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Hetero Male Dominant, 40,  Durham, North Carolina
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 Dominant Male


 North Carolina

 6' 1"

 145 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

 Lives For:

 Travel (Expert)

 Soccer (Expert)


 Coffee Shops  (Expert)

 Movies (Expert)


 Exhibitionism (Expert)

 Massage (Getting) (Expert)

 Massage (Giving) (Expert)

 Orgasm Control

 Public Play  (Expert)

 Vibrators (Expert)

 Role Playing Games (Expert)

 Web Surfing


 History (Expert)

 Intellectual Discourse (Expert)



 Art Galleries

 Fine Dining

 Flea Markets


 Bicycling (Beginner)

 Camping (Beginner)

 Yoga (Beginner)

 Blindfolds (Expert)


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Humiliation (Expert)

 Wax play (Beginner)

 Card Games


 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows

 Science Fiction

 Simulation Games

 Political Activism




 Curious About:

 1950s Household (Beginner)


 Anal Play (Beginner)

 TV News

 Conservative Politics (Expert)

 Liberal Politics  (Expert)



 Horror Movies

 Hard Limits:


 Electrical Play



 Computer Expert


Native to NC but you would not suspect this in speaking to me.

I would describe myself as fairly educated, respectful intensely passionate. Travel aficionado. Also a bit of an exhibitionist. I like the mental aspects of being a Dom much more than the physical. The brain is such a wonderful sexual organ, and when 2 people click, trust each other, have that spark of passion...there is nothing like it.

So I am seeking an intelligent but submissive woman to eventually live travel with me. I go to Europe at least once year. I do not want online-only. I also do not want children, which I understand turns a lot of women off considering me, but there you have it. Im not looking to hide anything in that regard.

Gradually adding new photos.

UPDATE Im in a writing mood tonight (8May), so Ill add a bit more...on the topic of children, I had a pretty atrocious childhood. I grew up in abject poverty and my father was directly to blame. He was negligent, at best, willfully lazy and verbally abusive at worst. Ive adjusted by healthily writing off part of my family. All of my immediate family is dead, anyway.

Im a dog person through through. I have rescued 3 (not at the same time) and that number will only rise.

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