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AnabelleLee
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It has been many years since I have been here, so, it is time to update this profile. Telling you who I am and what I am looking for, can not be summed up in a couple of paragraphs. In order to save you time from reading and weed out unwanted responses, I will start with what I am NOT interested in.
Please do not waste your time or mine, if you are searching for anything in the following list.
I have absolutely no interest in anything short term. Do not contact me if you are looking for hook-ups, random sessions, play groups, play dates, scenes, or individual/singular training (for you or your sub/slave). Nor do I have any interest in people wanting to remain locked up in a dungeon. Do not waste time writing, if you are only here for some variation of sexual gratification (kinky or otherwise). This includes, but is not limited to; sexting, cybersex, one night stands, lap dances, erotic massages, etc.
"Friend" collectors, "online" only, "pic" traders, or people who want to spend months emailing, need not apply. It would be an exercise in futility for scammers, trolls, cat-fishers, or fools by any other name (you know who you are), to contact me. I will not be sending you airfare to return stateside from Nairobi. I will not buy you from your master or some "training dungeon". I will not be providing you any of my banking information. Et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.
I am not interested in how much "lifestyle" experience, that you do or do not have. Sharing stories of your conquests, favorite positions, number of toys you have, or any of your special sexual superpowers, will leave me utterly and unequivocally unimpressed.
If you are searching for, or are the type of person listed above...I wish you well in your search, but you should leave this page now.
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Since you are still reading, I want to congratulate you. The odds are that you are one of the 5% of people. who are not here to pretend to be someone they are not and/or trying to live out some part-time fantasy. You may even be one of the few people, I would actually like to speak to. Continue reading to find out.
As you have undoubtedly concluded, I am not here for the fulfillment of some sexual fantasy. Nor am I here to waste my time with people who are. I have been around the block more times than the mailman. If I put notches on my bed post, it would look like a beaver attacked it. Please understand, I do not say this to impress you, but rather to impress upon you, that I am not in search of some simple kink.
I have shared plenty of things that I am not interested in. Now I would like to share some of what I would like to hear about.
Put into the simplest form; What do you seek and what do you offer in return? Basically, I would like to know what would make you an asset to me and what would you require for your service? What type of skills and experience (nonsexual) do you have? What are your hopes and aspirations? What do you need, to be your best self?
Over the past 40 years, I have lived many lives and closed many chapters. I will always carry those experiences with me, but now I am at the crux of a crucible. As I stand at the proverbial precipice, of this new beginning, I am looking for those who are willing to follow me and take the leap together.
All leaders were once followers, yet not all followers can lead. How you define yourself or what title you have adopted, means little to me. What I do care about, is your ability to serve.
With that being said, if you list yourself as anything other than sub or slave, I will probably not be making first contact with you. The reasoning should be self-evident. If you found this profile on your own, you should not expect me to contact you, simply because you show up on the "viewing me" tab. Take a moment to introduce yourself and I will be kind enough to reply (providing you do not send a one-liner).
In summary: I am searching for those with a servants heart, who I can help shape into their best self, while aiming their efforts toward a greater goal. I am looking for people, who want their skills and abilities used efficiently, to better all of our lives.
I care more for loyalty and dedication, than I do for experience or skill set. Most everyone can be trained to be of some use. Not everyone can be devoted.
A little bit about myself:
First off, in person, I try to be more approachable and humble, than I ever could seem in a profile. With that being said, I am rather self-assured, with a healthy dose of "amour propre". Then again, how many great men weren't at least borderline narcissistic?
Are you conceited, if you have evidence to support your claims? I do not feel the urge to be the best at any one thing, because I am good at just about everything I try.
You may not have picked up on it through my writing, but I often use humor and quick wit to disarm people. Although, often times you will find truth in jest. I am also confident enough, that I can easily make myself the brunt of a joke; especially if it will make someone else feel better about themselves.
Every I.Q. test I have ever taken was scored in the genius level (even the one I took while inebriated). See it is funny because I was intoxicated when I took the test, but the truth in jest, is that I really did score that high. Pun intended.
I got my diploma at 17 after attending 14 different schools. I was a military brat, so, I have traveled all over. This has given me a rather unique perspective and I can blend in just about anywhere. I am equally comfortable having dinner with "blue bloods" and politicians, as I am with ditch diggers and gang bangers.
I know a little bit of a lot of different languages, but I always act as if I know less. I almost always root for the underdog. I hate bullies with a passion. I am always willing to go one step further than my opposition. I push people to reach for their potential.
In my youth, I was a prize fighter and backroom brawler. I can be intimidating to many people, because of my stature and presence. It has been said, "Before the boogeyman goes to sleep, he checks his closet and under his bed, to make sure I am not there." I am very protective of my people, so there are times when that comes in handy.
I am a serial entrepreneur (been involved in many different businesses in various fields). I am more interested in creating jobs and bettering the lives of people around me, than I am with the idea of becoming "rich".
I started my first business and hired my first employees when I was 12. I have been lucky enough to meet many amazing people and mentors. Before I was 30 I had lost almost everything twice, in two different hurricanes.
I have lived on the street and I have been well to do. I prefer the latter. Money can't buy happiness, but it can get rid of a whole lot of unhappiness. By no means am I rich, but I live better than most people.
I became a father before I could legally buy alcohol. A few years later, I became a single father raising a little girl. If it wasn't for my mother and sister (sometimes), I would have ripped all my hair out. Now my daughter is grown and at the University, studying to be a doctor.
When I was a teen, I was introduced to cuckolding. The stories that could be told, originating in military housing, could make a porn star blush. A few years later, I was taught to be a Pro-Dom (male version of a findomme). I was paid to tour multiple private and public dungeons. Training multiple findommes was more fun and much more financially rewarding.
I listed nothing sexual in the "interests" section, because to me, these are just skills and they are easily taught. My interest in being back here, runs deeper that just kink or sex. As a matter of fact, serving me is by no means a guarantee that we would ever have sex. Nor would that dictate your level of importance to me.
Sadism from me, is something to be feared. If I what to harm you sadistically, there is a problem and you will be promptly and unceremoniously dismissed. "Funnishment", on the other hand, is a skill to be utilized as a reward. If you are the type of person who likes to anger others to get "punished", you would not do well here.
I will probably update and or adjust this in the near future. Feel free to ask me anything you wish. You may refer to me as Don.
p.s. Congratulations for reading this far.
I am a serial entrepreneur (been involved in many different businesses in various fields). I do not feel the urge to be the best at any one thing, because I am good at just about everything I try. I am more interested in creating jobs and bettering the lives of people around me, than I am with the idea of becoming "rich".
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So, there are a few questions, that seem to keep coming up, so, I will expand here.
First: I type the way that I think. That does not necessarily mean, that I type the way I speak. Subject matter will change, for most of you, depending on the company that you are speaking to. For me, my vocabulary, syntax, and even my accent will adapt to the people around me. What's more, is that I will not usually do this contentiously.
From living all over the country (generally in melting pot cities) and my travel throughout the world, I have met many people, from many different cultures. This exposure has made it easy for me to blend in with whomever I am surrounded by. Like the say, "When in Rome, fai come fanno i romani".
What I mean by long term: I prefer to find people who are looking for their "forever home", but 3 months is my minimum. It never fails, there is always few people who want to be trained as FinDommes and ProDoms, yet they think it can be done in a couple of days to a couple of weeks. For those people, if you are not willing to commit to a minimum of six months, then do not even ask me to mentor you. You will not master anything in that time, but you will at least be able to practice safe and sane techniques. Also, keep in mind that I am very selective and even more so when it comes to Doms/Dommes.
For slaves, subs, and switches: I am open to a 3-12 month trial period, but I am only accepting applicants who have the hopes of the trial leading to their forever home.
Last but not least, sex: For those who have dedicated themselves to me, I will strive to ensure that your kink and sexual needs are met. This does not mean that I will be having sex with you. I can pick up the phone or send an email, to any number of girl next door types to swimsuit models and they would gladly fly in from all corners of the globe, for an evening with me. Like I have said before, getting laid is easy. I do not say this to impress you, but rather impress upon you that I am only intimate with those who are special to me.
Sex and kink are the easy parts. If that is all that you are looking for or worried about, please keep moving elsewhere. |
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part 1...
For today, I am going to post an email I received and my response. There have been many who have wondered something similar, so, hopefully this will help prevent any confusion. The site is having problems with formatting and/or size, so, I am going to break it up into multiple parts.
Him:
Hello and Good Evening... Hope you are doing well Sir.
You have a very interesting and insightful profile Sir, but might I ask if you would be open to a older, more feminine gay male??
Hugs,
ronnie
My response:
Hello Ronnie,
Thank you for asking that question. I have been pondering the ways to add clarity, so that I might improve my profile. To answer your question, my openness is not based off of sexual preference or gender identification, but rather on one's value of service and personality.
When evaluating someone, there are three main questions that I ask myself. How much value will they bring into my life? How much effort will it take to ensure their needs are fully met? There are obviously other factors, that vary for each individual, yet these three are the core concern, for everyone. |
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part2...
While I am not opposed to any deor you have used, I do not have enough information, to give you a definitive answer. I would need to know more information about you and your personality, to provide a sufficient answer.
Over the years, I have learned that age has nothing to do with experience or maturity (one way or the other). I have had subordinates who ran the gambit from young to old and age was never a good benchmark. As for health; I have known teens with cancer and senior citizens who run marathons.
The same could be said about being a feminine gay male. I have known some that I have enjoyed being around and others that I would just a soon bitch-slap as look at them. The same sentence could be used for just about every stereotype and/or deor under the sun. |
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part 3...
In the past, I have been served by straight, gay, bi, and hetero-flexible men, women, and transgenders. As a Pro-Dom, about 65% of my past clientele were gay men. I never copulated with any of my clients, regardless of their gender or sexual preference. That is not to say, that I did not group others (who had given me control over their sexuality) together, but that was solely for their benefit. I did not do it for my own sexual gratification.
While I acknowledge there are both under and overtones of sexuality in bdsm, I only derive sexual arousal from women, therefore, I am straight. With that being said, if you feel that you need to be sexual with whom you devote yourself to, then I am not the one for you.
If you would like me to consider you, then tell me about yourself, why you would be an asset, and what you hope to get out of it. If so, I look forward to hearing back from you. If not, then I wish you well in your search.
-Don |
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Hello all,
Yes, I have not been here for a few years, but I did update my profile, a few days ago. I feel the body of the ad is a work in progress, so, I am sure there will be changes. Until I find the words and the time to do so, I will use the journal to help provide a better insight. |
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| Age: 28 |
| Annapolis,
Maryland |
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