Hi,

I am an experienced Dom. What does that mean. It means that I am a 52-year-old man. Who has had D/s relationships with four Ladies as his subs in his lifetime? I was married to two of them. I have been in mourning for this past year because I lost my latest sub to cancer just about a year ago. I am seeking a Lady to be my sub. She maybe older or younger than me or the exact same age as I. She maybe experienced or inexperienced as to being in a D/s relationship because we both have to grow and understand our relationship. We have to want to grow a relationship. We need to discover what mutually pleases us on all levels vanilla and D/s. We have to build trust in each other and agree up front not to hurt each other and prove it. We have to talk and discuss things. We need to explore each others minds, hearts and bodies.

What I am looking for is a Lady who understands the true width and breath of a D/s relation. She will know that what is referred to, as the vanilla side is a facade. There only is the D/s relationship between us. The vanilla side only hides the D/s side to outsiders. She seeks subspace. I have helped all four of my subs achieve it. At first I thought it was a fiction but it is not when a Lady is properly understood and the Dom is not selfish.

She is intelligent because her mind is her most erogenous organ. She is willing to live her life according to rules, which she has participated in setting. She wants guidance and correction. She wants warmth balanced with strictness. She wants strength in her Dom to rest on and depend on in return for her obedience. She has a sense of humor.

What am I like? I am possessive, strict, warm, a sense of humor, not a sadist, believes that you are not spared any correction no matter the time or the place or whom is present. I have degrees, a high corporate position, and good health. I travel a great deal.

Of course we are both adults.