I'm a laid back, easy-going guy, with a freaky streak. I don't have much experience with this sort of thing, and I don't want to become a hardcore Dom.

My first passion is travel. I have been to over 20 countries, and have spent almost five years of my life abroad. I love Manhattan's nightlife, although I prefer restaurants and bars over night clubs. Philosophical and political discussions are always nice. My personal views are extremely liberal, but I can have a good conversation with someone whether they agree with me or not. I exercise regularly, but I'm no gym rat. I also enjoy the occasional poker game.

I am married. I don't want to get into too much detail about my situation here. I'll just say that I have a very vanilla wife. She knows that I am looking to meet other people, and she is o.k. with it. I'll explain in more detail through email.

I am seeking a woman who likes to go out and have a good time. She should be sexually submissive, but independent in the other aspects of her life.

I have too many turn-ons to describe here, but lately I have been wanting to expirament with role-playing. I have also spent a lot of time fantasing about kinky personae beneath respectable facades. For instance, suppose we went out for dinner and drinks, and you wore normal, everyday clothes, so that no one who encountered you throughout the course of the evening would have any reason to suspect that there was anything at all nasty about you. You might turn me on, and we might go somewhere and have amazing sex. Yet if you wore the same outfit, but I knew that underneat it you were wearing stockings and garters with no panties, or maybe nipple clamps, or possibly even a plug of some sort... My God, by the time we got somewhere where we could be alone, I would be so turned on that I would have to rip the clothes from your body.