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I found this quote and asked persmission to repost.
"You are given a certain amount of respect because everyone gets that...that respect can grow or diminish. "
Thanks velvetandlace. I active member with the Rochester Kink Society (RKS). I have also begun to visit other groups within a couple of hour drive. I enjoy meeting new people with common interests. The Masochist desires to experience stronger sensations, but desires that it should be inflicted with Love. The Sadist desires to inflict stronger sensations, but desires that it should be felt as Love."
Thanks Scytta for the use of the quote from your profile. "If we are the total sum of all our choices, then we cannot change who we are. However, with every new choice we make, we can change who we will be."
Here is some advice:
(1) If there is someone on this site that you "click" with insure that you are upfront and let them know if your situation allows you to move the relationship "forward" or not.
(2) Even the little lies can hurt, insure what you are telling that person is the truth.
(3) If you can not committ to a relationship, let that person know.
(4) Being polite and truthful is the way to go.





"submissives need to be told what to do, slaves need to do what they are told"
7/5/2012 7:15:25 AM

RKS Social Tonight.

WWW.RochesterKinkSociety.com

6/8/2012 6:11:47 PM

The RKS Social was well attended last night, a lot of new people. Tomorrow is the workshop on negotiating and aftercare and then the party :)

 

FYI - We are looking to expand our space and if all goes well, we will have the biggest play space on the east coast :)

5/24/2012 6:33:56 AM
Rks party this Saturday. I have asked a close friend to take on my girl for additional training, so far so good.
1/21/2012 11:57:46 AM
Check out the newest RKS group Kink Classic on Com. A group for those 35 and over.
9/1/2011 10:43:09 AM

RKS Social tonight - looking forward to seeing our kinky friends and making new ones :)

8/4/2011 4:29:15 AM

RKS Social tonight :)

7/9/2011 4:52:18 PM

My girl and I worked on my house most of today. So we will be going to the RKS party tonight but not staying long..

4/30/2011 12:42:06 PM

RKS Party tonight - meeting up with old and new friends :)

4/16/2011 7:42:15 AM

PEP Wrapped party tonight :)

4/13/2011 8:37:10 PM

The Buffalo PEP Wrapped party has been moved to our location in Rochester instead of canceling :)

4/7/2011 4:13:46 AM

RKS Social tonight - come out and meet some like minded people :)

3/26/2011 1:48:54 PM

The last RKS party was fun. The "after party" was fun too ;). The next day my girl made up a new term called the "Threesome Hangover". That is when you are so tired from the extra sex,fun and lack of sleep you have because of a threesome that is feels like a hangover.

Another RKS Party tonight, I am transporting a friend from the U of R - I get to spank her as payment and our friend from Buffalo is supposed to be coming (I mean cumming) tonight as well.

:)

 

 

3/12/2011 6:56:21 AM

RKS Party tonight with my girl and our friend from out of town!

3/11/2011 4:20:50 AM

A woman that I met at an RKS event (RJ Cold on FL) just moved to Japan three days ago. Luckily she is not in a Tsnumai (sp) area and the earthquake has not hit her area of Japan to hard. MY thoughts and prayers go out to the nation of Japan and all other nations that will be affected by the Tsnumai (sp)...

3/6/2011 7:43:56 AM

Today is the one year anniversary of my girl and I dating exculsively (sp)!!

3/4/2011 9:56:25 AM
The social was great although it felt as if my brains were on fire this morning. Tonight is the RKS first Friday party and it looks like I will be doing two scenes with two lovely ladies :)
3/3/2011 7:34:07 AM
RKS Social tonight :) It will be great to see my friends and welcome new people to the group..
2/26/2011 12:10:43 PM

My girl and I were crowned the King and Queen at the RKS Prom!

Tonight is another RKS Party and dinner with some friends!

2/12/2011 6:46:53 AM

RKS's Kinky Prom tonight :)

2/3/2011 4:24:57 AM

RKS Social tonight!

1/30/2011 8:01:16 AM
Another great RKS party (and my girl has the marks to prove it) with some great scenes as well as new faces...
1/29/2011 6:29:02 AM

Flogging 101 class and RKS party tonight!!

1/8/2011 8:04:41 AM

Dinner with friends and then off to the RKS Party.

I have also taken more of an interests in rope work and have begun to attend classes at a friends house and soon the RKS rope night classes.

12/11/2010 10:29:36 PM
Another great RKS party.
12/3/2010 1:09:33 PM
RKS party tonight!
12/2/2010 9:12:53 AM
RKS social tonight :)
11/25/2010 12:42:23 PM
HAPPY THANKSGIVING to all my collarme.com friends. I hope you all have something to be thankful for.
11/6/2010 6:54:09 AM

RKS Party tonight and I will be learning Floretine (sp) whipping. Now I have an excuse to purchase better whips with swivels - anyone looking to volunteer as a target :) 

11/4/2010 1:04:45 PM

RKS Social Tonight!

11/4/2010 8:50:35 AM
RKS social tonight!!
10/30/2010 8:47:53 AM

Woo Hoo - RKS Halloween party tonight!!

10/9/2010 7:03:55 AM
RKS Auction and Party Tonight!!!!
10/8/2010 8:14:54 AM
I had a great time at the RKS Social last night and I am looking forward to the RKS party tomorrow night!
8/14/2010 7:29:25 AM
Woo Hoo - RKS Party tonight. I feel honored when newbies to RKS and BDSM ask me to have their first ever scene with them. It really makes me happy to know that they have seen that they can trust me and have the courage to usually scene for the first time in front of a crowd.
7/2/2010 10:31:34 AM
Have a great Fourth of July - Play safe !
6/2/2010 9:29:27 PM

My girl had her double Mestecomy (sp) last month and will start her chemo this coming Friday.  

4/26/2010 3:55:08 AM

Time for an update.

The woman I am currently seeing and I are doing well. We have expanded our play at RKS to include friends and we even had a 4 Dom on 3 slave group scene which was great. My girl also has no problem with me topping other woman (she loves to give ideas from the sidelines). I also co topped a female friend of ours with another switch female friend. The positive comments we got after the scene were great. I look forward to co topping again.

On a sadder note, my girl has her breast cancer operation this Friday. We are all pulling for a positive as possible outcome but we know she is getting a double Mastecomy (sp). Between her family and our vanilla and RKS friends we have a lot of support.

4/4/2010 8:59:08 PM
 -Put this in your profile if you know someone who has survived or died of cancer-
3/27/2010 6:47:28 AM
Going to the Rochester Erotic Arts Festival this weekend at the Harrow East Ballroom. I already heard that it is was a it is a lot of fun.
3/13/2010 9:41:58 AM
My slave and I decided it was the best for both of us if we no longer had a M/s relationship. I will always value her friendship and I wish nothing but the best for her and her new Master.
I have been attending more RKS events and I really feel comfortable with the people and the play space. I am greatly for all the great people in my life.
11/4/2009 3:52:39 AM
I just am not on CM as much as I used to be!!
10/4/2009 3:17:08 PM
My slave and I had a great time in Jamestown. I purchased a new flogger from our friend Angel. We also tested out the new toys (gags,blindfolds,etc). My slave did an outstanding job (even if she feels that she did not) and I am looking forward to the next time we can get together.
8/2/2009 11:22:45 PM
Mmmm - the delicous fun that I am having with my slave via the phone. I have been able to make her cum, in a room full of people just by describing a "session" with her. It thrills me to know that she is sitting there, attempting to remain calm and focused and yet she struggles not to let the others in the room know she is cumming. Ah, the power of a voice and a descriptive narration.
7/18/2009 9:44:25 PM
I am saddened that my friend went to have a session with someone who she considered a friend. Only to have the entire weekend fall apart because she could not "put her life on hold for him" and commit to being his 24/7. The worst part is her deep sense of loss as she feels she has lost a friendship. I hope he reconsiders at least keeping the friendship, she is worth knowing and being friends with.
7/9/2009 8:58:35 AM
I met some really great people on this site, however surrenderme2u has a special place in my heart, she is smart, funny and "gets me" and understands where I am in my life right now. I smile each time I get an e-mail from her and it is a pleasure to be her on-line Dom.
6/23/2009 12:17:56 PM
Looks can be deceiving...
Although a person can appear as healthy as they can be given a situtation..inside the cancers still grow..we did not know how long any of us really have and it sucks to know that someone I love will not be around for the long journey through life..
I am not in a really good place right now....
6/21/2009 7:54:37 PM
Happy Father's Day!
6/13/2009 7:18:46 AM
Hey there - I hope that all of my friends have been doing well, I have not been as diliegent as I should be in getting back to many of you. Things have been crazy but I have been able to handle most of it.
5/26/2009 3:07:35 PM
Mirage–noun
1. an optical phenomenon, esp. in the desert or at sea, by which the image of some object appears displaced above, below, or to one side of its true position as a result of spatial variations of the index of refraction of air.
2. something illusory, without substance or reality.

Sometime I believe that at times I see things that are not there. I am overlooking my current situation and I need to refocus my efforts.
5/24/2009 7:42:19 AM
OK - If someone blocks your e-mails, it makes it very hard to communicate. Again, I have been accused of toying with people and that is not my intention. I have met some great people on this site however, I will again state that I am not looking for a slave/submissive. I would rather speak with and learn from othere. Our conversation have not all been BDSM and I enjoy hearing about the "normal" aspects of peoples lives.
Each of us have different levels of skills and experiances. Some LIVE this lifestyle and some view from the "sidelines".
5/12/2009 5:39:10 PM
Which would make You happier.  "Knowing Your sub can get up and walk out but doesn't, or knowing she can't and probably wants to?"
by MyTotalSurrender.
5/9/2009 8:02:25 PM
"Just because a man is a Dom, doesn't mean He can't be a gentleman"

Respect is earned not forced and submission given is sweeter than taken.

4/29/2009 2:30:26 PM
A quote of my own:
"As your body takes the pain and the tormet you can lose yourself, and finally find yourself."
MistressQueenP
 
 Age: 50
 Bellevue, Washington