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I enjoy bondage and the usual things that go along with it. That being said, I think the kind of woman who would like to spend time with me is the kind who is just starting out. A woman who likes the thought of being tied up, and also likes the nervous anticipation of her next torment or pleasure. I like stimulating the mind as much as the body ...well, that's not really true - mostly the body.
I don't consider the things I like as hardcore, but some might. Things I like are roleplay, strict bondage, gags, blindfolds, close pins, spanking, flogging, wax, figging, electric toothbrushes, ice cubes, TENs, tickling, and the wooden pony. I suffer from a conflict of interests because I'm attracted to nice skin. Therefore time with me will not result in deep bruising or broken skin, I have limits too.
To be truthful I don't have a lot of experience doing this but I do have some. I have done some pretty soft stuff with former girlfriends and I have met a few subs on chatlines that liked to play a little harder. I will ALWAYS respect limits and safewords, and err on the side of caution. I understand that this is not just about me and will do my utmost to make it an enjoyably intense experience for my partner.
I am a 45, 5'10" 170lbs, clean cut, swm. If you are interested or have any questions just send me a message.
MORE ABOUT ME:
I’m here to learn more about BDSM and to expand my horizons. To learn some tricks of the trade if you will. I’ve always been interested in bondage as far back as I can remember. As a kid, my friends and I would play cowboys and Indians and tie each other up and then struggle to get free. I was in the Boy Scouts and rope was a central theme. We spent a lot of time on camping trips practicing our lashings and knots trying to earn merit badges. I guess I’m a product of my environment and you can thank the Boy Scouts of America for a good chunk of that. Now that I think about it, I wonder how many guys in this group are former scouts.
I’ve always tried to question why I like the look of a tied up woman.... besides the obvious reasons, and I came up with the answer years ago. I think it is because of Gilligan’s Island. I was a Gilligan’s Island fanatic and watched it almost every day after school. The moment the switch was thrown in my body that made attracted to girls and not think of them as gross had to be moments before I watched a scene where Ginger and Mary Ann were tied up by some bad guy visitor to the island. What chance did I have when right after I was reprogrammed to be attracted to women, the first feminine visual I get is of two gorgeous women tied up? I say this because there is a scene with Ginger and Mary Ann sitting in the sand, tied up with their backs against a fallen tree that is still etched in my memory. That show turned a 2nd grader into a perv.
Up until a few years I was only interested in the B of BDSM. I was well aware of the DSM but they held no interest for me. While surfing for bondage pics I would occasionally stumble across other BDSM pics and they did nothing for me. Then one day while surfing I saw something I had to check out because I had no idea what it was. I clicked on two words and WHAM! I was changed. Those two words were ‘wooden pony’ and I read a very erotic description of a ride. The woman was bound with her hands over her head (so I was immediately interested), it described the predicament she was in: straining to stay up on her tiptoes, her breathing becoming labored, moaning into the ballgag, beads of sweat appearing on her body due to the exertion and glistening in the candlelight, eyes pleading for release, and when she could no longer hold herself up, her squirming on the wooden pony trying to find a comfortable position where none existed. It was very erotic and I was hooked. I wished I would have book marked it.
Once I became interested in the wooden pony I very quickly became interested in other things of torment. Things I had never liked before. I liked the life I had and was worried how sinister my new interests were going to get. They didn’t get much more sinister and I’ve been holding steady ever since. I started viewing clips of insex and liked some of what I saw, but on insex, what is a turn on can quickly become a turn off for me.
I figured I’m not a dominant, I must be a sadist if I like this stuff. Labeling myself a sadist never sat well with me because I’ve always thought of myself as a pretty nice guy. I think we all have our own interpretations of what we are, based on some vague standards. I read a link from a recent thread about sub vs slave. The author wrote about the differences between a sub and slave and then said something like some ‘subs’ and ‘slaves’ aren’t really subs or slaves at all but are vanillas into kink. Maybe that’s what I am - a vanilla guy into kink. Right now labeling myself is not important and I don’t need a label to define myself - I am what I am, and I’m try to explain what I am with no end in sight.
I think I am into torment and, just as importantly, pleasure because reactions to them are honest. It is refreshing to see honesty when there is so very little of it left in the world today. Mostly it is for the reactions though. I’m a fan of the female form and I guess I could liken myself to a sculptor, but instead of my work being a static piece it is a dynamic piece. A piece that I can stimulate physically and mentally. I hope I’m not laying it on too thick but I think this one paragraph sums me up and what I'm about in a nutshell.
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| Age: 33 |
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Ireland |
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