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| I am 24, a submissive and a well rounded person.
Outside of the realm of kink and BDSM I have a TON of varied interests; cooking, philosophy, sports, politics, economics... a wide breadth of other interests. I like to think of myself as a Renaissance man.
On the other side, the side everyone cares about, I thought I would list my particular fetishes and stuff. Collarme does a good job of providing general topics, but I wouldn't mind divulging some more of the specifics in conjunction w/ those broad topics.
-Latex/Rubber (My #1 Fetish of all)
*Masks/hoods
*Total Enclosure/Rubber Bondage
-Bondage/Discipline
-Gags/Hoods
-Light to Moderate S/M
-Humiliation/Degradation
-Forced Feminization
-Forced Smoking
-Objectification
-Breathplay
-Medical Scenes
-Roleplay
-Toilet Service
-Anal Training (Strap-ons, plugs, etc)
-Foot/Body Worship
-Mild-Moderate CBT
-Tons of others, feel free to ask.
My interest list is more of a "check all that apply"; meaning that though I am into these things, a few of them do not need to be be integral parts of a D/s relationship.
If any of this is appealing, or if there's just a desire for socialization, feel free to message me. I generally respond to almost E/everyone, unless T/they aren't worth responding to.
As for what I am looking for, I want first and foremost a RELATIONSHIP. A real, live, (not online) relationship that is built around trust, communication, and eventually love (not me paying "tribute" to garner your time and/or attention.) To be honest, I give of MYSELF to Others, and the gift of myself, my trust, my devotion, obedience, my body, my heart, my submission... is far more valuable than coin. And, I seek the same as I am willing to give. And that too, is far more than any sum of money.
Let me make this pointedly clear;
Anyone that I talk to/talks to me, starting the conversation with something like "Cam on now slave, list limits, no, you can't see any photos of me or see my cam in return'' (or something to that affect) then you will be promptly asked to leave me alone. I am a submissive, but I am a rational human being first and foremost.
This is more than a 'game' and submissives do not exist as a canvas for you to randomly and anonymously explore your God complex. Its about trust, and building relationships. If that's not for you- feel free to pass me over. Dommes like that are a dime-a-dozen.
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I think I am going to take a hiatus from CollarMe. Its turned from a legitimate place to meet other like minded people, a place where you can build friendships and even relationships to... well, something less. I'll just leave it at that.
Either way, its bothered me and worn on me enough to cause me to (temporarily) abandon usage of the site for the reasons I previously mentioned. I'll most likely come back at some point in the intermediate future, and I will continue to reply to messages that I get sent, and maybe even pop on to see if there are any new members in my area... but, that's about it.
Take care A/all!
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First Update In Awhile...
... I deleted my old entries, and am starting anew. Hopefully I'll keep this thing (reasonably) updated this time!
My recent development:
I found myself struggling with a new side of myself, a dominant side of all things which swung my from "sub/slave" to "switch" on the Power Continuum. After much analysis and introspection, I realized that the emergence of said side was the result of a bit of frustration with my search. Somehow, I internalized my lack of play and/or relationships/interaction; it built up until I more or less created my "ideal Top"- but in the form of this dominant alter-ego. However, after getting to the root of the problem it has essentially disappeared as quickly as it came. Really wacky stuff, haha!
A Brief Expansion:
I periodically re-and for O/other's indulgence) I figured I'd post the findings here.
As to what I have to offer; I'm smart, witty, well read, and knowledgeable. I'm caring, compassionate, empathetic. I enjoy making others happy, seeing smiles on their faces that are results of my words or actions. I'm well rounded... masculine, and yet know my place as a slave. Pardon me if that came across as arrogant, but it is hard to craft a "what makes me special?" without sounding as such.
As to my ideal situation; I think a captioned, multi-paneled picture I saw one time sums it up best. In the first panel, a Domme has her male slave (presumably her husband by the way the caption is worded) bound and gagged, with her hand gently cupping his chin, turning his gag-harnessed face up to look at her as she speaks. The caption reads: "I'm going to use you in ways you never imagined, humiliate, degrade, and abuse you... but don't forget I do it because I love you & I always will". In the next panel, she gets to work.
It is a tight rope to walk. Balancing the whole "you are My slave, My property, My plaything for My use" with a true, deep love for the slave that exists outside of the BDSM context.
It is a tight rope to walk. Balancing the whole "I am a worm, an object for Her pleasure. I need her use, I live for Her domination, I am addicted to the ideology of Her superiority" while maintaining a true, deep love for the Domme that also exists outside of the BDSM context.
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| Age: 56 |
| Perth,
Australia |
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