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One of the pleasant things about owning a slave, is the opportunity to converse with her, to listen to her, to hear her express herself, her feelings and ideas. One can learn much from a slave. Many slaves are highly intelligent. They can express themselves articulately, clearly, trenchantly, and lyrically. It is a great pleasure to talk with them. Then when one wishes, one puts them again on their knees.
D/s is about relationships--trust and communication. It is not always about love. It is not always about orgasms. But it should always include communication--frank, honest, potentially hurtful, potentially freeing and enlightening communication.
Submission is a gift given for a life time, not just at Christmas.
The lifestyle that we have each chosen is not a path of one-upsmanship, and we don't get points in the astral plane for having attended more seminars or gone to more retreats.
The measure of a Dom isn’t necessarily the condition of his current sub…it’s the condition his past subs were in when he left.
Whereas psychology considered masochism as a disease, pre-nineteenth century religion regarded it as a cure. The ancients were in touch with the spiritual, physical and emotional value of masochism. For them, it was an essential part of reality; a combination of the soul in a tortured state, rapturous delight, exquisite pain and unbearable passion that brought them closer to experiencing union with something greater than their individual egos.
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