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The sexual stuff: I doubt my particular brand of sexuality will be accepted here, but I'm willing to put this out there and hope. Predominately I'm a sub, and I'm interested in submitting to a feminine goddess. I'm willing to completely lose myself in the irresistible allure of feminine domination. However, few self-claimed goddesses have the seductive charm to lure me into their web of subjection. I'm a tough catch...I can't worship just any lady that calls herself a goddess. I also embrace being a switch. However, my dominant side is not nearly as BDSM related as my submissive side. I retain a fully intelligent, masculine personality, and I embrace my ability to physically conquer. I don't need toys or restraints to make a woman squirm. I only need the strength of my body and the skill of my fingers. I've been the "first guy" to drive a woman over the edge more than once. I think it is this masculine side that fuels my desire for a goddess. Although I can conquer with sheer physical force, it is only a true goddess that can conquer with desire. A true goddess controls my passions before I could possibly submit my body: my masculine physicality. I know female dominants are rare, and I know what I have to say here may seem awful picky for a submissive, but honestly, I'm willing to wait. If my enchantress isn't here, I can go without...going without is probably what I'd be doing anyways. Just because I believe it's smart, I want to express limits beforehand. I don't have many, but strict limits include STDs, smoking, anything public, and toilet/fecal. The non-sexual stuff: I am a psychologist, philosopher, writer and entrepreneur. There is nothing I enjoy more than an intellectual conversation about those "taboo" topics of religion, politics, or philosophy. I love these areas so much that I've chosen to make a living out of them. Personal development is my life. Everything I do is another step on the continuum of becoming a better individual, and it is why I'm not interested in being a live-in sub...I have personal goals too! For any long-term D/s (or vanilla) relationship, I need to be fed a very abundant diet of intellect, exploration (physical, mental, and sexual), and all forms of Asian chicken. I'm quite shy, so I haven't posted a picture. However, I'll give one upon request.
southernbrunette
 
 Age: 30
 Auckland, New Zealand