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Dom/Switch Couple, 63/53,  Deventer, Netherlands
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Submission is a gift, born out of strength, fed by trust and kept by regards and respect.I am a dominant man of 63 years. I am just that.

Im 1,77m, 85 kg, dark blond hair, greymulticolor eyes,

Living in the Netherlands.I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part. Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser. I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body. I am not, nor would I want to be dominant with all women. Yet to you, I am Master. I am your Master only after earning your trust and I embrace your submissiveness. I have looked into your heart and mind and clearly see your desires and passions. You have thrown away your fears and inhibitions. You tell me of the needs of your heart and body. You have given me total access to your soul, and I accept the responsibility and honour. You are a woman. You are not weak or inferior because of it. You are a treasure to be cherished. We are not equal. I have the strength of body and mind and the instinctive need to protect, possess, defend and provide for you. You are a woman and instinctively stronger of will and heart. Your belief in me gives me courage and direction. Your strength disperses my doubt. Your needs and desires encourage and give purpose to my efforts. We are not equal. We are parts of a whole. We compliment each other and make each other complete. My desire to dominate you is instinctive. It is not to degrade you nor is it degrading to you because you are secure in being totally feminine. We each recognize and accept our worth, and our need for someone to trust and fulfil our needs. You are sure, strong and proud in your womanhood. You do not submit as acceptance of inferiority, but from strength and passion. You expect a man to stand strong and be a man. You desire and flourish in the strength and control of a man. In return you present control of your body, unqualified trust and honesty, and the faithfulness of your heart. You submit because I have earned your trust,because I have opened my heart and soul to you, because I have listened to your words with my ears and heart and have learned to anticipate your needs and emotions. And because I have proven worthy in your eyes, you have given me the only true treasure of life you have given me dominance over you. What you give is not abnormal, but pure, natural and the most beautiful gift a woman could give a man. You have given me complete and unshakable assurance of your commitment to me. Your submissiveness is a magnificent gift and sacred responsibility. I accept this from you with humility and joy. I understand the rarity and purity of this gift. I recognize it is your body and soul, your heart and mind. I dominate you only because you have allowed it. I dominate only because you have allowed me to and when I see your body kneel before me, in my mind and heart you are raised above all other women and all the treasures of the earth. What you give freely cannot in reality be bought and if it could, it would never mean the same.













Gender Identity:










 5' 10"

 85 lbs




Gender Identity:










 5' 2"

 67 lbs



Actively Seeking:

Submissive Transgender

Submissive Female

Switch Women

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Friends Only

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

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 Lifestyle BDSM (Expert)


 Fine Dining (Expert)


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 Canes and Crops (Expert)

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 Exhibitionism (Expert)

 Local BDSM Community (Expert)

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Journal Entries:
4/20/2017 2:26:37 AM

“I want to be used, humiliated, and broken. That’s all I want. Why can’t I find someone to destroy me?”

Because, hopefully, the people you are talking to realize that when you ask them to break you, you are also asking them to take responsibility for you.

Breaking someone is easy. Fucking with their body and head is simple.

Cleaning up the mess after, being responsible for that person, making sure that they make it back from that pit you’ve dropped them down, that’s the difficult and dangerous part.

Don’t be so quick to condemn someone because they aren’t willing to jump in with both feet and ruin you the way you fantasize. You likely don’t fully understand what it is you’re asking of them.

3/19/2017 10:00:43 AM
De afgelopen dagen geconfronteerd met een heel zielig persoon, die eerst verkondigd dat ik fake ben en mij blokkeert, als ik wil aantonen dat ik dat niet ben (zie mijn eigen profiel anne1965) en als mijn Mr hierop reageert vanaf dit account met weer een ongefundeerde mening komt en ons ook hier blokkeert.

Ik wil de geïnteresseerde lezers deze mailwisseling niet onthouden, temeer daar deze persoon hier aangeeft 51 jaar te zijn, maar al 7 jaar een leef profiel heeft op Fetlife met de zelfde nick, waar wordt aangegeven dat hij 59 is....:

Sempie48 on 3/18/17 at 3:43 PM:
  Ach, laat ook maar: "get a life", sukkels!
  Sempie48 on 3/18/17 at 3:39 PM:
  Eénzijdig beeld...wanneer voor het laatst in de spiegel gekeken?
...ach, laat ook maar: niet waard om hier nog langer tijd en energie in te steken.
Feit is en blijft dat er een serieus steekje fout zit bij jou/jullie, maar ik ga dat gevecht niet aan: "wat baten bril en kaars... ". Mailhistorie en beeldmateriaal is en blijft "safe" bewaard.

  DutchDsCouple on 3/18/17 at 12:02 PM:
  Toch een leuk gesprek dat je hebt gevoerd met iemand waar je nog nooit van hebt gehoord en oja ik kan je ook nog een beeldschermprintje sturen, waarop is te zien dat je haar profiel hebt bezocht, dus ach wie is er nu echt fake? Message History Sempie48: Bewijs is geleverd, je hebt jezelf veroordeeld als nepperd. Sempie48: zeker weer eens te lang in de spiegel gekeken, en nog steeds niet in staat tot een normaal gesprek... tsss...."zo ken ik je weer" sinds wanneer ken jij mij, wanneer hebben wij elkaar ooit gesproken, laat staan ontmoet? Leg met dat eens uit! Is dat piemeltje van jou misschien een beetje te klein, en krijg je dat niet meer omhoog? anne1965: Weet je wat zo leuk is, op het moment dat jij gaat verkondigen dat ik volgens jou fake ben, zal iedereen in dit wereldje die er echt toe doet jou gaan uitlachen, omdat jij zelf door de mand bent gevallen) Gift the Support of FetLife

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After 7,5 years of living apart together into a D/s relation we finaly got our ceremony of the Roses. This was a very special day for both of us with some very special and close friends

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