/2018 4:23:44 AM
I have to stop looking for a perfect woman. And just started with someone who has potential for my version of perfect.

3/25/2018 11:43:47 AM
What I want and need you for. Sometimes it varies from, Girlfriend Wife Stress relief And a few other roles. The most important one is my loyal subject.

3/9/2018 1:13:50 PM
Loyalty is the sexiest thing a woman can have.

2/28/2018 2:46:48 PM
The sexiest thing you can do for me? When you start out with limits and give them all up because you believe.

2/1/2018 9:11:00 AM
I need a woman who knows that plans are always mutable.

1/30/2018 2:19:12 PM
Not all changes are quick. Some have to be waited on for the desired effect. This makes moments that count.

1/15/2018 5:20:10 PM
My view of life is not easy for some to understand. Most people have forgotten how to be savage and practical.

1/2/2018 6:27:08 AM
Just looking up and seeing her at peace. Smiling at the fact that I can disrupt that peace. The ideas a woman brings to mind, by being herself is her strong suit.

12/22/2017 12:53:42 PM
A fresh sheet of paper is for new ideas. A clean slate is for a new ...

12/1/2017 3:15:42 AM
Primal lust. Blazing like Hell's fire. There's nothing like that. It's a need.

11/24/2017 8:44:49 AM
Live-in, submissive, creative, housewife type, sexual deviant, and proud slut. I'm not asking for a lot.

10/29/2017 8:14:22 PM
It's hard to find the right one to tend my simple needs and creative lust.

10/28/2017 2:45:35 PM
I like the words "belongs to".

10/22/2017 6:39:45 AM
What a site. Are you all hesitant due to a good portion of less mentally healthy people?

10/20/2017 3:25:53 AM
I have found girls that have great enthusiasm. However, I have not found one that has that and great sexual energy. I need both, I like to keep things balanced.

10/10/2017 3:22:48 PM
You must have communication skills.

10/10/2017 1:52:50 PM
She had to go. She wasn't mentally ready.

10/7/2017 9:48:40 PM
The part that makes me laugh the most. She said, you look mean as fuck. But you are nothing like you look. I was afraid of you, but in person. In person, I can only love you. This is a brave woman. She's moved in without knowing the full of me. But that is what I was looking for. That trust. I am not the average man. I am old in the soul.

10/7/2017 9:37:40 PM
Yes. I have a submissive. But she's just a submissive girl. I'm not saying that she doesn't do what a sub does. I'm saying that she is not capable of being a sexual deviant I need to get there. I need a bit of maso in the mix. So, in essence I want a cancellation type for a long-term relationship. A baby girl with of rough and forced play is a need. One that fucks better than a porn star, that's a big plus.

9/28/2017 7:32:09 AM
Finally. I'm back with a girl that serves. I'd almost forgot how good it feels to have a girl underfoot.

9/3/2017 6:54:09 AM
I am having maid fantasies now. I am just deciding on live in or part time. I know that I am going to want to fuck the maid either way.

8/13/2017 8:28:52 AM
Sacrifices must be made. Give up the mind, time is given to teach. Give up the body, time is given to take pleasure with it. Give up the being, time is given to show the purpose. This is what attention is.

7/30/2017 7:51:32 PM
My clay. That's what you are. Clay to be studied, molded, reshaped over and over, until I get what I see in the clay.

7/22/2017 1:42:08 PM
If you have any pride in what you are. You may be of interest to me. Also it good to have a bit of personality. I read these things.

7/16/2017 12:00:29 AM
I take the data of you and create the you that's the best of what you are. Or can be. Sometimes, there's more than one aspect to develop.

7/8/2017 2:40:56 PM
It would be nice to see a girl in the house naked.

6/29/2017 4:38:20 PM
I want/need a athletic brat. I'm no slouch so I need a girl who can keep up.

6/28/2017 6:35:42 PM
If I am talking to you. I'm not expecting you to sound like everyone else. That would make me have a narrow view of thinking. And if you think I am or should be like any other male. You should not be talking to me. I only represent me, not all black men and damned sure not all men.

6/22/2017 10:26:50 AM
If you are interested in training, pass me by. I enlighten and enhance. I draw out what I see in a woman to get the full potential I need.

6/14/2017 11:07:43 AM
Where's the practical thinking women?

6/11/2017 6:18:04 AM
What amuses me the most. Well that's girls that expect a certain type of answer to their questions. When you start to think that everyone is alike, you are not looking for growth. You are looking to settle.

5/28/2017 5:18:14 PM
Since it's raining right now, I reflect on what I like during the storm. Sitting around reading, to look up and spotting my girl in her down time. I may forget my book for some interest in my new study of medicine her. Attend to my girl's health. This varies between mind, body and emotional areas. I'm one that believes, that if you are in charge, do that maintenance. You create failures​if you don't. And my favorite time. Quiet time. There should be no moving around or speaking, until I do so.

5/26/2017 6:28:42 AM
Do not make me any promises, that you can't keep.

5/24/2017 4:23:35 AM
This place is amusing.

5/15/2017 8:19:15 AM
The part I like the most is the worship. It's beautiful to see a girl, on her knees looking up in admiration.

5/10/2017 5:55:12 AM
I just want to meet one person, that can be open to the truth. Without judgement or fear. It's the job dominant to make a safe and balanced life with and for the submissive. Why's that hard for some to understand.

5/8/2017 7:07:33 AM
I got my first block today. Just for saying that I want to be friends instead of more. I'm amused. Small minds can grow into more, if you can't be open. It's bad enough that I have to go through a lot of spam to meet a girl her and that's what I get when I meet a real woman? It's interesting.

5/8/2017 6:55:25 AM
I have to laugh at some people. They have tons of people talking to them here. And when I don't show the same level of interest as the people that are desperate for them I'm blocked. I am here for conversation only now. This place is not for practical people.

5/7/2017 7:52:20 PM
Conversation is always going good until you share the truth. If you have a problem talking about what's real or can't have a debate, nor see from more than one side. You are wasting my time.

5/4/2017 10:11:52 AM
I'm giving this one last go. Then I'm out.

4/26/2017 7:58:37 AM
If I come across one serious girl. I'd call this site working. But from what I am getting. It looks doubtful that I would. At least I am being entertained.

4/21/2017 4:09:22 AM
Why do I keep getting girls that think, sexual and domestic training are most important? That alone is not going to be enough for me. Pay attention. I want a girl that can learn, is quick to get things, is adaptable and knows that we are doing what's best for my interest. Girls. When you are with me, it's more than bedroom kink and games.

4/15/2017 6:14:37 PM
I'm attracted to a certain type of crazy. We all are.

4/11/2017 6:29:09 AM
I'm here for something that is at a all time low. The one thing that a girl should be proud to show off. Intelligence. Is there a deep thinking woman? Come and show me how pretty you can be by thinking before you speak.

3/31/2017 9:52:49 AM
The more I learn, the less this place is for me. I'm just going to find ideas here. That's what this place is for. Ideas.

3/30/2017 4:22:57 PM
Come on. Sex is the easy part. Let's get the brain going.

3/30/2017 2:46:53 PM
Nope. My original thoughts are still here. Figured. Fake out of the net and fake on the net. Perhaps people like being sick and weak.

2/1/2017 9:00:52 AM
If this go around is good. I'm out of here.

1/29/2017 2:28:54 PM
Another time waster. Damn, I'm lucky.

12/25/2016 11:29:03 AM
I'm learning that people are just wasting my time.

12/8/2016 6:57:34 AM
Desire becomes, surrender. Surrender becomes, power.

11/16/2016 6:18:00 AM
Can I get a bit of intelligence, in this bitch.

11/14/2016 8:44:44 AM
I have finally decided that I am wasting my time here. There's only spammers and scammers here. Now I am just here for amusement.

11/12/2016 9:17:03 PM
I need a special type of girl. Now interviewing.

10/20/2016 6:52:32 PM
Come on.... Really? I need more than a sex toy. I'm not saying that I don't enjoy sex. I need you to be like a gem, multi faceted. It's pleasing to see all of your sides.

10/6/2016 3:38:16 PM
Come step deeper into the shadows with me. I have things to show you.

10/2/2016 7:36:01 AM
Attention. You have to give it to get it.

9/30/2016 7:52:49 PM
So there's no girls interested in tats. Interesting.

9/16/2016 7:32:13 PM
I want a couple of girls to model my art. Come on, don't be coy. I'm talking about a long term arrangement.

9/5/2016 6:02:42 PM
Keep it simple. You can get what you need easier that way.

8/31/2016 6:14:28 AM
I'm seriously going to need a couple of subs for long-term. I have need of two main jobs done. One for each.

7/27/2016 1:04:24 PM
I know that there's a woman that's just an object here. Come forth and be used and useful.

7/15/2016 11:20:19 AM
I want a girl that is into public display and humiliation. To wear a collar and know that the leash I hold can be attached at any time.

7/11/2016 2:01:28 PM
I need more than a girl for a play date. The last date was sexy as she crawled to me and settled at my feet. I want more. I want my own.

5/29/2016 8:12:18 AM
It takes teamwork to make you into my idea woman. You obeying, learning, listening, wanting and teaching. My job is to see that you do these things.

4/28/2016 5:23:44 PM
This place is for talkers and flakes. I thought it was a meeting place if you wanted to meet a person.

3/23/2016 9:56:20 AM
I have much to teach and not a follower to give guidance to. But, I will give this tidbit of information to those who want to learn. You slave for a faceless master, that doesn't even try to make you stronger, nor smarter. I am offering both.

2/16/2016 10:49:19 AM
This is very important. If you have any triggers, that will cause you to shut down. I need to know them. I don't want to have a surprise like that again.

1/11/2016 5:45:45 PM
I like broken toys.

12/28/2015 8:05:00 AM
Looking for test subjects. My curiosity for behavior modification is running high. I am looking for those that understand change. Meaning, you must have some degree of intelligence.

12/25/2015 7:34:36 AM
I must be getting ready to have a good year. Things just keep falling in place. Now let's see what good comes from here.

12/21/2015 2:47:43 PM
The only three things I like to hear, I, from a sub. I am, I will and I do.

12/17/2015 8:04:45 PM
I'm looking for at least someone interesting to stay in a conversation with.

12/2/2015 9:27:09 AM
Okay, just so it's clear. I know that women get tons of responses. If I look its the same difference. I have no time for you girls to wade through tons of mail to respond if you ever finish.

12/2/2015 9:04:27 AM
There's nothing like watching a girl gag on dick.

11/20/2015 5:09:33 PM
Damn what a search. Maybe I am being too picky.

8/2/2015 12:13:17 PM
There is nothing like watching a girl strain at her restraints. Unless she is at her peak and blindfolded.

7/28/2015 4:43:02 AM
For the open and intelligent. I'll be your Huckleberry. All you have to do is want it.

7/10/2015 6:39:04 AM
I know what I want. Do you?

7/3/2015 7:44:24 AM
Now I start the hard part. Finding a girl that can handle a high energy level.

6/30/2015 8:27:45 AM
I am up for video chat too. Skype or yahoo, I also have kik. Message if you are interested. I answer all.

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